• How To Enhance Corporate Credibility
    Aug 27 2025

    Innovation is not the monopoly of the R&D Department. Everyone of our staff has highly tuned antennae which pick up valuable commercial intelligence about consumer trends, supplier data and client feedback. Just because they are not wearing white lab coats, doesn’t mean their insights should be ignored. Yet that is what we do in most companies. Innovation is the application of creative ideas into practical products and services. The germ of the idea is where the creativity component comes in and this is available to anyone. The journey from creative idea to idea application treads a path which transcends the scope of one individual. This is where the wheels fall off and most companies cannot capitalize on the latent creativity inside their firms.

    Our recent global survey on creative ideas at work uncovered some disturbing findings. Given the intense competition in the marketplace for companies, you would expect that leaders would be doing all they could to seize and shepherd creative ideas through to application. Yet the survey showed that only 21% of leaders were really actively seeking ideas from anywhere and anyone in their organisations. Only 23% of survey respondents answered that it is very easy to get support for good ideas in their firm.

    That germ of an idea will start with one person, but will it start at all? If you don’t care about the firm and you are not engaged, you don’t care if the mousetrap being built is better or not. Our research on the emotional triggers for high engagement showed that leaders need to make their people feel valued, confident, empowered and connected. These are all leader soft skills and depend on attitude orientation and communication skills to work. However, the numbers do not look promising. Only 27% of respondents said their manager makes them feel really valued, just 24% strongly agree they feel empowered and 62% said they don’t feel particularly confident in their skills and abilities at work.

    Purpose is a key word in business today. Are the leaders actively promoting an emotional connection to the team’s work? Are the daily tasks being connected back to the company’s purpose by the leader? You might be thinking, “no problem, I do that”. However, if we recorded your conversations with your staff for a full day, how much time would have been spent connecting work with purpose? By the way the boss waxing lyrical about “shareholder value” won’t cut it, as a defining purpose for the staff. We need a higher purpose here to motivate people to get out of first gear.

    Psychological safety is a phrase we didn’t anything about at work until recently. Today, crusty old leaders like me, have to re-invent ourselves and become more skilled at creating, coaching and maintaining workplace psychological safety. This is not that easy. Many of us grew up in the “suck it up” ethos of fight or flight. “If you can’t take it, then leave and we will replace you with someone tougher who can handle the pressure”. Namby-pamby whiners complaining about their lack of psychological safety are an affront to everything we did in our careers, because we did tough it out and we did climb the greasy pole to the top.

    So what? That is not the current workplace. Times have changed and we have to change with them. The War for Talent is unending and is actually becoming more intense. We can’t throw people overboard today, because replacing them will be a nightmare. We just cannot afford to ignore people with ideas, because we are running the show like a demented pirate captain. If the environment is considered safe for idea generation then there is a higher willingness to take risks such as putting forward new and original ideas.

