How do you measure success? For musician David Davol, it isn’t about fame or fortune — it’s about living life on your own terms, doing more of what you love, and less of what you don’t.In this latest episode of *The Life Lessons Collective*, I reconnect with David, whose career in music has spanned over 46 years and more than 7,000 performances. From bar gigs and cruise ships to country clubs and concert halls, David’s story is a testament to the power of persistence.His life lesson is simple yet powerful: *the harder you work, the luckier you get.* Whether practicing guitar seven hours a day in a seaside motel or jumping at a last-minute cruise ship opportunity, David shows how preparation opens the door to serendipity.This episode is also a reminder that success isn’t one-size-fits-all. As David puts it, “I’ve done more of what I wanted to do, and less of what I didn’t want to do, than almost anyone I know.” That, to him, is the definition of success. It sure is an inspiring message I think about every day.

David (left) and Carty Brown - mid 1970’s. David’s post about this photo inspired my reaching out to him and our conversation. A positive re-connecting moment in the divisive, stormy seas of today’s social media climate.🌟 Nonprofit Plug

This episode supports Rock to the Future (rocktothefuture.org), providing free, student-driven music programs that build confidence and community for Philadelphia youth.

📚 References

* Peter Block’s The Answer to How Is Yes

* Malcolm Gladwell’s Outliers

* Historical context: The Beatles’ Hamburg years (example of preparation meeting opportunity)

* Spotify playlist of songs mentioned in the episode.

One small thing.That’s the lesson that helped this week’s guest, Aly Rice, climb her way out of heartbreak, grief, and career burnout—and build a completely new life.In this episode of The Life Lessons Collective, Aly tells the raw and riveting story of how a vacation romance turned long-distance relationship became a betrayal that blindsided her. As if that weren’t enough, she then lost her last surviving parent, faced public humiliation, and stepped away from the corporate world.Her way out? Episode 12 guest, Kathleen Seeley’s advice: “What’s one small thing that’s small enough to get done, but big enough to matter?”From daily walks to launching a coaching practice and two podcasts—Sex, Lies & Tacos and This Could Get Messy—Aly shares how those small, consistent steps became the building blocks of a bold new beginning.🎧 Listen now and walk away with one deceptively simple mindset shift you can put into practice today.—📚 Mentioned Resources

• Getting Things Done by David Allen

• Effortless by Greg McKeown

• The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod

Nonprofit Spotlight: In honor of Aly, this episode supports Dress for Success Worldwide, a global nonprofit helping women achieve economic independence and career success.#TheLifeLessonsCollective #AlyRice #Reinvention #Podcast #DressForSuccess #SmallStepsBigChange

In this episode, Michael is joined by attorney and MSP industry leader Bradley Gross, who shares a powerful lesson about the importance of embracing friction—both in business and in life. From his early days prosecuting cybercrime to founding the law firm that bears his name, Brad discusses how pushing through disagreement and discomfort can unlock growth, creativity, and meaningful change. He also opens up about his personal evolution, a divorce, and his newest venture, MSP Terms, which merges legal insight with entrepreneurial tech.

Brad's message is clear: Friction, when welcomed thoughtfully, can move the needle in every area of life.

Brad is the author of Wisdom and Witticisms of an MSP Attorney and the host of the podcast The Technology Bradcast, available at www.technologybradcast.com. Also mentioned in the episode is Gino Wickman’s Traction, a widely-used business framework that encourages healthy team conflict to drive alignment and results.

For more information on the nonprofit mentioned in the commercial break, please visit www.nokidhungry.org.

