This week I had the great opportunity to sit down with friends David Dachinger and Bonnie Rumilly, two amazing humans that are doing great things for our first responder community. When I initially entered this space they were some of the first to welcome me with open arms.

Producing their own first responder podcast, Responder Resilience wasn't enough apparently. David , Bonnie and their co-host Dr Stacy Raymond had to take this initiative one step further with the creation of " Helping the Helpers, The Clinician's Guide to First Responder Mental Wellness".

What a resource for those that care about this community and wan to more effectively serve it. This book allows everyone that interacts with the first responder community to be more effective in their attempts to reach, and more importantly, positively impact the members of this community that have often had to go about their wellness journey alone.

Sit back, give the episode a listen, pick up your copy with he provided links below and become part of the solution!

Amazon: https://a.co/d/17xjjXB

Web page: https://www.respondertv.com/p/helpingthehelpers/

| Lt. David Dachinger (Ret.)
Producer/Host Responder Resilience | Igniting the Shift Within
Phone 904-717-1222 Email info@responderTV.com
Web ResponderTV.com Peer Coach 22Zero.org
Advisory Board Fairfield County Trauma Response Team
Powerful New Resource Helping the Helpers-The Clinicians Guide to First Responder Mental Wellness

Thank you for taking the time to give this podcast a listen. If you would like more information on other Law enforcement Life Coach initiatives, our "Sometimes Heroes Need Help" wellness seminar or our One-On-One life coaching please visit :

www.lawenforcementlifecoach.com

John@lawenforcementlifecoach.com

And if you would like to watch the interview you can view it in it's entirety on the Law Enforcement Life Coach YouTube Channel :
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This week I had the opportunity to sit down with Jay Gruben, founder of Resilience Under Fire. Jay and I discuss how we bring the body and the brain back into balance after a traumatic event, getting you to respond and not react, thats one of many goals. Sit back and give this episode a listen and come away intrigued and better prepared to be an advocate for your own mental health and wellbeing.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaygruben/overlay/contact-info/

jsgruben@gmail.com

More about Jay

I help people who live and lead under pressure learn how to stabilize their nervous system after high stress moments, individual crisis, and community crisis, and return to clarity (take the armor off) when it matters most, when you’re off shift, with your family or friends, and not working.

As the founder of Resilience Under Fire, I teach science backed tools that I’ve mastered through training with renowned scientists, somatic practitioners, and many others, tools that bring the body and brain back into balance even when life feels intense or unpredictable. My work draws from neuroscience, physiology, kinesiology, biology, behavioral science, and human performance research. But I am not the academic, and this is not an academic program. I speak to people who didn’t go to school for this with master’s degrees or doctorates. What I share is postdoctoral-level information integrated with common sense and delivered in common tongue.

The goal isn’t to avoid stress, it’s to work with your system so it learns how to balance survival brain dominance. When people understand their body’s signals, they stop reacting from impulse and start making decisions with a clearer mind.

If you’re seeking ways to build calm under pressure, strengthen emotional awareness, and create stability in yourself or your team, that’s what Resilience Under Fire is built for:
Rise. Rebuild. Reclaim.

Thank you for taking the time to give this podcast a listen. If you would like more information on other Law enforcement Life Coach initiatives, our "Sometimes Heroes Need Help" wellness seminar or our One-On-One life coaching please visit :

www.lawenforcementlifecoach.com

John@lawenforcementlifecoach.com

And if you would like to watch the interview you can view it in it's entirety on the Law Enforcement Life Coach YouTube Channel :
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Round two! So thankful that Dr. Leah Kaylor, The FBI's sleep expert and author of "If Sleep Were A Drug...", was able to work us into her busy schedule. We picked ups where we left off, discussing and doing a deep dive on EMDR, Brain Spotting, and with the help and guidance of this that know we can take back what was lost for many of us, a great nights sleep. Wed discussed her new book that is coming out on October 1, "If Sleep Were a Drug, The Science of Sleep Optimization...". Become your own wellness advocate by doing the things that will make you successful. Sit back and give this episode a listen and add enormous value to your life and the lives of those you love. Until next week, take care of yourself and each other.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/drleahkaylor/