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  • Four Attributes For Leaders To Master
    Aug 20 2025
    Regardless of what level of leader we are, from neophyte to legend, there are four attributes which we need to master and keep remastering, because business never sleeps. There are leaders who are busy, busy working in their business and then there are those who make the time to work on their business. The biggest component of working on their business should be working on themselves. This however tends to be neglected. We graduate from varsity, learn on the job, maybe we can lob in an executive education week, at a flash, brand name business school, but the day to day consumes us. Before you know it, the last serious work on yourself as a leader was many, many years ago. Often all you have to show for the passage of time is a thinning hairline or more grey (or both), a more generous waistline and higher blood pressure. Leadership as a discipline requires constant study. We need people to work longer, so the generations in the workplace have increased up to five for the first time in history. Younger people grow up digital natives, seem terrified of the phone in many cases and often lack sufficient interpersonal skills, because they spend all their time staring at screens. In Japan’s case formal leadership education is rare because most firms don’t invest and default to the OJT (On The Job) training model. A few generations of this and the wheels fall off. Covid forcing leaders to operate in a remote online environment, exposed the weaknesses in the leadership cohort education systems. Many of our clients contacted us to get to work to fix the issues. The areas of greatest weakness tend to be: (A) poor time management, especially not having a rock solid system for prioritising time usage and then having discipline to spend their time working on only the most important items, when they are at their freshest. (B) Delegation of tasks, so that the boss can work on the highest value items that only the boss can do. Delegation tends to be a fertile training ground for subordinates, to prepare them to step up and take accountability at a higher level. Bosses who hoard work, because they don’t know how to delegate properly are denying their staff the opportunity to grow. (C) Coaching is one of those high value tasks which is always sanctified but little practiced. Bosses confuse barking out orders like a mad pirate captain with coaching. When we shadow bosses and at the end of the day show them how many actual minutes they spent coaching their staff, they are universally aghast at how little time they are investing in their people. Selling is a boss job for both internal and external audiences. Some bosses though, mistake spruiking for selling. Sales is mainly listening to the answers to supremely well crafted questions. The remainder of the time is spent asking follow up questions and introducing solutions. Bosses need to sell their vision and direction for the company to the team, stakeholders and the shareholders. If the boss has come up through the sales track, then there is a hope that they can do this well. If they are technical people, who have come to occupy the hot seat, this idea may be foreign, even repugnant to them. Nevertheless, bosses not only have to be able to sell, they have to master all of the medium touchpoints which now populate our business universe. Communication skills maketh the leader today. Bosses have to be able to compose and deliver messages, all the while being paragons of clarity and conciseness. This is the Age of Distraction and the Era of Cynicism, so the task to get our message across has become unbearably complex and difficult. Staff are time poor, constantly minimising everything, swimming against the daily tsunami of emails and tramping from one meeting to the next. They are often not devoting the right amount of time to digest the boss’s messages. The related skill here is giving presentations. In this modern era, a boss who cannot give a sterling presentation won’t be boss much longer or won’t rise above their current station. There are best practices for delivering presentations and a boss who doesn’t know them is defective. I was astounded to witness a gaggle of executives give two minute talks on why they should be elected by their peers to executive council positions. These were captains of industry in charge of brand name firms with large numbers of people and significant revenues. They were shockers. How could that be? They obviously hadn’t received any training on how to present and it embarrassingly it was obvious to all. The modern boss has to be a multi-tasking wizard, waving magic wands across leadership, sales, communications and presentation skills. This is not an opt in function or a nice to have. We are speaking of necessities here, because if your rival has the full package and you don’t, they will win and you will lose. We don’t want that do we!
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  • Do You Have A Leadership Philosophy
    Aug 13 2025

    We are often leadership practitioners, rather than genteel philosophers, pontificating on leadership issues. Yet, we have probably developed a certain style of leadership nevertheless. We just haven’t focused on it as a methodology, because we are too busy doing it. We leave the books and articles to the academics, who study this stuff with intellectual rigour, complete vast research projects and then write about business from atop their ivory towers. Or we leave it to other successful business people to have ghost writers assemble their mad ramblings into a coherent form and get it published. Or we have that rare bird amongst businessmen, someone who can write their own tome on the subject.

    If we think about the concept of kaizen, continuous improvement, it would make sense to apply this to ourselves, as leaders in our businesses. We should take a moment and examine just what we are doing, why we are doing it and how we are doing it. In this way, we can analyse where there are gaps, inadequacies and fluff. Maybe we received our business education in the University of Life or maybe at varsity, but we cannot rest on what went before, because business keeps changing.

    Sometimes you will read a book on leadership and think to yourself, “I could have written that”. It is a bit like comparing your kids daubs at playschool with some modern art and see the results as basically the same. The big difference is you didn’t try and product that piece of art and you didn’t write a book.

