Hear Anna discuss her recovery after her breast reduction, what it was like to be drawn on with a marker, and where the docs put the nips during the surgery. Where's a witch when you need one? On that note, our guest Angel shares her amazing, and not so amazing, stories about breast implants, and precautions you should take if you are looking into breast augmentation.

When is a home scarier than a mental hospital? When the home is a church run by an abusive pastor...who is also your father. Hear Drew as he describes growing up trans in a VERY religious household, his time in a hospital, and his journey to the happiness that he has now. Just a reminder that everyone changes and transitions, or should anyway. And orgies are more than three people, we think.

Drew's Go-Fund-Me for legal expenses- https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-a-child-out-of-danger?member=26471151&utm_campaign=p_cp%20share-sheet&utm_content=undefined&utm_medium=copy_link_all&utm_source=customer&utm_term=undefined&fbclid=IwAR2D9BaJJfG7sFH1J6Ko3XlyG8laOP4XjAvBAnF71q7B4ZFB0V7F9svjj7A

Hear Drue as she discusses using house rules for everything, talks about how people change as they grow (hopefully), and shares how important it is to see people who look like you, and not. We discuss using house rules...for everything, and being yourself in a world determined to make you ft in.

Sissy- Jacob Tobias https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/566884/sissy-by-jacob-tobia/

Hear Kyle and his mom, Shell, discuss what it's like coming out as trans in high school. Kyle teaches us a fun way to remind people of their pronouns and hear him discuss where he is in his journey and where he is off to next. Why does everyone need a Leah? What does Michael Jackson have to do with pronouns?

He's so unusual!

Transform Cincy- https://www.transformcincy.org/

Two Spirit Flag info There is no one agreed-upon two-spirit flag; however, tumbler user 2Sanon developed the most commonly seen two-spirit flag. They submitted it to ask-pride-color-schemes on December 17th, 2016.

Carbs are back and are more evil than ever! Listen to Maggie tell us a fun fact about pork rinds (and why you maybe shouldn't eat them in your third trimester... or ever) Leah reflects on her pleasant birthing experience that we covered in a previous episode, and Shellina's uterus shrivels up even more in the bowels of hell where it has been living since her hysterectomy 7 years ago. Maggie and Leah also talk about how pregnancy changes your body and what to do (or not do? do. I think, or don't), and if that symptom means you're fine, or not. You're totally fine. It's fine. Everything's fine.

OCD, NOCD, ERP, WTF does it all mean?!? Hear guests Paula and Artemis discuss their struggles with OCD, and hear our host Shellina talk about her battle with OCD tendencies. Listen as we describe different coping strategies (maladaptive and some better ones), talk about harm reduction, and listen as, FINALLY, a new villain enters the arena; Religious Private Schools! Paula will talk about the importance of taking baby steps toward your goals (...speaking of which, does anyone how Bob is doing? Let us know!), and Shellina tells everyone what the best hand sanitizer is. Tw warning for medication talk and mention of self-harm

NOCD app mentioned in podcast- not sponsored :)

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/nocd-ocd-therapy-and-tools/id1063365447

Hear our guests Steve and Sailor talk about their struggles with addiction. What impact did Sailor's best friend's boyfriend's best friend's sister have on their life? Does Sailor ever start to like the taste of alcohol? Does Steve learn his lesson? And, maybe most importantly, why is it so f*cking hard to make friends as a grown-up?!? Hear the answers to the first two questions (we're still trying to answer the last one...email us if you have any ideas...or if you want to be friends)

Hear our guests Steve and Sailor talk about their struggles with addiction. What impact did Sailor's best friend's boyfriend's best friend's sister have on their life? Does Sailor ever start to like the taste of alcohol? Does Steve learn his lesson? And, maybe most importantly, why is it so f*cking hard to make friends as a grown-up?!? Hear the answers to the first two questions (we're still trying to answer the last one...email us if you have any ideas...or if you want to be friends)

So turn to page 394 in your "Adulting 101" handbook...oh, you didn't get it either...frick.

SAMHSA addiction national helpline- 1-800-662-4357

Crisis Text Line- 741741

Suicide hotline- 988

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