https://drleahkaylor.com/

https://www.amazon.com/Sleep-Were-Drug-Optimization-Performance-ebook/dp/B0FQFBBD3W/ref=sr_1_2?crid=390YRU3D5NTN8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.-BS-WRdUX_efkXXaSxVmmwii31ArS0FhbgCxzYfNFHE.UkYwKVB7ewKAUj58vF4c9zhmpAf_C3OAeShz3xosL6c&dib_tag=se&keywords=if+sleep+were+a+drug&qid=1758373804&sprefix=if+sleep%2Caps%2C146&sr=8-2

Thank you for taking the time to give this podcast a listen. If you would like more information on other Law enforcement Life Coach initiatives, our "Sometimes Heroes Need Help" wellness seminar or our One-On-One life coaching please visit :

www.lawenforcementlifecoach.com

John@lawenforcementlifecoach.com

And if you would like to watch the interview you can view it in it's entirety on the Law Enforcement Life Coach YouTube Channel :
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This week I had the pleasure of sitting down with former NYPD/NYFD execution strategist, Neil Schoepp. Neil and I discuss what's keeping you stuck and hesitating. More importantly, Neil explains the WHY? behind you not being where you want to be, and offers a roadmap on how to get there. Sit back and give this episode a listen and come way a better version of you for doing so.

Neil Schoepp spent 24 years in the firehouse and on the streets of NYC, where hesitation got people killed. Now he helps men kill hesitation before it kills their momentum. He turns over thinkers into Freedom Thinkers—men who execute, lead, and refuse to live life on autopilot. His FIREGROUND FRAMEWORK is forged from real chaos, and his 112M Freedom Thinkers mission is built to wake men up, get them moving, and put them back in command of their future.

www.neilschoepp.com

@Neil Schoepp

info@neilschoepp.com

Thank you for taking the time to give this podcast a listen. If you would like more information on other Law enforcement Life Coach initiatives, our "Sometimes Heroes Need Help" wellness seminar or our One-On-One life coaching please visit :

www.lawenforcementlifecoach.com

John@lawenforcementlifecoach.com

And if you would like to watch the interview you can view it in it's entirety on the Law Enforcement Life Coach YouTube Channel :
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I absolutely loved the conversation I had this week with Psychologist, and CEO and creator of the Tactical Longevity Training Program, Jenny Prohaska, PhD. Jenny has been helping individuals and agencies to do the hard work that it takes to change, shift, and improve culture. Asking tough questions, getting to the cause and not the symptom is what she does best. I thought the message she left us with was one of empowerment and hope and it starts with asking "why".

http://tacticallongevity.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenny-prohaska-phd-tacticallongevity/

I work with the people everyone else turns to in a crisis. That means law enforcement, fire service, emergency medicine, trauma teams, and high-stakes leaders. And I help them stay durable under pressure.

After years on the clinical front-lines treating trauma, brain injury, helping people adapt to life altering physical injury in both an academic hospital setting and in private practice, I saw firsthand what breaks people. I also saw what makes them come back stronger. That became the foundation of Tactical Longevity.

Tactical Longevity is not therapy. It’s applied psychological science engineered for high-stress, high-stakes environments. It’s designed to build anti-fragile professionals who lead better, think clearer, and recover faster when the pressure is on.

My background includes:

- Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, University of Kansas
- Former Assistant Clinical Professor, University of Kansas Hospital Systems
- Fellowship-trained in neuro-rehabilitation, brain injury, and forensic assessment
- National presenter for International Association of Chief's of Police, FBI National Academy Associates, National Tactical Officers Association, and others
- Developer of over 24 peer support teams across the nation, with consultation on nearly 50
- Force Science Certified with specialization in Officer-Involved Shootings, Critical Incidents, and high-impact occupational injuries
- Culture and organizational psychology for tactical teams

Today, I train leaders and teams across public safety, trauma medicine, and high-risk industries, delivering performance systems that reduce failure, shorten recovery, and prevent long-term psychological degradation.