In this episode, Michael speaks with Lynard Stewart—former Temple standout and pro baller turned educator and mentor. Lynard reflects on how life-shaping choices—like transferring high schools, staying local for college, and embracing the grind and cultural differences of European basketball—led him to the work he does now.His central insight: “Make sure your goals reflect who you are.” It’s a grounded reminder that success without alignment is just noise. Lynard shares how values-based decisions, not hype, shaped his path—and how he’s now passing those lessons to the next generation through parenting, teaching, coaching and mentoring.📚 Mentioned: The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy, coaching insights from John Chaney and Chris Finch, the challenges of NIL and college recruiting culture.❤️ Nonprofit spotlight: Philadelphia Youth Basketball—building life-changing programs *of, by, and for* the communities they serve.🎧 Tune in and grow your toolkit…that’s it, right there at the top of this page :-)#LifeLessonsCollective #PhillyBasketball #PurposeDrivenLife #PYB #TempleMade

In this episode, Michael is joined by David Richards, Senior Vice President of Programming at Audacy and a friend of over 40 years. Dave shares his journey from an uncertain start in college to becoming a leader in the radio and digital audio industry, driven by a deep passion for music, creativity, and brand building. His central life lesson focuses on the power of vision, focus, and strategic thinking—recognizing that success isn’t about doing everything, but about identifying the one thing you do best and building relentlessly around it. Through lessons learned from both great and poor leadership, Dave emphasizes that clarity of purpose and empathy in leadership are what sustain personal and organizational success.

Referenced Books and Websites

* StrengthsFinder by Tom Rath — referenced in the discussion about recognizing and working with personal strengths instead of battling weaknesses.

* Who Not How by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Benjamin Hardy — mentioned when discussing how finding the right people (the "who") matters more than struggling to solve every problem yourself.

* Make Noise by Eric Nuzum — cited for exercises in clarifying your brand's or podcast’s focus into a concise, powerful identity.

* Audacy — Dave’s company, a major multi-platform audio content provider.

For more information on the non-profit mentioned in the commercial break, please visit the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP).

In this episode, Michael is joined by Jodi O'Donnell-Ames, a passionate author, speaker, and founder of the nonprofit Hope Loves Company. Their conversation dives into Jodi’s deeply personal journey—losing her husband Kevin to ALS, raising their daughter, and turning unimaginable grief into a mission to support kids and families affected by ALS. Along the way, Jodi shares mini-lessons on presence, resilience, and the importance of simply starting—whether that’s launching a nonprofit with $1,200, going back to school at nearly 60, or just sending that brave email. It’s a conversation full of warmth, wisdom, and some seriously inspiring reminders that hope really does love company.

📚 Get the Book:
You can grab a copy of Jodi’s inspiring book, Hope Givers: Conversations and Stories of Hope, right here: https://a.co/d/17l2CCi

🌱 Learn More:
Check out https://www.hopelovescompany.org/ to learn more about the amazing work Hope Loves Company is doing to support children and young adults affected by ALS.

In this episode, Michael is joined by Kathleen Seeley, an executive coach with nearly 30 years of experience working with thought and business leaders, including her thirteen-year collaboration with Jack Canfield, "America's Number One Success Coach." Kathleen shares insights on the power of self-awareness, how conflict can be a catalyst for growth, and the importance of aligning leadership with core values. Kathleen also shares a key, seemingly contrarian philosophy of how goals, while useful, can sometimes limit potential, instead encouraging a more fluid and open approach that embraces presence and the power of taking "one step small enough to get done and big enough to matter". All in all, it's a fascinating and engaging conversation, one that's sure to entertain and challenge you...perhaps giving you some insights to define your next best step(s).

To get in touch with Kathleen, email her at info@massivelyhuman.com.

Additionally, we'd like to thank our inaugural sponsor, Brandi Stiles, who is offering a free breathwork session to our listeners at https://brandistiles.com/lifelessonscollective.

In this episode, Michael is joined by Lela Casey, a passionate writer and activist with a fascinating life story. They discuss the art of storytelling and the importance of vulnerability in communication. Lela shares her experiences growing up in a multicultural family, her journey through freelance writing, and her involvement in local politics and activism. The conversation highlights the power of showing up for others and being open to life's adventures, even when they lead to unexpected and challenging situations. Lela's commitment to making a positive impact in her community is truly inspiring.

In Lela’s honor, The Life Lessons Collective is proud to make a contribution to an organization she holds dearly: Stand Up for Kids. To learn more about the work they do, please visit https://www.standupforkids.org/.