This week on F*ck That Guy Palooza 🎉

We’re serving up a buffet of walking red flags and emotional immaturity—bring your appetite. First course: a man who’s clearly past his dating app expiration date but still insists he’s entitled to a woman “out of his league” (whatever that means). Next up, a guy who treats his date’s romantic past like it’s a crime scene and somehow thinks he deserves answers. And finally, a man drooling over the idea of a threesome—as long as it’s emotionally convenient and doesn’t threaten his fragile ego.

Then, we pivot to something that truly touched us: a beautiful message from a longtime listener who credits this podcast with helping her leave a toxic relationship and choose herself. Spoiler: it ends in love, green flags, and a baby. Yes, we cried. Yes, you might too.

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This week on Worth the Weight, I open up about an emotional moment with my sister that triggered my Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria and unearthed some deep-rooted feelings of being “too much” or “in the way.”

We also talk about how RSD messes with our body image and makes it hard to feel at home in our own bodies—because when you’re constantly bracing for rejection, self-trust goes out the window.

It’s vulnerable, it’s reflective, and yeah—it’s a little spicy.

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Trying to date like a secure person while your brain screams, “THEY'RE PULLING AWAY.”

In this episode, I get real about what it’s like to date with an anxious attachment style—and how that plays out not just in romantic relationships, but in my bond with Sam, the 17-year-old chihuahua who somehow understands my emotional needs better than most men.

We also read a listener letter from someone feeling stuck and second-guessing everything after a six-week situationship came to an abrupt end. We talk through the anxiety loop, the craving for reassurance, and how hard it is not to take it personally when someone pulls away.

If you’ve ever found yourself analyzing text messages like they’re part of a true crime case, wondering if you’re “too much,” or feeling like you're always one step away from being ghosted—this one’s for you. Because here’s the truth: your need for connection isn’t a flaw. It just needs to be met by someone who can actually show up. And as always, our motto stands strong: Fuck That Guy.

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In our new segment, Worth the Weight, we dive into our personal experiences with GLP-1 medications, sharing the highs, lows, and everything in between. We’re getting real about why we chose to use them, how they’ve impacted our lives, and the societal pressures women face regarding beauty and weight. From unrealistic beauty standards to the stigma around weight loss, we’re unpacking it all. Join us as we challenge the narratives, explore the controversies, and navigate our journeys toward body autonomy and self-acceptance.

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This episode of Worth The Weight takes a deeper dive into mental health and ADHD—something I’m really excited to explore as we expand the scope of the series.

This week, I had an unexpected trigger after returning Sam, the senior chihuahua, to her owner. It brought up some old compulsive habits, and I reflect on how I’ve handled similar moments in the past. I also talk about how tirzepatide may have helped me break the cycle of using junk food as a coping mechanism.

We also get into how ADHD affects our eating habits and productivity—because let’s be honest, the connection is real. Whether it’s impulsive snacking, struggling with structure, or chasing that next dopamine hit, ADHD plays a bigger role in all of this than we often realize.

Plus, we discuss the recent halt in compounding production and what it means for those who rely on it. Tune in for an honest conversation about navigating these challenges and finding ways to work with, rather than against, our brains.

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In this episode, we discuss a fascinating New York Times podcast episode about the evolving role of artificial intelligence in daily life. Journalist Kashmir Hill explores the story of a woman whose relationship with a chatbot went far beyond casual conversation and became sexual—raising questions about AI, emotional attachment, and the future of human-computer interaction.

Then, we get personal—breaking down the inconsistencies, the backlash, and what happens when simply asking questions makes you a target. A journalist took issue with my skepticism, attacking me instead of addressing the actual concerns I raised. Why was she so defensive? When does investigative journalism cross the line into gatekeeping? And why is it that when women challenge a narrative, we’re labeled as troublemakers or attention-seekers, while men are praised for their critical thinking? Most importantly, why is questioning evidence suddenly seen as a threat rather than a necessity?

Join us as we explore the fine line between curiosity and controversy—and why, in both cases, critical thinking is more important than ever.

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In our new segment, Worth The Weight, Sarah and I dive into our personal experiences with starting a GLP-1 medication for weight management. In this episode, we get real about what led us to explore this option, our respective body image issues, how we felt after taking our first doses, and the adjustments we've made to our diets. We also break down the research we did beforehand—sifting through medical studies, expert opinions, and firsthand accounts to make an informed decision.

If you’ve been curious about GLP-1 medications or are considering them yourself, tune in as we share the highs, the lows, and everything in between. Let’s navigate this journey together! Please feel free to leave your feedback in the comments.

Remember, next week will be a free dating advice/humor episode. Worth The Weight is a bi-weekly segment for Spotify subscribers only.

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