Episodes

  • Episode 023 - The Alchemy of Emotion
    Aug 4 2025

    In this episode of Lessons for Luca, Michael DeSanti shares one of the most powerful tools he's ever used — for himself and his clients — to navigate emotional experiences and transform them into personal growth.

    🎙 The Alchemy of Emotion is the missing skill set we all need but were never taught.

    Learn Michael’s 4-part framework for emotional alchemy: 🔹 Label It 🔹 Locate It 🔹 Let It 🔹 Learn From It

    This episode is essential listening for anyone on the path of self-discovery, healing, and leadership.

    💡 “Our triggers are our teachers. Emotions are not the enemy — they are the raw material for becoming the man you're meant to be.”

    💬 What’s one emotion you’re ready to alchemize this week? Drop a comment and let’s talk about it.

    #LessonsForLuca #AlchemyOfEmotion #EmotionalIntelligence #MichaelDeSanti #MensWork #SelfDiscovery #Transformation #Triggers #HealingJourney #EmotionalGrowth #NewManEmerging #Podcast

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    25 mins
  • Episode 022 - Man In The Mirror
    Jul 28 2025

    Self-acceptance is a radical act in a world that constantly tells you that you're not enough until you achieve more, earn more, or become someone else.

    In this deeply personal episode of Lessons for Luca, Michael DeSanti explores what it means to truly see yourself — flaws and all — and begin the lifelong work of loving the man in the mirror.

    He unpacks: The trap of chasing worth through accomplishment The myth of “arriving” at a perfect future self Understanding and healing attachment styles (avoidant, anxious, disorganized) Sovereignty vs. loneliness in our internal world Why the path to better relationships starts with radical self-honesty How self-acceptance becomes the soil for purpose, partnership, and peace

    Whether you’re a father, partner, leader, or man on a journey, this is your invitation to pause, reflect, and begin again. The world doesn't need a perfect you. It needs an honest you. A whole you.

    Start with the man in the mirror.

    🔔 Subscribe for new episodes 🌍 Work with Michael: https://www.michaeldesanti.com 📸 Instagram: @mike_desanti

    #MichaelDeSanti #LessonsForLuca #ManInTheMirror #SelfAcceptance #MensWork #AttachmentStyles #InnerWork #PersonalGrowth #NewManEmerging #SpiritualGrowth #Podcast #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfLove #healingthemasculine

    Michael DeSanti dives into the heart of the journey of self discovery, especially with all the relentless marketing we experience. He emphasizes the importance of personal development and staying true to oneself. Discover actionable strategies for self improvement and cultivating a growth mindset as you navigate your self discovery journey.

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    27 mins
  • Episode 021 - What it Means to be a Good Man
    Jul 21 2025

    In this special episode, Michael DeSanti — transformational coach, author, and father — reads a heartfelt letter to his son about what it truly means to be a good man. From leadership and purpose to marriage and fatherhood, this message is both deeply personal and profoundly universal.

    Whether you grew up with a strong father figure or without one, this episode offers guidance, clarity, and inspiration for men navigating modern masculinity.

    💬 "Live by these principles, and you'll have the makings and markings of a good man." – Michael DeSanti

    If you're a father, a son, a husband, or a man searching for purpose — this one is for you.

    👉 Subscribe for more life lessons, transformational coaching insights, and conversations about modern masculinity.

    #Fatherhood #Manhood #MensMentalHealth #BeAGoodMan #Masculinity #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #MarriageAdvice #LifeLessons #MichaelDeSanti

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    10 mins
  • Episode 020 - Are You Living By Default or By Design?
    Jun 30 2025

    Are you tired of saying yes when you really want to say no? This episode of Lessons for Luca is a powerful reminder that boundaries aren’t selfish — they’re essential. If you struggle with people-pleasing or feel constantly overextended, this is your invitation to reclaim your time, energy, and self-worth.

    Learn how to identify what’s yours (and what’s not), how to confidently say no without guilt, and why setting healthy limits is the key to sustainable relationships and inner peace.

    🔔 Subscribe for weekly insights on leadership, masculinity, and living with integrity. 📩 Share this with someone who needs to hear it.

