• Ep. 203 Becoming a Better Man: Interview with Dr. Matt Brown
    Sep 3 2025

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    Spacemen, we're so meta. We interview ourselves. But really, on today's show, Mike interviews Matt about his new course he's developed to help men understand themselves better. Matt will be doing some bonus episodes about this topic, so listen in and dive deep. That sounds amazing.


    Key Topics:

    The rhythm of survival mode in men's lives The importance of self-awareness and personal growth Navigating parenting challenges and supporting children The role of intuition and wisdom in decision-making Dillhole's upcoming course for men


    Memorable Quotes:

    "Peace is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to handle it."

    "Change from the inside out is so much more sustainable."


    Call to Action: Listen to the full episode to gain insights into personal growth and the journey of self-discovery. Don't miss Dillhole's upcoming course for men, launching soon!

    Hashtags: #PersonalGrowth #Parenting #SelfAwareness #Intuition #MensHealth


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    56 mins
  • Ep. 202 What If My Marriage Sucks? ...But What If It Doesn't?
    Aug 27 2025

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    SpaceCadets! Don't worry. I didn't demote you. I just needed a different intro. Keeping it fresh. Because today, we talk about how you can focus on the right things and maybe things won't suck as much as we think. Listen in and be grateful for The Manspace.


    Keywords
    marriage, communication, technology, gratitude, positivity, relationships, therapy, education, self-confidence, parenting


    Takeaways

    • Humor can be a powerful tool in parenting and relationships.
    • Education and degrees can influence perceptions in therapy.
    • Practicing gratitude can enhance overall well-being.
    • Overthinking emotions can lead to unnecessary stress.
    • Finding the good in relationships can improve connection.
    • Adaptability is key to navigating life changes.
    • Daily gratitude practices can shift your mindset.
    • Positivity can be cultivated through intentional actions.



    Sound bites

    "You can learn this stuff."
    "Practice gratitude every day."
    "You have to do this every day."


    Chapters

    00:00 Navigating Relationships and Communication
    10:10 The Importance of Positive Thinking
    15:17 Recognizing Support in Relationships
    17:15 Embracing Change and Adaptability
    19:29 The Power of Positivity and Confidence
    23:54 Practicing Gratitude in Daily Life
    28:27 Finding Value in Relationships
    33:27 The Discipline of Positivity

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    43 mins
  • Ep. 201 Am I Having a Midlife Crisis?
    Aug 20 2025

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    Spacemen, calm down. You're probably NOT having a midlife crisis. We, your faithful space-admirals might be, but not you. Today, Matt, Mike, and Rob talk about midlife transitions and the best way to navigate. Listen in and get all worried about your own life transitions.


    Key Topics:

    • The emotional journey of sending children to college
    • Redefining personal and professional goals in midlife
    • The impact of community and social connections
    • Humor and resilience in facing life's transitions


    Quotes:

    • "It's not just about losing; it's about gaining the next phase of life."
    • "We all like work towards something, and then you hit this part of your life, and it's like, well, I just keep doing the same thing over and over."


    Call to Action: THANKS AI!! Tune in to hear more about how to embrace change and find joy in the journey. Share your thoughts and topics you'd like us to cover next!



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    46 mins
  • Ep. 200 Giving and Receiving Feedback
    Aug 13 2025

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    Don't forget to give us feedback here!

    Today is our 200th episode. That's right. We're so talented we were willing to just keep going supported only by your love and the generous soda donations of a few spacemen. But today, we give each other meaningful feedback. We talk about how to give and receive it to allow it to be helpful rather than hard. So, give us some of your feedback and let us know. And then listen in as we weep.


    Keywords

    podcast, humor, feedback, personal anecdotes, relationships, creativity, listener engagement, milestones, everyday life, feedback, self-reflection, vulnerability, humor, sincerity, personal growth, positive feedback, open dialogue, communication, relationships


    Takeaways

    • Listener feedback is crucial for podcast improvement.
    • Understanding audience preferences can guide content direction.
    • Building relationships through shared experiences is valuable. Feedback can be a powerful tool for self-improvement.
    • Vulnerability in conversations fosters deeper connections.
    • Humor and sincerity can coexist in communication.
    • Physical affection can enhance relationships.
    • Self-perception often influences how we receive feedback.
    • Recognizing personal growth is essential for confidence.
    • Open dialogue encourages trust and understanding.
    • Positive feedback can motivate change and growth.
    • It's important to embrace one's unique qualities.
    • Comparison can hinder personal development.



