Why does dating feel so overwhelming when all you want is a healthy connection?
In this episode, we explore how complex trauma can shape the way you approach dating and relationships—and what healing can look like.

You’ll learn:

• Common ways complex trauma shows up in dating
• How your nervous system may confuse safety with danger
• Why emotional avoidance, over-functioning, or shutdowns aren't “bad” behavior—but protective patterns

Whether you’ve experienced emotional neglect, relational trauma, or simply want to date more consciously, this episode offers compassionate insight to help you move forward.

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💛 Need Support? You’re Not Alone.

If you're in distress or need someone to talk to, please reach out:

🇦🇺 Australia
📞 Lifeline Australia – 13 11 14
24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention
🌐 www.lifeline.org.au

🇺🇸 United States
📞 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline – Call or Text 988
24/7 free and confidential support
🌐 988lifeline.org

🌍 In another country?
Please contact your local crisis line, GP, or search online for mental health support services in your region.

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Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.