• 6. Anxiety & Depression: The Hidden Cost of Trying to Control Birth & Motherhood
    Jun 3 2025

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    In this episode I'm joined by my friend Crystal Doiron, a licensed clinical social worker and mama, as she courageously shares her story of postpartum depression and anxiety—and the hope she found on the other side.

    Crystal's journey began with detailed plans, a "birth binder" (not just a birth plan!), and the determination to do everything "right." But when preeclampsia led to an emergency induction, C-section, and a cascade of unexpected challenges, Crystal found herself struggling with the gap between expectation and reality.

    This conversation is raw, honest, and deeply encouraging. Crystal opens up about the darkest moments of her postpartum experience—including the day she realized she was having thoughts of ending her life—and how that became her wake-up call to seek help and find healing.

    Whether you're currently struggling with perinatal mood challenges, supporting someone who is, or want to prepare your heart for what might come—this episode offers both practical wisdom and spiritual hope.

    In this episode, Crystal shares:

    🧠 How her perfectionist, control-focused personality made her more vulnerable to postpartum depression

    💔 The moment her carefully planned birth completely fell apart and how that affected her emotionally

    🚨 Five medical red flags that can contribute to or worsen perinatal anxiety and depression

    💪 Practical steps she took toward healing: therapy, reclaiming body autonomy, and prioritizing self-care

    ✝️ How reconnecting with God felt like "winter fading into spring—things slowly coming back to life"

    📝 The "sticky note strategy" for getting postpartum help without the awkwardness

    👥 Why community and vulnerability are essential for maternal mental health

    Scripture Shared:

    "The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases. His mercies never come to an end. They are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness." – Lamentations 3:22-23 (ESV)

    I close this episode with a heartfelt prayer for any mama walking through the darkness of perinatal mood challenges—that you would know you're seen, loved, and held by a faithful God who never leaves you.

    Mentioned in this episode:

    ✨ Seven Oaks Therapy: Connect with Crystal at crystal@sevenoakstherapy.com

    📚 Postpartum Support International: Virtual support groups and resources

    💛 Christian Mama Birth Prep Library: Free Birth Preferences Checklist, worship playlists & more

    Remember: struggling doesn't make you a bad mom—it makes you human, and help is available.

    If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mama who needs to hear Crystal's story of hope. Let's keep choosing faith over fear, one birth story at a time. Go here for the full blog post, show notes, and all resources mentioned!

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  • 5. Creating Your Birth Preferences: A Step-by-Step Guide
    May 27 2025

    In this episode of Faith Over Fear: The Christian Pregnancy & Birth Podcast, I'm sharing a practical but powerful tool for your birth journey—creating effective birth preferences that serve as a communication tool for your entire birth team. Rather than focusing on controlling every aspect of birth, this approach creates clarity and unity while honoring God's ultimate plan. Whether you're preparing for your first birth, hoping to have more input in your birth experience, or simply wanting to feel more prepared, this step-by-step guide will help you approach birth with both wisdom and surrender.

    In this episode, I share:

    📋 Why I prefer "birth preferences" over "birth plans" and the biblical wisdom behind this mindset

    ✔️ Essential categories to consider from before labor begins through postpartum care

    🎶 Practical comfort measures including my favorite essential oils and music recommendations

    🗣️ How to communicate your preferences clearly while still holding them with open hands

    👶 Personal stories and lessons from my own births with Ellie and Daniel

    Scripture Shared: "Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand." – Proverbs 19:21

    A Prayer for You: I close this episode by praying over you as you prepare for your baby's birth. May you find wisdom in preparation, peace in surrender, and confidence knowing that God goes before you, beside you, and covers you with His unfailing love throughout your birth journey.

    Mentioned in this episode:

    📚 Christian Mama Birth Prep Library: Free Birth Preferences Checklist, worship playlists & more

    ☑️ Birth Ball Sizing Guide: Check out my Instagram post about proper birth ball sizing

    ✝️ Online Christian Childbirth Education: Explore my complete birth preparation self-paced course

    If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend. Let's keep choosing faith over fear, one birth story at a time. Go here for the full blog post, show notes, and all resources mentioned!