    Sound bites

    "I need a tissue."
    "Cool story guy."
    "Happy 200th!"


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Light Banter
    04:59 Cultural References and Humor
    07:45 Discussion on Technology and Gadgets
    10:09 Personal Stories and Reflections
    12:46 Listener Feedback and Future Topics
    15:04 Professional Insights and Challenges
    18:42 Creepy Sounds and Nighttime Fears
    20:34 Reflections on Animal Slaughter
    25:41 Listener Feedback and Podcast Evolution
    28:10 Social Media and Its Impact
    33:49 The Drink Store and Nostalgic Conversations
    35:38 Feedback and Self-Reflection
    37:25 The Importance of Conviction in Communication
    39:37 Encouragement and Constructive Criticism
    43:27 Navigating Feedback in Relationships
    44:42 Specific Feedback for Improvement
    46:08 Embracing Vulnerability and Affection
    50:41 Focusing on Positive Change
    55:17 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity
    57:42 The Power of Genuine Connection
    01:01:23 Navigating Personal Growth and Self-Expression
    01:06:08 Feedback and Growth: A Journey Together
    01:11:00 Building Trust and Encouragement in Relationships

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Ep. 199 Double Standard in Relationships?
    Aug 6 2025

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    Spacemen, do you ever feel like there's a double standard in your relationship? You're not alone. There sometimes is. But then, not as much as you think, or in the way you might think. Matt, Mike, and Rob talk about that double standard and how important it is to take accountability. So, I'm saying it's your fault. Listen in.


    Keywords

    vulnerability, emotional connection, relationship expectations, gender dynamics, accountability, personal growth, social narratives, communication, self-esteem


    Takeaways

    • Vulnerability can lead to stronger emotional connections.
    • There are double standards in relationship expectations for men and women.
    • Social narratives often reinforce negative stereotypes about men.
    • Both genders need to take accountability for their actions in relationships.
    • Personal growth is essential for healthy relationships.
    • Communication is key to understanding each other's feelings.
    • Men often feel pressured to improve in relationships without equal expectations for women.
    • It's important to empower individuals to feel safe and confident in their relationships.
    • Finding balance in accountability can lead to healthier dynamics.



    Sound bites

    "Everything we just said, it's a thumbs up."
    "The tap scoop slap."


    Chapters
    02:10 Exploring Vulnerability and Emotional Connection
    04:31 Cultural Expectations and Gender Dynamics
    06:21 The Double Standards in Relationships
    08:45 The Need for Mutual Accountability
    11:14 Ranting About Relationship Expectations
    13:31 Conflicting Messages in Modern Relationships
    19:41 Reflections on Gender Roles in Advertising
    22:18 Mutual Accountability in Relationships
    24:07 The Importance of Self-Reflection
    25:52 Gendered Expectations in Conflict Resolution
    29:38 The Impact of Socialization on Relationships
    32:09 Navigating Safety and Trust in Relationships
    38:06 Finding Balance in Gender Dynamics
    42:46 Empowering Individual Growth in Relationships
    46:20 The Role of Feelings in Decision Making

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    48 mins
  • Ep. 198 Men and Creativity: Taking a Risk
    Jul 30 2025

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    Before I forget, here's a link to our Feedback Form for Episode 200. Give us some honest feedback. We can take it...well, Rob might struggle with it, but I think he'll be okay.

    On today's episode, Matt, Mike, and Rob talk about creativity as it relates to masculinity and risk-taking. Sometimes we just need a nudge.


    Key Topics:

    • The intersection of creativity and masculinity
    • Overcoming creative blocks and the role of discipline Personal stories of creative expression
    • The importance of redefining creativity beyond traditional arts


    Call to Action: Don't miss out on the opportunity to redefine your creative journey. Tune in and explore how creativity can be a part of your everyday life.

