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The Manspace

The Manspace

By: Dr. Matt Brown
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A podcast for men who want to understand and improve themselves and their relationships, hosted by Dr. Matt Brown and Dr. Rob Porter and clinical therapist Mike Porter.

© 2025 The Manspace
Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Ep. 219 How Honest Should I Be?
    Dec 3 2025

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    Spacemen, get ready for some honesty. Today, Matt, Mike, and Rob...but mostly Matt and Mike, because Rob keeps dropping out, talk about how much honesty is good in a relationship. Turns out, you don't have to say everything. But honesty still matters. Listen in and find out how much.


    Keywords
    honesty, relationships, vulnerability, intimacy, communication, feedback, personal growth, emotional intelligence, self-awareness, interpersonal dynamics


    Takeaways

    • Honesty is crucial in relationships, but it must be balanced with politeness.
    • Not every thought needs to be shared; discernment is key.
    • Vulnerability can lead to deeper intimacy, but it requires careful communication.
    • Being blunt is not the same as being direct; clarity matters.
    • Feedback should be constructive and aimed at improvement, not criticism.
    • Understanding the impact of our words on others is essential for healthy relationships.
    • Self-awareness helps in recognizing our own biases and perceptions.
    • The way we deliver messages can significantly affect their reception.
    • It's important to ask if our honesty is truly helpful to the other person.
    • Building a foundation of trust allows for more honest and open communication.


    Sound Bites

    • "Total honesty within a relationship."
    • "Does it need to be said?"
    • "Is it true? Is it helpful?"


    Chapters

    00:00
    The Role of Honesty in Relationships

    03:59
    Navigating Communication: Blunt vs. Direct

    09:31
    Intimacy vs. Honesty: Understanding the Difference

    15:46
    Calling Up vs. Calling Out: A New Perspective

    21:28
    The Impact of Delivery in Communication


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    31 mins
  • Ep. 218 Can Hanging Out With My Friends Make Me A Better Man?
    Nov 19 2025

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    Spacemen, welcome to Kansas City. Well, sort of. On today's episode, we're talking about our trip and what we gained from it. And really, how important it is to spend time with your buddies. So grab a friend, and listen in.


    Keywords

    travel, masculinity, friendship, aging, humor, experiences, relationships, stories, laughter, life lessons



    Takeaways

    • Traveling together strengthens friendships.
    • Aging can bring about changes in masculinity.
    • Shared experiences create lasting memories.
    • Laughter is essential for male friendships.
    • Boredom can lead to unexpected moments of joy.
    • It's important to embrace vulnerability with friends.
    • Everyday interactions can be humorous and meaningful.
    • Finding humor in life helps cope with challenges.
    • Building true friendships takes time and shared experiences.
    • Being present with friends enriches life.



    Sound bites

    "This episode is on erectile dysfunction."
    "Go be bored with your friends."


    Chapters

    00:00 Handling Special Events and Romantic Gestures
    00:45 Travel Experiences and Highlights
    03:46 Aging, Masculinity, and Identity
    06:44 Food, Cooking, and Personal Interests
    12:07 Friendship Foundations: A Journey Through Time
    14:34 The Art of Humor: Layers of Laughter
    15:26 Boredom and Discovery: The Unexpected Joys
    19:18 Gas Station Chronicles: Life's Little Interactions
    23:37 Building True Friendships: The 200-Hour Rule
    26:28 Memorable Moments: The Beauty of the Ordinary
    30:11 Laughter and Connection: The Power of Male Friendships

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    34 mins
  • Ep. 217 Can Gratitude Save My Relationship
    Nov 12 2025

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    Spacemen, clickbait!! Just kidding. It's not. But today, we are talking about gratitude and how important it is. Can it save your relationship? No. But it won't NOT save your relationship. And you'll feel better doing it. We talk about a few ways you can practice it without feeling like you're blowing smoke. So listen in and be grateful you did.


    Keywords

    humor, gratitude, relationships, emotions, commitment, love, everyday life, parenting, communication, therapy, gratitude, relationships, positivity, mindset, communication, appreciation, emotional health, personal growth, problem-solving, therapy


    Takeaways

    • Humor can lighten serious situations.
    • Gratitude is essential even in tough times.
    • Expressing love can be a commitment, not just a feeling.
    • People often undervalue the power of gratitude.
    • Relationships require effort, even when feelings are low.
    • Honesty in relationships is crucial, but so is commitment.
    • Expressions of love can help mitigate negative feelings.
    • It's important to recognize the significance of small acts of kindness.
    • Commitment in relationships can provide stability for families.
    • Navigating emotions requires understanding and communication. Gratitude can transform how we perceive our relationships.
    • Recognizing small efforts can lead to greater appreciation.
    • Practicing gratitude doesn't eliminate problems but changes our perspective on them.
    • Everyday miracles can shift our mindset towards positivity.
    • Gaslighting is about denying reality, while gratitude acknowledges it.
    • Expressing gratitude can enhance emotional connections.
    • Gratitude can be practiced anytime, regardless of circumstances.
    • Small acts of appreciation can have a significant impact.
    • Shifting focus from problems to gratitude can alleviate stress.
    • Gratitude is easy to express but often overlooked.



    Chapters

    00:00 Humor in Everyday Life
    03:57 The Importance of Gratitude
    10:07 Navigating Vulnerability and Relationships
    16:35 Exploring the Tipping Point and Gratitude
    19:01 The Role of Commitment in Relationships
    22:27 Navigating Expectations and Gratitude
    29:10 Seeing the Good: Practicing Gratitude
    33:57 The Trust Fall of Gratitude
    35:52 Embracing the Waves of Life
    40:14 The Power of Perspective
    45:39 Gratitude in Everyday Interactions

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    50 mins
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