If you’ve ever replayed a conversation in your head… asked yourself Why did I say that? Why didn’t they reply? Why can’t I let it go? — then this episode is for you. I walk you through two deceptively simple yet profoundly powerful systems:

• The The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, which says: don’t chase people, don’t prove yourself, don’t perform to be accepted—just let them reveal who they are.
• The The Quinn Essentials by Andrea Quinn, and specifically the “Good to Know” tool, which is what you say after the disappointment, the boundary-crossing, the moment you see the truth and instead of spiralling, you say “Good to know.”

In this episode you’ll discover:

• The core difference between “Let Them” and “Good to Know”
• How these apply not just to romantic relationships, but to leadership, corporate communication, sales, parenting, team culture
• Why activating your brain’s pre-frontal cortex (“Let Them” = pause, space, control) and soothing the amygdala (“Good to Know” = process, transform, evolve) matters in business and life
• Pop-culture clips you’ll recognise (yes, I mention Legally Blonde, Jerry Maguire, Frozen, Sex and the City) to make this sticky and fun
• My personal story using “Good to Know” live on-stage when someone challenged me (you’ll hear that moment)
• Corporate & sales takeaways: know when to disengage, and when to re-calibrate and stay.

You don’t need to explain yourself. You don’t need to prove yourself. You simply need to breathe.

• Say “Let Them” when someone’s behaviour tells you they’re on a different path.
• Say “Good to Know” when the truth reveals itself and you decide to evolve, not collapse.

Leadership isn’t about controlling every outcome—it’s about keeping your soul steady in the storm, staying calm, centred, responsive. That’s being in the driver’s seat of your life. And yes, you belong in that seat. You matter. You’ve got this.

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In this episode of In the Driver’s Seat, I’m taking you courtside with Caitlin Clark—and straight into your next boardroom.

Caitlin doesn’t shrink to make others feel tall. She owns her space, her stats, and her swagger, and that’s a lesson every sales pro, leader, and entrepreneur needs to hear. Why? Because greatness doesn’t whisper. And neither should you.

We’ll break down how your body language—chin level, pace of your stride, the way you hold eye contact—speaks louder than any pitch deck. You’ll hear how power postures literally rewire your brain chemistry, lowering cortisol, boosting confidence, and giving your audience the calm authority they want to follow.

From Beyoncé’s pre-stage stance to Kobe Bryant’s unshakable playoff walk, you’ll discover how the world’s best performers use presence as a performance enhancer—and how you can steal their strategies before your next sales call, client pitch, or team meeting.

We’ll also tackle the silent killers of authority: the “sorry reflex,” the shoulder shrug, and those hedging phrases (“I just think,” “maybe this is wrong”). These tiny leaks of uncertainty spread to your audience through mirror neurons—and suddenly your boss, your client, or your team doesn’t buy what you’re selling.

Here’s the good news: confidence isn’t arrogance. It’s clarity. It’s preparation. It’s walking in with the same earned bravado Caitlin Clark carries onto the court. And today, I’ll show you exactly how to train it.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why Caitlin Clark’s body language is a masterclass for sales and leadership
• The neuroscience behind power postures and how they lower anxiety
• How apologizing for taking up space undermines your authority (and how to stop)
• The difference between confidence and arrogance—and how to project the right one
• A quick drill you can use before any meeting to walk in like you belong (because you do)

If you’re tired of playing small, this episode is your reminder: own the moment, own your space, and stop dimming your light. Greatness doesn’t whisper—so step up, take the shot, and play to win.

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What if you could see the play before it even happened?

That’s what Caitlin Clark does on the court—and it’s exactly what great leaders and sales pros do in the boardroom. They don’t just react, they anticipate.

In this episode of In The Driver’s Seat with Janine Driver, we unpack the science of anticipatory cognition—the ability to read patterns, run mental simulations, and spot subtle cues before anyone else. From Caitlin Clark’s no-look passes to Tom Brady’s split-second adjustments, the same skill that separates elite athletes can make or break your next deal, negotiation, or leadership moment.

Here’s what you’ll take away:

• The neuroscience of anticipation: how your prefrontal cortex, hippocampus, and RAS (reticular activating system) work together to predict outcomes.
• Body language red flags and green lights: the subtle lean-ins, pauses, and micro-yeses that reveal objections—or opportunities—before they’re spoken.
• Corporate applications: how to sense a client’s hesitation, spot burnout in your team, or read the market shift before it hits the headlines.
• Training your “court vision”: simple practices to rewire your brain so you’re always three steps ahead in sales, leadership, and life.

Think of it as Moneyball meets Minority Report meets your Monday morning meeting.

👉 Whether you’re a sales leader, executive, or entrepreneur, this episode will show you how to stop reacting, start anticipating, and win more by seeing what’s coming next.

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In today’s episode of In the Driver’s Seat, we’re diving into the silent swagger of Caitlin Clark—and why the stillest person in the room usually holds the most power.

Think about it: the clock is ticking, the crowd is roaring, and Caitlin doesn’t flinch. No nervous hand flapping. No over-explaining. Just steel eyes, calm breath, and still power.

This episode is packed with insights for corporate leaders, sales professionals, and anyone who finds themselves in high-stakes moments:

The Science of Calm Dominance – why your amygdala tries to hijack you under stress and how to keep your prefrontal cortex online.