    Hashtags: #Creativity #Masculinity #Podcast #CreativeExpression

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    56 mins
  • Ep. 197 Relying on Other Men
    Jul 23 2025

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    Spacemen, let's get intimate. I mean, don't we do that on every episode? Well, we don't really do it on this episode. But we do talk about how important it is to connect with other men and how research supports the idea of men spending time together. So, tell your wife it's boys night, listen to the Manspace, and head out to Buffalo Wild Wings...except not really. It's not very good. I don't know. I don't see what the big deal is. Lots of TV's, yes. But the food is meh. Maybe if they offer me free food, I'll change my mind. Ball's in your court B-dubs.


    Keywords
    male friendships, emotional intimacy, social media, loneliness, vulnerability, connection, activities, asking for help, companionship, happiness


    Takeaways

    • Men often rely on romantic relationships for emotional intimacy.
    • Loneliness is a significant issue for men, impacting their health.
    • Engaging in activities with friends strengthens social bonds.
    • Men may resist asking for help due to fear of vulnerability.
    • Regular social interactions can reduce stress and improve well-being.
    • Friendships can be fostered through shared activities and interests.
    • Intentionality is key in maintaining friendships.
    • Cultural norms often prioritize productivity over emotional health.
    • Men benefit from having a support system of close friends.
    • Finding time for friendships can enhance overall happiness.



    Sound bites
    "Don't ditch your wife."
    "Social media is dumb."
    "Men want to be the one relied on."


    Chapters

    00:00 The Importance of Male Friendships
    02:05 Navigating Social Media and Its Impact
    05:07 Cloud Seeding and Conspiracy Theories
    08:05 The Need for Emotional Intimacy
    11:07 Understanding Loneliness in Men
    14:07 The Role of Vulnerability in Male Relationships
    17:12 The Challenge of Asking for Help
    20:01 Finding Connection in Shared Experiences
    23:20 The Importance of Friendships
    30:29 Social Connections and Mental Health
    39:37 Balancing Productivity and Happiness

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    50 mins
  • Ep. 196 Are You Suffering from Scarcity Brain?
    Jul 16 2025

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    Spacemen. Don't pretend like you're reading this. I know you don't have time. So, I'll entertain myself. On today's episode, we explore the depths of the mind. We do a 45 minute DEEP meditation. Literally, it's 45 minutes of total silence. Prepare to peer into the deep recesses of your brain.

    Fine. It's not really that. But does it really matter? You're gonna listen. The question is, are you getting your friends to listen?

    Today, we're talking about the book Scarcity Brain by Michael Easter. It's a good one. We look at how a scarcity mindset has evolved over years and how we need to develop a different focus in our lives.

    Get abundant Spacemen.


    Keywords
    scarcity mindset, happiness, social media, personal growth, therapy, consumption patterns, mastery, abundance, cultural reflections, book discussion


    Takeaways

    • The scarcity mindset influences our behavior and decision-making.
    • Social media can exacerbate feelings of scarcity and dissatisfaction.
    • Therapy is about growth, not just feeling good in the moment.
    • Happiness is often found in the journey, not the destination.
    • Mastery and personal growth are more fulfilling than passive consumption.
    • Understanding our capacity for emotions can lead to better coping strategies.
    • Cultural narratives around happiness can create unrealistic expectations.
    • Facing scarcity can foster gratitude and appreciation for what we have.
    • The importance of being present in our experiences.
    • Exploring the balance between abundance and sufficiency.



    Sound bites
    "The scarcity mindset influences our behavior."
    "Facing scarcity fosters gratitude."
    "Being present enhances our experiences."


    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction and Context Setting
    02:15 Exploring Scarcity Mindset
    04:43 Social Media and Consumption Patterns
    07:14 Therapeutic Insights and Personal Growth
    09:52 Book Discussion: Scarcity Brain
    12:05 Reflections on Abundance and Mindset
    14:16 Concluding Thoughts and Future Directions
    17:47 The Evolution of Social Media and Its Impact on Behavior
    19:34 Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset: A New Perspective
    24:55 The Pursuit of Happiness: Insights from the Comfort Crisis
    29:33 Mindfulness and Presence: Finding Contentment in the Moment
    32:31 Navigating Happiness and Emotional Complexity
    36:02 Mastery and Growth: Redefining Success
    41:14 The Role of Experience in Personal Development
    46:56 Looking Ahead: Essentialism and Future Discussions

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    56 mins