    The process of getting your random thoughts into a clear and coherent story is the discipline of the writer. We don’t have to publish a book on leadership. If we search “leadership” on Google we get one billion eight hundred and seventy million results. On the US Amazon site it lists over sixty thousand books on leadership, so do we really need another book on the subject? However that same discipline needed to write a book is useful to uncover why we do what we do and why we think what we think.

    Start by breaking down what you do as a leader. This will be a bit of a shock, because you will quickly realise that you spend a lot of time managing and doing work, but it is not actually leading. That in itself is a good breakthrough to remind us that we need to work on the highest value items. One of those must be getting results through others and that means more time should be spent on leading the team.

    We can take a look at strategy. Is this just some fluff we pump out each year to keep HQ happy and we really haven’t spent any significant time educating ourselves on strategies for growing our company? Have we noticed that a lot of what we do is down in the trenches and we are not spending any time standing on a sunny upland contemplating the bigger world and devising a strategy for the future direction of the business?

    We might reflect on our communication. Another shocker. We notice that we are telling people what to do most of the time. We are not engaging them to see what they think, to plumb their experience and garner their ideas. We are shouting out orders like a pirate captain. We also notice that we don’t communicate much about the big issues facing the business. We don’t do many town halls or regular update emails to keep everyone abreast of what is going on. If we attended a meeting of the regional heads for APAC or a get together with the top brass back at HQ, we keep it all to ourselves and forget to share the findings with the team.

    How much time do we spend on motivating the team? This is a trick question because we cannot motivate the team. We can only create the culture and environment where they motivate themselves. If you don’t believe me, try shouting “be motivated” ten times to any staff member and watch the results. Leaders get the culture they deserve, so what have you been doing on the culture build front as a leader. Nothing much?

    It is a simple exercise to break down the various aspects of leadership in your business and then examine just what you are doing as opposed to what you should be doing. Yes, it is a bit scary, but better to be scared by yourself than a rival or the market. If it goes well, it might be time to reach for the search tool for that ghost writer or getting busy typing yourself.

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  • Stop Procrastinating And Start Delegating
    Aug 6 2025
    The most fatal words ever spoken by a leader are , “it will be faster if I do it myself”. No it won’t. If you want to scare yourself, sit down and write down all the tasks that you face both regular and irregular. That is one long, long list for leaders. Are you really going to be able to get through all of these items and take care of filing your taxes on time, see the kids sports events, have a romantic dinner with your partner, lie on the couch and read a book, magazine or the newspapers? In short, you won’t, because you will be working all of the time, putting off life to earn a living. The treadmill you should be the on is the one down at the gym, not the one where you are working like a dog, because you are trying to do it all yourself. Inherently, we know we should delegate, but we have had prior bad experiences with it and are now gun shy about using this important tool in our leader toolkit. When I was growing up in Australia there was a common expression that “a good workman doesn’t blame his tools”. Delegation gets a bad rap because it is a misused tool and the tool itself is fine. What we are mistaking is dumping for delegating. What does dumping look like? My old boss at Jones Lang LaSalle literally dumped two huge file collations on my desk, with a “whump”, they were so thick. He just said “take care of this” and walked away. I had to take on the work in those files, but there was no guidance, no instructions, I just had to work it by myself. Is there a simple and better way to make sure that as the leader we are only working on the most high level tasks that only we can do? Here is an eight step process to make delegation work for you. Step One: Identify The Need Among the many tasks facing us, which ones will lend themselves to being delegated and what does a successful delegation outcome look like in our mind? Step Two: Select The Person This may sound counterintuitive, but select the person on the basis of how this delegated task will help them achieve their goals. Wait a minute? Isn‘t the delegation about me achieving my leader goals of getting work off my leader desk? Actually no. We are focused on using delegation to build leader bench strength in the organisation not playing “pass the parcel” at work. Think about the team and identify which strengths need attention and how this piece of work will build this person’s capabilities. Step Three: Plan The Delegation Meeting We don’t plan to fail, but we fail to plan and this is one of the big missing pieces in the delegation puzzle. Leaders will just willy-nilly grab the person and starting downloading what they want them to do, without thinking the conversation through in any meaningful way. There are three sub-goals involved here. Desired outcome – what is the outcome to be accomplished and what does success look like? Think ahead to be able to explain what is in it for the person receiving the task.Current Situation – Clearly analyse where we are today both internally and externally. What factors may hinder or help this delegation?Goals – Define and set goals which are reasonable and yet challenging. Step Four: Hold The Delegation Meeting There are four subset goals. Identify their vision or goals. We are trying to align the task with their own goals so we need to be clear what is in it for them.Identify specific results to be achieved. We need to make success clear and also talk about the strengths they have which will allow them to succeed in this task.Outline the rules and limitations. There are bound to be resource limitations around time, money and people. These need to be made clear from the start.Review the performance standards. To what level of sophistication are they required to deliver results? Step Five: Create A Plan Of Action We don’t create the plan – they do. This is important to give them authority and ownership of how this task gets done. Step Six: Review Their Plan They create it but we must check it so that we are all on the same page and have a clear understanding of what happens next. Step Seven: Implement the Plan If there are other people going to be impacted by the plan then the leader’s job is to clear the way and provide any needed air cover, while the task is under way. Step Eight: Follow Up Without micro managing the task, the leader needs regular progress updates so that everything is going as expected and there are no surprises at the end. None of these steps are diabolically difficult or complex. Well then, why don’t all leaders follow them? It could be because they haven’t thought about a process for delegation or they fear the time required for Steps Three and Four. Stop procrastinating. These two steps, Three and Four, are not that big a time steal, so suck it up and get going. You will never have the time available which you need, unless you start seeing delegation as a tool to develop the ...
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  • Stakeholder, Customer, Employee - Whose Interests Should Leaders Prioritise?
    Jul 30 2025

