In this episode, we introduce Wunmi Kayode's mum and our newest member. She's an advocate and creative force, who unapologetically shares her story of baby loss.

We talk about silence around loss particularly when there is no living baby, how different the reality of grief is depending on our truth. This is a tender, honest conversation about love, loss, and the layered experiences that often go unseen.

Grab a tea and sit with us as we have an intimate girls chat on the ups and downs of being the one whose baby died.

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Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/

In this episode, Helena is joined by Wunmi, Kayode’s mama.

Wunmi tenderly shares the story of her son, Kayode, who was born on the 23rd of December 2023 a strong baby boy with the most beautiful, expressive eyes, just like his mama. From the moment he arrived, he showed strength and presence lifting his head with confidence, even in his first few weeks of life.

Wunmi speaks openly about her pregnancy journey, which was deeply impacted by hyperemesis gravidarum. She recalls funny moments like missing Beyoncé’s concert or the brain fog that comes with pregnancy.

She then shares the heartbreaking moments when Kayode’s health took a sudden turn. After developing sepsis, her concerns for her son were not taken seriously, and his condition deteriorated quickly. Wunmi and her family spent three emotional and sacred weeks at Acorns Children’s Hospice, where they eventually said "See you later" to their precious boy.

Through love and courage, Wunmi keeps Kayode’s name alive. This episode honours his life, his strength, and the everlasting bond between a mother and her son.

To follow Wunmi’s reflections and the ways she continues to mother Kayode, you can find her on instagram https://www.instagram.com/lolaandkayode/

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Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/

Sorry for the break, but we're back!

In this episode, Chelsey and Helena catch up from their last chat.

It will be a conversation on what's new with us, our mental health and a new host on the way.

This episode contains conversations about pregnancy after loss and living children, Chelsey also shares that she is currently expecting - please feel free to skip this one if it can be triggering for you.

Thank you for all your support until now.

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Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/

Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/

This episode was recording on the 19th of December 2024.

In this episode Helena is joined by Sonia Pietrangelo, Autumn's mama.

Sonia beautifully reminisces on the times she spent pregnant with her daughter, Autumn who was born on the 29th December 2023. Sonia, shares her journey into motherhood through IUI and using her spiritually to intentional help with her conception.

We learn about how Autumn's name was chosen, the Harry Potter storytimes with her dad and the heartbreaking day Sonia learnt about her departure.

Through and with Autumn, Sonia has been able to connect with and start beautiful initiatives to support bereaved mothers from retreats to heartfelt instagram posts on @autumnswhisperss

Please find them here:
https://www.instagram.com/autumnswhisperss/

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Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/

Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/

In this short but heartfelt episode, Helena and Chelsey reflect on the complexities of Mother’s Day for those grieving whether it’s the loss of a mother or the loss of a child. While both hosts feel a certain detachment from the day, they acknowledge the ways it can feel alienating, especially when the world seems to celebrate it so loudly.

Together, they think out loud about how Mother’s Day could be more inclusive, recognising those who feel like “half a mum” and those who would rather avoid it all together. Though neither of them fully connects with the day, they believe it’s because it’s impossible to ignore.

A little message is left for the Mother's with no Earthside babies, a side hardly spoken about but one that needs acknowledged. Mother's without Earthside children need 10x more attention.

Find Us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/remembermeourbabies/

Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/

Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/

In this episode, Chelsey is joined by Jesse’s mama, Arrieanne. She lovingly reflects on the short but meaningful time she had with her son, Jesse, who tragically passed away two weeks after birth due to complications from PPROM causing his birth at 31 weeks. Jesse was Arrieanne's first boy she shares how she navigates her grief while being a mother to three living girls.

Arrieanne talks about the books she has written to help her children through their grief, giving them a way to process their emotions which something she also offers hospitals.

She speaks about the service she organised at her local church to support bereaved parents during Baby Loss Awareness Week. This service offers a safe space for parents to share and find support.

Arrieanne also recalls the emotional journey of losing Jesse, how her life is forever changed, the things that used to matter don't matter anymore.

For anyone navigating the grief after baby loss feeling alone and needing a community free to connect with us.

Find Us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/remembermeourbabies/

Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/

Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/

In this episode Helena and Chelsey open up about the different ways they have coped and survived in their grief after losing their babies. They reflect on how their methods of coping have evolved over the years.

Helena shares how Spiritism has been her saving grace, offering her an evidence-based belief that spirit continues beyond the physical world. Chelsey discusses how writing her book, Remembering Eli, became an essential outlet for her grief—a guide she wishes she had in the early days of loss.

Through heartfelt conversation, they explore the importance of finding what truly resonates with you in grief, whether it’s faith, creativity, or something entirely personal. This episode is a reminder that there’s no one way to grieve, but a way to survive.

Note: This episode was recorded before Christmas 2024.

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Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/

Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/

In this episode William’s mum Thalia shares how on the night of the 14th November 2024 she started feeling cramps. As a first time mum she thought these were Braxton Hicks, however as they intensified she quickly realised she needed to go to the hospital.

On the 15th November, Thalia gave birth to her son who was sadly no longer breathing. In this episode, you'll hear the story beautiful of William's life in the womb. You'll hear the story of how his name was chosen, how he made his mama crave nothing but meat, how his parents nicknamed him Tamagachi at one point and how his dad would play the guitar to him.

Thalia also openly shares the heartbreaking moment of his loss, detailing the moment she arrived in the hospital and how quickly things tragically progressed.

Join us in this story of love and loss.

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Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/

Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/