• 358 - Becoming Authentically You (Women's Takeover)
    May 14 2024

    It’s here—a NEW group resource for single women!

    What does it look like to live sexually healthy as a single woman?

    Today, authors Heather Kolb and Ashley Jameson join us to talk through our new resource for single women, Authentically You.

    They talk through who is the target audience, what makes Authentically You unique, the differences between this new resource and other resources we have for women, and much more!

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    Behind the Mask (Recovery Resource for Student Women)

    Unraveled (Recovery Resource for Married Women)

    Authentically You (Recovery Resource for Single/Unmarried Women)

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    24 mins
  • 357 - Healthy Separation
    May 7 2024

    “Separation” is usually a swear word for church folk.

    This is understandable when it’s done wrong. But separation can actually be a healthy tool used for the restoration of a marriage.

    Today, we’re joined by a Pure Desire Clinician, Eileen Fagan, who defines a healthy or “therapeutic” separation and the benefits it can give a struggling couple. We talk through natural hesitations or fears with marital separation, when NOT to separate, and the importance of professional help and support in marital separations.

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    Full Episode Video (YouTube)

    Safety Action Plan

    Recovery Action Plan For Addicts

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    Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

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    Join An Online Group

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    54 mins
  • 356 - Reconciling Addiction & Theology
    Apr 30 2024

    When Christians are faced with the word “addiction,” there can be a significant reaction against something we don’t see clearly in Scripture. The word “addiction” doesn’t naturally seem to fit into our theological framework.

    Today, we’re joined by author and speaker, Ben Bennett, to give us a new framework for reconciling addiction and theology. We explore how Scripture speaks directly to addiction, how to integrate psychology and theology, and how the recovery and healing journey can enhance our faith in Jesus.

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    Free To Thrive (Book)

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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • 355 - Porn & Mental Health
    Apr 23 2024

    The term “mental health” can be fuzzy. Are we talking about anxiety? Depression? Something more? All of the above?

    Ben Bennett joins us today to talk about the connection between viewing pornography and mental health issues. Ben speaks of porn’s role in his personal battle with depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideations and how recovery impacts our mental health, our faith in Jesus, and our ability to follow Him.

    RESOURCES

    Full Episode Video (YouTube)

    FASTER Scale

    Seven Pillars of Freedom

    Unraveled

    Online Groups

    Local Groups

    Unwanted (Book)

    Two Roads (John Lynch)

    Pure Desire Counseling

    Free To Thrive (Book)

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    Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • 354 - Healthy Communication
    Apr 16 2024

    We all know communication is important. But what does healthy communication look like for a couple on the recovery and healing journey? Shari Chinchen, a Pure Desire Clinician, joins us today to discuss what makes communication healthy or unhealthy. We also discuss how to keep healthy communication a priority AND how to train our kids for healthy communication in their relationships.

    RESOURCES

    Full Episode Video (YouTube)

    The Four Horsemen (Blog by Gottman Institute)

    Pure Desire Counseling

    FASTER Scale

    Pure Desire Summit

    Connected

    Keep your Love On (Danny Silk)

    Family Values Exercise

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    59 mins
  • 353 - Becoming A Compassionate Warrior
    Apr 9 2024

    Many men who’ve been through the Pure Desire recovery process have asked, “What’s after Seven Pillars of Freedom?” Well, today’s episode is all about answering this question. Clinician and speaker, Robert Vander Meer, joins us to talk about our new resource, The Compassionate Warrior (to which Robert contributed). We talk through what this resource is, how it helps men see their life and recovery through the lens of “story,” and how it helps create a lasting legacy of health.

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    Full Episode Video (YouTube)

    The Compassionate Warrior

    Seven Pillars of Freedom

    Hero With A Thousand Faces (Joseph Campbell)

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    47 mins
  • 352 - Stories From The Church: Faith Chapel
    Apr 2 2024

    Today, we get to hear from Robert Nelson and Annie Burt (staff members at Faith Chapel in Billings, Montana). Robert and Annie talk us through their journey of implementing Pure Desire groups and resources at Faith Chapel. We talk through initial hurdles, challenges they’ve faced, the fruit they’re seeing from their efforts, and lots in between.

    RESOURCES

    Full Episode Video (YouTube)

    Betrayal & Beyond

    Unraveled

    Sexual Integrity 101

    Conquer Series (Soul Refiner)

    Seven Pillars of Freedom

    Group Leader Training

    Fearless Series

    Immanuel Garraway (Church Relations Specialist)

    Connected

    Pure Desire Counseling

    Free Tools

    Have PD Come Speak

    Pure Desire Summit

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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • 351 - FAQ #17
    Mar 26 2024

    Today’s episode is one of our favorites! We have another Frequently Asked Questions episode where you, the listener, has sent in topical questions for us to discuss. We are joined by Traci Wright, one of our beloved clinicians, to talk about idolizing recovery, anniversaries of trauma, disclosure in dating and engagement, and more.

    RESOURCES

    Full Episode Video (YouTube)

    Pure Desire Online Groups

    Connected

    Pure Desire Counseling

    FREE 15 Minute Counseling Consultation

    Seven Pillars Of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)

    Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)

    Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)

    SA

    Cliff & Joyce Penner

    IITAP

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    57 mins