    Shareholders put up their future security in the hope of increasing their returns and adding further to their security. They take risk of losing some or all of their dough. CEO remuneration is often tied to how well they increase value for shareholders by driving the share price up and paying out regular fat dividends. Customers buy the product or service, so without them being enthusiastic, the scale of the revenues will fall and so will the share price and dividends. Without engaged employees, the customer won’t be satisfied with the quality of the solution or the service provision. If you don’t care about the company, then you are unlikely to care about the firm’s customers. These interests are not always aligned, so where does the leader need to assign attention?

    There is no business without a customer and the reason you have customers is because your staff make sure you have repeater customers, rather than single transactions. CEO attention however is not always focused on the staff. They can see the staff as a tool for arbitrage in order to get more revenues. The “pay em low and charge em high” type of mantra. The USA has confused the world with its up to 300 times ratio between the CEO remuneration and the lowest paid employee. The fact that many failed leaders of big corporations get hundreds of millions of dollars when they are forced out is also astonishing.

    I don’t see that as a sustainable model for Japan. As leaders here we need to be focused on recruiting and retaining the best team members we can afford. Recruiting them will only become more fraught in Japan and retaining them will be ever challenging. The way to attract people is by having very deep pockets and paying tons of dough to the staff. If that isn’t an option, then we need to build a culture where staff will trade money for the environment. Getting paid a lot of money to work in a toxic environment isn’t sustainable and eventually people crack and look for a better environment to work in.

    How can we engage our staff so that they don’t want to leave and while they are with us, they want to work hard for the enterprise and want to support each other in that process? Gallup’s 2021 survey in the US found that 36% of staff were engaged, 50% were either indifferent or compliant and 14% were disengaged. Japan is hard to judge with these Western surveys. Japanese staff are conservative in their estimations because they are always thinking in absolute, rather than relative terms. Also, questions such as, ”would you recommend our company as a place to work for your friends or relatives?”, have a lot of cultural issues in Japan, that we don’t have in the West.

