• Feeling Guilty for Self-Care? Why It Matters in Dating and Boundaries
    Aug 11 2025

    Do you feel guilty taking time for yourself? You're not alone—and this internal conflict can have a big impact on your dating life.

    In this episode, we explore why self-care isn’t selfish, but essential, especially when it comes to setting boundaries, maintaining emotional availability, and showing up with clarity in relationships.


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    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    10 mins
  • Too Many Dates? When Your Love Life Becomes Overloaded
    Aug 4 2025

    Can there be such a thing as too much dating?

    In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked impact of overloading your dating life—how seeing too many people too quickly can lead to emotional burnout, decision fatigue, and even prematurely ending connections that had potential.

    I’ll break down how a high volume of dates can actually disconnect you from the emotional experience of dating, stop you from tuning into your own needs, and turn something meaningful into something mechanical.

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    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    7 mins
  • Dating Starts With You: What It Really Means to Build a Relationship With Yourself
    Jul 31 2025

    Before we focus on finding the right partner, it’s essential to ask—how strong is your relationship with yourself? In this episode, we unpack what it truly means to build a relationship with yourself from a psychological perspective.

    In this episode:

    - Learn how self-awareness, self-respect, and internal safety lay the foundation for dating with confidence and clarity.

    - How your inner world can shape who you’re drawn to, how you show up in relationships, and your ability to set healthy boundaries.

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    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    13 mins
  • Before You Fix It, Name It: Clarifying Your Dating Struggles
    Jul 2 2025

    Are you stuck in the same dating pattern—but not sure what exactly needs to change?
    Before you jump into solutions, take a step back: have you clearly defined the problem?

    In this episode, we explore how identifying what’s truly within your control in dating can help you move forward with clarity and purpose.

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    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    11 mins
  • Should I Keep Going or Let It Go? How to Follow Through in Dating
    Jun 30 2025

    Should you keep seeing them—or call it quits?
    In this episode, we explore how to navigate early dating with clarity and confidence.

    You’ll learn:

    • When to stay open and keep exploring a connection
    • How to follow through with connections on dating apps and in person
    • How to make decisions that align with your values—not just your anxiety

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    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    10 mins
  • Understanding the Impact of Complex Trauma on Dating & Relationships
    Jun 25 2025

    Why does dating feel so overwhelming when all you want is a healthy connection?
    In this episode, we explore how complex trauma can shape the way you approach dating and relationships—and what healing can look like.

    You’ll learn:

    • Common ways complex trauma shows up in dating
    • How your nervous system may confuse safety with danger
    • Why emotional avoidance, over-functioning, or shutdowns aren't “bad” behavior—but protective patterns

    Whether you’ve experienced emotional neglect, relational trauma, or simply want to date more consciously, this episode offers compassionate insight to help you move forward.

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    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    23 mins
  • Help! I'm Overthinking This Text
    Jun 24 2025

    Not sure what to text back?
    Feeling anxious while waiting for a reply or wondering if you're coming on too strong?

    In this episode:

    • How to pace texting without overextending
    • Managing anxiety while waiting for replies
    • When overthinking = avoiding real communication

    Dating Coaching Program – Now Open
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    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    18 mins
  • How To Be Present In Dating & Reduce Mind-Reading
    Jun 23 2025

    Meeting new people in dating can be anxiety provoking, frustrating, boring, confusing, and many other emotions. It is normal for the human brain to try and make sense of new people and made judgments and assumptions about them. This however, takes us away from being in the moment and can increase suffering and misinterpretation.

    In this episode:

    - Learn about the mindfulness skill of 'Observe' from DBT therapy and how this can be applied to dating


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    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    17 mins