Body Language Hacks – the “short fat candle” stance, belly breathing, and micro-movements that signal authority.

Business Case Studies – from Fortune 500 boardrooms to Steve Jobs’ legendary pauses, learn how silence closes deals.

Pop Culture Parallels – Moneyball, The King’s Speech, and why Steph Curry’s free throw routine is a leadership lesson.

A Tactical Takeaway – before your next meeting: roll your shoulders back, plant your feet, breathe, pause. Watch how people lean in.

Here’s the kicker: over-talking after making your point isn’t for them, it’s for you. It’s self-soothing, and it kills credibility. Caitlin Clark’s calm in chaos proves this—so can yours.

If you’re in sales, leadership, or just want to show up with executive presence, this is the episode you’ll want to replay before your next big pitch.

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What if you could read focus before a single word was spoken?

That’s exactly what I’m breaking down in this episode of In the Driver’s Seat. Welcome to Episode 1 of my new mini-series: The Playmaker’s Edge – 4 Power Moves for High-Performance Leadership.

We’re stealing plays straight from Caitlin Clark’s game (yes, the basketball phenom taking the sports world by storm) and turning them into practical business tools for sales, leadership, and HR.

Today, I reveal a secret cue: the tongue.
Sounds funny, but stick with me. Michael Jordan did it. Serena Williams does it. Even kids in spelling bees do it. When the tongue sneaks out, your brain is telling you something BIG—and if you know how to read it, you gain the upper hand in every negotiation, sales call, and leadership meeting.

Key Takeaways
1. The tongue is a truth teller—a body cue that can’t be faked.
2. Cognitive overload shows up physically—spotting it gives you real-time insight into decision-making.
3. In sales and leadership, silence is often your strongest move.

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Why Being Ghosted Hurts So Bad—And How to Flip the Script in Business
Ever been ghosted?
On a date.
On a deal.
By a client who said “Let’s circle back”... and never did?

This episode is your closure. 🔥

Janine Driver—body language expert, former federal law enforcement trainer, bestselling author, and keynote speaker to Fortune 500s—is breaking down the neuroscience behind unfinished endings, also known as open loops.

🧠 Here’s the wild truth:
Your brain would rather hear bad news than no news at all—because your brain is wired for completion. And when the story doesn’t end, your brain keeps refreshing like an inbox waiting for an email that never comes.

In this episode:
1. The brain region activated when you're ghosted (same one triggered by physical pain 👀)
2. Why that “Sopranos” finale still bugs you
3. How open loops quietly sabotage sales, creativity, and confidence at work
4. Why leaders, speakers, and content creators need to use strategic ambiguity
5. How Janine uses open loops on stage to keep audiences leaning in
A simple 3-step exercise to close your own unfinished loops and take back control

Whether you're navigating dating, deals, or delivery delays, this episode gives you the science and strategy to stop spiraling—and start driving forward with clarity.

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BODY LANGUAGE. NEUROSCIENCE. AND A VIRAL KISS CAM SCANDAL?! OH YEAH, WE’RE GOING THERE.

In this high-octane episode of In the Driver’s Seat, Janine breaks down a jaw-dropping viral moment that happened July 16, 2025, at a Coldplay concert in Boston — her old stomping grounds.

What looked like a cozy couple on the kiss cam?
Turns out they were married…
Just not to each other.

Within hours, TikTok detectives exposed their identities:
🚨 Andy Byron – CEO of Astronomer
🚨 Kristin Cabot – Chief People Officer

But here’s the twist:
They weren’t exposed by their words.
They were exposed by their body language.

From ducking behind chairs to elbow shields and whispering under pressure, their nervous systems spilled the truth before their brains could form a sentence.

And you? Whether you're leading a sales team, hosting a boardroom meeting, navigating conflict at work—or even just trying to survive a family group chat—this episode will show you how to spot what's really going on behind the blink.

💥 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ Why body language reveals the truth up to 9 seconds before thought
✅ How the SCARF model (Status, Certainty, Autonomy, Relatedness, Fairness) explains real human behavior under social threat
✅ 4 unforgettable real-world examples: Will Smith, Meghan Markle, Lori Loughlin, Tom Cruise
✅ 5 iconic movie/TV scenes decoded: From Olivia Pope to Iron Man
✅ A 3-step hack to regain emotional control under stress—personally and professionally
✅ The difference between leading under pressure and leaking under pressure

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What if I told you everything you thought you knew about lie detection and eye movements was... wrong?

👀 Yup, that whole “if they look up to the right, they’re lying” thing?
🚫 Total myth.
🧠 And it’s costing corporate leaders, sales pros, coaches, and law enforcement more than they realize.

In today’s episode of In the Driver’s Seat, I’m busting one of the biggest pseudoscience myths in human behavior—and showing you how to actually use eye movement to become more persuasive, trusted, and emotionally intelligent.

Here’s what we get into:

• The truth about eye movement and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
• Why “up and right = liar” is junk food for your brain
• What Dr. Paul Ekman and Dr. Mark Frank’s research really says about deception
• How to use eye cues to build rapport and tailor your influence strategy
• The real science behind reading visual, auditory, and kinesthetic thinkers
• And why clusters of behavior—not a single glance—are your secret weapon

If you’re in sales, leadership, HR, coaching, or law enforcement, this episode is a must. Your credibility, your career, and your conversations depend on getting this right.

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