    This is one of those key “engaged or disengaged” decider questions in these surveys. Japanese staff don’t want to take the responsibility in either direction. They don’t want their friends complaining to them about the company they have now joined. They also don’t want to have the company complaining to them about their friend they have just introduced. Better to give this question a low score. Overall Japanese surveys are always at the bottom globally but is that really an accurate reflection of the workforce?

    What do staff want? Here is what we found from our surveys looking at the emotional drivers of engagement. Number One was they want the leaders to have a sincere interest in the employee’s well being. The key word here is “sincere”. This means taking a holistic view of the employee and not seeing them as an arbitrage opportunity or a tool to spoon up more revenues. Another key phrase is “well being”. In this modern age employees are taking responsibility for their kids, but also for their parents, as the latter age. That means they need a supportive work environment that puts health and family health above company health.

    Sounds sensible, but is that the case down at your shop? As the leader, is that how you are talking and making decisions? Is this an approach that is sustained right throughout the enterprise from top to bottom? Are all the leaders walking the talk, starting with you? There is much more required beyond mere words and slogans to make these approaches the daily reality. Coaching and communication skills for leaders will rank at the top to encourage staff to believe what the company is saying. How would you rank these two skill sets across your leadership bench? If it isn’t where it needs to be, what are you doing about it? Everything is related to everything else, so it needs a complete solution rather than a fragmented result. How is that coming along?

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  • Leaders Defending The Indefensible
    Jul 23 2025

    If the client complains directly to your staff member about their poor service, should you go to bat for your team member? Should you publicly apologise and deal with the errant staff member privately? Should you make a public show of solidarity with the staff member and criticise the manner in which the complaint was made? Should you aggressively argue the point with the client? Should you just ignore it and get back to other pressing matters?

    The answers to these real life situations will differ, depending on the culture of your society and your legal system. America is a very litigious society and there seems to be a built in reflex to not admit guilt, accountability or responsibility. The upshot of this positioning is to ignore what was said to your staff member and hope it goes away naturally, after the client has gotten their complaint off their chest. Privately, the boss can then commiserate about the “nasty” client and bond with the staff member.

    Loopholes are always in high demand in these tense situations. The favourite one is to complain about how the client communicated the complaint. If the client is really losing it and abusing the staff member, that is great for the boss. Now their high horse can be mounted and a full attack on the unreasonableness of the client can be commenced. It is a bit trickier when there is no name calling and no florid abuse of the staff members stupidity. A clear outline of the staff member’s failings by the client is annoying, because it is hard to beat it back. An attack on the language can be made anyway and various deductions made about the “accusatory” nature of the remarks and appeals made for fair play. If the labour market is tight, the boss may be prepared to lose a client in order to retain a key staff member.

    How about Japan? Arguing the point with the client is unthinkable. The same applies to taking responsibility and accountability. Japanese clients expect this and if it is not forthcoming, they will keep pushing until they get it. No sweeping under the tatami is acceptable here in Japan. The concept that the client has to be moderate in their communication of their complaint is a non-starter. The client is allowed to be as obstreperous as they like and the guilty party has to accept it.

    So as the boss, how do you deal with your staff member? Do you hang them out to dry and bear the full force gale of invective from the client, as a good lesson in client service requirements? Do you stand up for them and defend them against the client’s claims, while privately reading them the riot act? Do you decide the staff member is someone you would rather retain than the client?

    I have recently been in all three of these scenarios.

    I have been the aggrieved client, observing the American style of “shift the blame back to the complaining client” model. I stood by my team member’s claim against the service provider and went hard to support the argument that the service provision wasn’t good enough. When the shape shifting kicked off, I went even harder to counter that nefarious attempt to slip out of the noose.

    I have fired the client. A very unpleasant client began belittling one of my salespeople, when speaking about her. I did not accept that libellous affront and staunchly defended the staff member, without hesitation. I then told my salesperson to fire that client and don’t deal with them ever again and to keep a note in our CRM, for when they get fired and pop up in another company. Life is short and they are not the type of person we want to spend any time with, so we should get rid of them forever. And we did.

