None of the popular books, guidance, or advice feel like they fit for neurodivergent parents or parents of neurodivergent kids — and that’s okay! In this episode, Dr. Jess describes the real challenges of parenting as a neurodivergent adult, parenting neurodivergent kids, and doing both in a world built on neurotypical expectations. If you’ve ever wondered why “normal” parenting advice doesn’t work for your family, this one’s for you.

Content Warning: mention of increased suicide rates

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People may have called you out for making things happen the way you want them to, but their discomfort with what works for you isn’t your responsibility. In this episode, Dr. Jess explains the patterns behind neurodivergent adults being misunderstood as controlling or perfectionistic, how to tell the difference between self-protection and personal preference, and what it looks like to let go of patterns that may be costing you more than you realize.

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If you’ve spent your life chasing self-improvement harder than anyone you know — but feeling like you can’t even catch up with people who aren’t trying at all — the problem isn’t you. In this episode, Dr. Jess exposes the ways mainstream self-improvement strategies trap neurodivergent adults in unwinnable wars against ourselves, and explains how real improvement comes from giving yourself permission to be who you are.

Content Warning: single mention of decreased life expectancies and increased suicide rates

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Do you ever feel like you’re dropping every ball for no reason at all, and ask yourself, “What the hell is wrong with me?”, then go on a mad hunt to find THE answer — the one that will finally tell you what you need to know to “fix” yourself?

In this episode, Dr. Jess reveals how overlapping factors — from neurodivergence to trauma responses to systemic inequity — shape how we function (or don’t), and why trying to find answers is what’s keeping you stuck.

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What happens when the people in power use false information to justify policies to address what they think is wrong with us? In this episode, Dr. Jess dismantles RFK Jr.’s distorted rhetoric about neurodivergence, explains why framing neurodivergent lives as “tragedies” harms and endangers real people, and offers guidelines you can follow to manage your response.

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Connection isn’t just nice to have; it’s one of the strongest predictors of happiness, health, and success. But true connection is often hard to come by for neurodivergent adults. In this episode, Dr. Jess explains why authentic connection is so important and how neurodivergent adults can build real relationships with people who value and support us for who we are.

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Do you ever feel like something inside you wants you to ‘Just Say No,’ and seems to push you to NOT do things — for no apparent reason? In this episode, Dr. Jess cuts through the noise about what PDA is, why it’s not pathological, and how it affects your ability to follow through — even when you want to!

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When we feel like we can't do something anymore, why does everyone recommend we do more? In this episode, Dr. Jess explains why the real solution to burnout isn’t another plan for being more productive or time-blocking rest; it’s finally understanding why nothing like that ever worked for you in the first place.

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