    #Boundaries #PeoplePleaser #EmotionalHealth #SelfWorth #PersonalGrowth #StopPeoplePleasing #HealthyRelationships #LessonsForLuca #MichaelDeSanti #NiceGuySyndrome #SayNoWithoutGuilt

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    33 mins
  • Episode 019 - Escaping the Anxiety Loop: A New Way to Think
    Jun 23 2025

    Anxiety isn’t a flaw — it’s a signal. In this episode of Lessons for Luca, Michael Danti reframes anxiety and overthinking as instinctual survival mechanisms that once protected us, but now often hold us back. Learn how the freeze response manifests as perfectionism, overthinking, and paralysis — and discover the four practical remedies to break the cycle: curiosity, clarity, commitment, and courage. If you’re ready to stop living in your head and start moving forward, this episode is your invitation to reclaim your power.

    #anxietyrelief #overthinking #mentalhealth #mindsetcoach #selfdevelopment #personalgrowth #emotionalintelligence #survivalinstincts #freezeresponse #lessonsforluca

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    36 mins
  • Episode 018 - The Greatest Lesson My Father Taught Me
    Jun 13 2025

    In this deeply personal episode of Lessons for Luca, Michael DeSanti reflects on the passing of his father and the powerful lessons learned through grief, forgiveness, and fatherhood. Ten years after his father’s death, Michael shares how loss shaped his own path as a dad—and how embracing grief with openness and meaning can lead to healing and deeper connection.

    Whether you're navigating parenthood, facing loss, or healing old wounds with your own parents, this conversation offers a heartfelt reminder: our parents were human all along, and grief—when embraced—can break our hearts open, not just break them.

    👣 Watch, reflect, and consider the greatest lesson your parent may have left behind.

    New episodes every two weeks. Subscribe and join the journey: Be a good man, live a good life, and determine each of those for yourself.

    #LessonsForLuca #GriefJourney #Fatherhood #Healing #LifeAfterLoss #ParentingWisdom #EmotionalHealth #Forgiveness #MensMentalHealth #MichaelDeSanti

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    31 mins
  • Episode 017 - Stop Being a Doormat: How to Break the People Pleaser Pattern
    Jun 2 2025

    If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly saying “yes” when you want to say “no,” overextending yourself to keep others happy, or carrying resentment because your needs always come last — this episode is for you.

    In this powerful conversation, transformational coach Michael DeSanti breaks down the root of people pleasing and Nice Guy Syndrome — a trauma response known as “fawning.” You’ll learn where it comes from, how it shows up in your life and relationships, and most importantly, how to break free and reclaim your personal power.

    💡 Learn the difference between being nice and being kind 🛑 Set boundaries without guilt 🔥 Rewire the patterns that keep you stuck

    You don’t have to live on fumes to be loved. You just have to stop abandoning yourself.

    🎧 Subscribe for more insights on healing, masculinity, leadership, and living a good life.

    #PeoplePleaser #NiceGuySyndrome #StopPeoplePleasing #EmotionalHealth #Boundaries #PersonalGrowth #TraumaHealing #SelfAbandonment #MichaelDeSanti #LessonsForLuca

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    29 mins
  • Episode 016 - Burnout is NOT Inevitable - Here’s How to Stop It!
    May 5 2025

    Burnout isn’t just about working too hard—it’s about working the wrong way. In this episode of Lessons for Luca, Michael De Santi breaks down the four hidden causes of burnout and how to fix them. If you're feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or stuck in the grind, this is your wake-up call.

    🔥 You’ll learn: ✅ Why your systems might be unsustainable (and how to fix them) ✅ How inaccurate energy & effort drain you faster ✅ The dangers of living inauthentically (and how to realign) ✅ Why meaningless work fuels burnout (and how to reclaim purpose)

    Burnout is NOT inevitable—it’s preventable. Watch now and take back control of your energy, focus, and fulfillment.

    🔔 Subscribe for more insights on self-mastery, purpose, and leadership: / @michael-desanti

    📢 Share this video with someone who needs it!

    #Burnout #SelfMastery #Productivity #HighAchievers #Mindset #LifeBalance #MentalHealth #Success #HustleCulture #WorkLifeBalance

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    25 mins