    I have screwed up. I have had to go hat in hand and apologise to the client for my shortcomings. I have had to sit there and be berated by the client, at length and in great detail, for the error. I had to be not only accountable, but also sincerely remorseful and apologetic. I had to determine to give the money back, without ever being asked to do so.

    In principle, we should accept responsibility for our service or product provision and when it is inadequate we should accept the blame and do everything we can to fix it. No mealy mouth platitudes or counter offensives about “inappropriate language”. We should be the one to bear the client’s wrath and deal with our staff members in private. Is the client always right – no. We should stand ready to fire the client too, if that is what the situation calls for.

    None of this is easy, but we have to determine what we mean, when we say we are in the business of serving clients. We have to set the example for everyone to follow and we have to be consistent.

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  • Zones Of Staff Performance
    Jul 16 2025

    Recruiting and developing the perfect team is an illusion, a Fool’s Gold hot pursuit for leaders. Even if you do manage to recruit great people, an increasingly difficult task in Japan where the population is in decline and the improvement of English skills is getting nowhere, they leave. They start a family, get poached for more dough, get sick, need to take care of aging parents or a myriad of other reasonable reasons and you have to start again. The reality is we are always going to be dealing with people in different stages of their career and ability build. It is useful to know which solutions are appropriate for particular situations.

    Japan loves the middle of the fence and sitting there is the most comfortable position. In fact, in a mistake, defect free work culture like Japan that makes a lot of sense. Building slack into your world means you never get strained to a point where you might make mistakes. On the other hand, there is a lot of underperformance associated with being in the Comfort Zone, relative to what is possible. In big companies, if promotion through the ranks is determined by age and stage, why would you care? Just sit tight, keep your head down, make no errors and you will rise, like cream, to the upper levels, although never to the very top. That might be good enough for many people.

    The flipside of this equation is you get bored. This particularly seems to occur with engineers. They often need something interesting to work on and if they don’t get it, they could be lured to greener, more interesting pastures. For the rest of us, the Comfort Zone saps our will to do our best work. What we do is enough, but not all we are capable of and the gentle hum of that equilibrium, where we face no stress, is like a lullaby, putting us into a state of stasis.

    At the other end of the scale are those working in smaller companies, where they have to do everything, because there are not enough specialists. Leaders place heavy burdens on them. They have high expectations of people who are underpowered for high levels of performance. This could be a gap in aptitude or insufficient experience and training. The work is overwhelming and they are very stressed. They run into the conundrum of needing to avoid errors, yet plough through the workload. They are stuck in the Frozen Zone. They are erring on the side of caution, because the no mistake culture is causing them to avoid risk and really going for it.

    The Breakthrough Zone is where we want people to live. They are performing at full expectations just within or slightly beyond their capability. They permanently live in stretch goal land. They are able to challenge new tasks, because they know errors are seen as education and mistakes are tolerated in the messy world of innovation.

    What is interesting is that our people could be in all three zones, depending on the tasks at hand. The movement between zones is also a constant, as work changes, colleagues change and the company direction changes. In the West, you get hired for a job, the senior leadership makes some decisions about the firm’s direction and next thing you find yourself out on the street. In Japan, you are expected to make the transition.

    Someone in the Breakthrough Zone can see their performance decline when given a new, challenging task. Like any new task, there is a learning curve and the initial track of that curve is down. After some period of adjustment their performance begins to track back up again and keeps going up.

    As leaders, do we know where our people are across their various tasks? Over time, can we identify the tell tale clues to understand where each person is right now relative to their tasks? Have we got too many people underperforming in the Comfort Zone for some tasks? Have we given so many tasks to others that they are overwhelmed and stuck in the Frozen Zone? How many would we identify as being in the Breakthrough Zone. Can we see mistakes as education? Are we prepared to accept errors during innovation? Can we anticipate temporary performance decline when new tasks are allocated? Are we giving people enough training and support? What is the culture we are creating?