If your role doesn’t allow for failure, burnout, or extended breaks, we should talk.

Thank you for taking the time to give this podcast a listen. If you would like more information on other Law enforcement Life Coach initiatives, our "Sometimes Heroes Need Help" wellness seminar or our One-On-One life coaching please visit :

www.lawenforcementlifecoach.com

John@lawenforcementlifecoach.com

And if you would like to watch the interview you can view it in it's entirety on the Law Enforcement Life Coach YouTube Channel :
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This week I had the pleasure of sitting down with Author and investigative journalist Rosemary Reynolds and brother of Murdered Police Chief Ralph Painter, Alan Painter. The book "Trapped in the System / Bringing the Killer of Rainier Police Chief Ralph Painter to Justice", uncovers a system that creates victims out of suspects and punishes families that are victims of murderous acts. This story would be less impactful if it was relegated to this one incident. The truth, the justice system we have in place is anything but just. Criminals are given compassion, empathy, and second chances after displaying none of those characteristics to their victims. I don't want to live in a world where the rights of the criminal outweigh the rights of the individuals and families they victimize. This one will make you question the system and how survivors of horrendous crimes are repeatedly victimized by a system that was intended to protect them.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DTPDLG4X?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_dt_b_product_details

Thank you for taking the time to give this podcast a listen. If you would like more information on other Law enforcement Life Coach initiatives, our "Sometimes Heroes Need Help" wellness seminar or our One-On-One life coaching please visit :

www.lawenforcementlifecoach.com

John@lawenforcementlifecoach.com

And if you would like to watch the interview you can view it in it's entirety on the Law Enforcement Life Coach YouTube Channel :
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What a pleasure to have the opportunity to sit down and discuss sleep and trauma with one of the country's leading experts in both. Dr. Leah Kaylor is the FBI's go to expert in addressing sleep deficiencies and trauma resolution within their ranks. It's very much a what came first dynamic / "chicken or the egg" type scenario when we start to talk about health issues and the lack of quality sleep. This conversation was a game changer when it comes to improving the quality of your sleep. The conversation will continue with multiple episodes discussing the numerous ways we can improve the quality of our sleep. Sit back and give this episode a listen and come away with a plan to do better!

https://www.linkedin.com/in/drleahkaylor/

Thank you for taking the time to give this podcast a listen. If you would like more information on other Law enforcement Life Coach initiatives, our "Sometimes Heroes Need Help" wellness seminar or our One-On-One life coaching please visit :

www.lawenforcementlifecoach.com

John@lawenforcementlifecoach.com

And if you would like to watch the interview you can view it in it's entirety on the Law Enforcement Life Coach YouTube Channel :
https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCib6HRqAFO08gAkZQ-B9Ajw/videos/upload?filter=%5B%5D&sort=%7B%22columnType%22%3A%22date%22%2C%22sortOrder%22%3A%22DESCENDING%22%7D

This week I had the pleasure of sitting down with co-founders of "Thrive with Chaos", Libby Timmons and Felicia Dadamio. Thrive with Chaos offers a second chance for first responders that find themselves in the storm. Their organization offers services to help the first responder reclaim their lives. These services include Individual Therapy, Couples Therapy, Case Management, Peer-led relapse prevention education groups, Peer-led life skills groups, CBT and CPT programs, 3-5 day experiential workshops, Wellness Checks, CISM services, consulting, training, and our specialized FLIP (First Life Intervention Program).

We had a great conversation discussing how the work they are doing is supporting organizations and first responders in reclaiming their lives, families and careers.

https://www.thrivewithchaos.com

Thank you for taking the time to give this podcast a listen. If you would like more information on other Law enforcement Life Coach initiatives, our "Sometimes Heroes Need Help" wellness seminar or our One-On-One life coaching please visit :

www.lawenforcementlifecoach.com

John@lawenforcementlifecoach.com

And if you would like to watch the interview you can view it in it's entirety on the Law Enforcement Life Coach YouTube Channel :
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