In this episode, we introduce Wunmi Kayode's mum and our newest member. She's an advocate and creative force, who unapologetically shares her story of baby loss.

We talk about silence around loss particularly when there is no living baby, how different the reality of grief is depending on our truth. This is a tender, honest conversation about love, loss, and the layered experiences that often go unseen.

Grab a tea and sit with us as we have an intimate girls chat on the ups and downs of being the one whose baby died.

Find Us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/remembermeourbabies/

Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/

Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/

In this episode, Helena is joined by Wunmi, Kayode’s mama.

Wunmi tenderly shares the story of her son, Kayode, who was born on the 23rd of December 2023 a strong baby boy with the most beautiful, expressive eyes, just like his mama. From the moment he arrived, he showed strength and presence lifting his head with confidence, even in his first few weeks of life.

Wunmi speaks openly about her pregnancy journey, which was deeply impacted by hyperemesis gravidarum. She recalls funny moments like missing Beyoncé’s concert or the brain fog that comes with pregnancy.

She then shares the heartbreaking moments when Kayode’s health took a sudden turn. After developing sepsis, her concerns for her son were not taken seriously, and his condition deteriorated quickly. Wunmi and her family spent three emotional and sacred weeks at Acorns Children’s Hospice, where they eventually said "See you later" to their precious boy.

Through love and courage, Wunmi keeps Kayode’s name alive. This episode honours his life, his strength, and the everlasting bond between a mother and her son.

To follow Wunmi’s reflections and the ways she continues to mother Kayode, you can find her on instagram https://www.instagram.com/lolaandkayode/

Find Us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/remembermeourbabies/

Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/

Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/

Sorry for the break, but we're back!

In this episode, Chelsey and Helena catch up from their last chat.

It will be a conversation on what's new with us, our mental health and a new host on the way.

This episode contains conversations about pregnancy after loss and living children, Chelsey also shares that she is currently expecting - please feel free to skip this one if it can be triggering for you.

Thank you for all your support until now.

Find Us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/remembermeourbabies/

Maila's Present - https://www.instagram.com/mailaspresent/

Remembering Eli - https://www.instagram.com/remembering.eli/

Chelsey Tookey - https://www.instagram.com/chelseytookey/