    We need to know these things if we are going to see the best performance from our crew. Yep, we are busy like bees on speed, but we need to be watching carefully how people are doing, task by task. Have you ever done that or thought that way? If I asked you, could you plot your team in a matrix, zone by zone, across their tasks? Perhaps, it is time to do just that and keep doing it.

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  • The Listening Leader
    Jul 9 2025
    Leaders are often poor listeners in the modern age. To listen to our team members requires the allocation of precious time. Advances in technology, especially hand held devices, was trumpeted as unfurling access to more time for contemplative pursuits and work-life balance. Is there anyone out there who feels they are now more ebullient, because of all the extra time the technology has thrown our way? Probably not. In fact, as the pace of life has sped up, we are more time poor than ever. The mobile phone has become addictive and we are reaching for it almost every second of the day. We carry it around, we keep it close and we are plugged in 24/7. Leaders are probably the most time poor in society and so interactions with our team members becomes more and more transactional. We want something from them in exchange for salary. We want that report, that update, that meeting and then we rush to the next thing on our To Do list. If we clocked how much time we spend we each day coaching our people, the results would be preposterously bad. Developing our people is one of the key tasks of the leader. How can you develop people if you have little clue as to what is happening in their life? Japan is especially tricky, because staff don’t share much about their private lives with their colleagues or the boss. For example, if someone is getting married, they keep it a secret until it is a done deal, so there is no possibility of the marriage plans falling over and them losing face. This means as the boss, we need to make a bigger effort to engage our staff and understand what are the key things in their lives. We need to see where we can help them advance their careers. But time poor people struggle with this. I know myself, I have never been busier. When things are going well you are busy fulfilling client orders. When things are bad, you are busy trying to get client orders. There is no rest. Everyone working from home has made the whole communication piece more challenging as a leader. My time poor status has been elevated even more negatively by the pandemic and its impact on business. As bosses, we imagine we are listening to our staff, because we are too optimistic about our time allocations and priorities. In fact, we are giving orders, checking on details and coordinating efforts across the team. This is not listening, because the direction tends to be one way. “Aye, aye captain” as a response from our staff is not communication. It is a passive response to our barrage of demands. There are different levels of listening and if we are not careful we can get stuck down the bottom of the hierarchy, at pretend or selective listening. With ideas, thoughts, decisions buzzing around inside our brains, like a lot of bees on speed, we can miss what is going on around us. People are telling us things, but we have not been able to break away from the thoughts occupying our minds. Instead, we make sounds that appear to indicate we are listening, but actually we are in the pretend listening phase. Or we may be filleting the white noise emanating from our staff member and seeking only the most highly relevant bits, ignoring the rest. It as if instead of speed reading, we are speed listening, skimming through the conversation, picking out the plums and discarding the rest. We want to move up the scale to attentive listening and empathetic listening. I used to work with a younger colleague who would continue looking at his computer screen and keep typing, while you were talking to him. After suffering from that bizarre and unnerving experience, I made a commitment. Whenever people want to speak with me, I need to physically prop the keyboard up on my desk, turn my head to face them and look straight into their eyes, giving them my 100% attention. I need to be fully present for what they want to say to me and do no filtering. I need to relax and really listen to what they are saying and also think about what they are not saying. Empathetic listening is extremely difficult, if you don’t make the time to speak with the team members. We need to know what is going on in their life. The only way to do that is to leap off the leader rat treadmill and spend time with them. We need to take a leaf from the slow food movement. We need an equivalent slow leadership movement, if we want to really hear our staff. Slow down with people to understand their perspective, their emotions and their thinking. We are listening with our hearts, eyes and ears to hear their needs. They are not making as many Japanese as they used to, so we will all be locked in a struggle to the death to recruit and retain staff. It is a zero sum game. If you cannot keep the right people and your competitor can, then they can put you out of business. The boss ability to listen at the empathetic level is going to reflect the type of culture and environment, where people feel ...
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