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  • 4. She Waited Two Years for a Positive Pregnancy Test—Then God Moved (with Sarah Salain)
    May 20 2025

    In this episode of Faith Over Fear: The Christian Pregnancy & Birth Podcast, I’m joined by my very first guest—Sarah Salain, a registered nurse, Christian holistic health coach, and new mama—who shares her powerful story of waiting, surrender, and God’s faithfulness.

    After years of hormonal challenges and praying for a baby, Sarah found herself walking through a long and painful season of infertility. As a health coach supporting other women through fertility struggles, her own waiting felt especially heavy—until God moved in a way only He could.

    In this deeply honest and hope-filled conversation, Sarah shares:

    🌱 What it was like to walk through infertility while helping others heal
    ✝️ How the Lord clearly led her to wait—despite pressure to pursue fertility treatments
    🤰 The joy and gratitude she experienced throughout pregnancy
    🕯️ Her powerful, faith-centered hospital birth and the moment her life verse came to life
    💛 The raw realities of postpartum, surrendering expectations, and finding purpose in motherhood

    Scripture Shared:
    “I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.” – Romans 8:18 (NIV)
    (Spoiler: Her baby was born at 8:18 PM 🕯️)

    A Prayer for You:
    At the end of the episode, I offer a prayer especially for the mama in the waiting—whether you're longing for a baby, facing an unexpected diagnosis, or just needing reassurance that God sees you. May Sarah’s story remind you that God’s timing is never late and His promises are always true.

    Mentioned in this episode:
    ✨ Christian Mama Birth Prep Library – Free tools & worship playlists to help you prepare with peace
    💛 Explore Doula Support & Childbirth Education – Virtual and in-person care for faith-led births
    🌿 Connect with Sarah – Learn more about her work through Simply Sarah Healing

    If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend. Let’s keep choosing faith over fear—one birth story at a time.

    👉 Visit the full blog post for show notes, transcript, and links to everything mentioned!

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    39 mins
  • 3. Natural Labor Prep: Simple Ways to Ready Your Body for Birth
    May 13 2025

    In this episode of Faith Over Fear: The Christian Pregnancy & Birth Podcast, we’re talking all about natural ways to help your body prepare for labor—without fear, overwhelm, or pressure to do “all the things.”

    Whether you’re weeks away from meeting your baby or just starting to plan for birth, understanding cervical ripening can empower you to partner with your body, honor God’s design, and prepare from a place of peace. I’m breaking down what cervical ripening actually is, why it matters, how your provider might assess your body’s readiness for labor using something called the Bishop Score, and simple, gentle things you can do to support the process naturally.

    If you’ve ever felt unsure about what you should be doing to get ready for birth—or wrestled with the fear of “what if my body doesn’t know what to do?”—this episode will meet you with encouragement, education, and faith.

    In this episode, I share:

    🌿 What the cervix does as you approach labor—and why ripening matters
    🧠 A simple breakdown of the Bishop Score (so it actually makes sense!)
    🫖 Gentle natural methods to support ripening (like red raspberry leaf tea, dates, and more)
    📖 The mindset shift that frees you from control and anchors you in trust
    🙏 How to pray through the waiting and release pressure to perform

    Scripture Shared:

    “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”
    — Ecclesiastes 3:1 (ESV)


    A Prayer for You:
    I close this episode with a prayer over your heart and your pregnancy—that you would feel God’s nearness in the waiting, be free from fear, and walk in confident peace knowing He is preparing your body and writing your baby’s birth story with care and love.

    Mentioned in this episode:

    • ✨ Christian Mama Birth Prep Library: Free birth prep tools, worship playlists & more
    • 💛 Work with Me 1:1 – Doula Support & Coaching: Explore birth support and childbirth education for your pregnancy and birth journey

    If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend. Let’s keep choosing faith over fear!

    Go here for the full blog post, show notes, and all resources mentioned!

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    23 mins
  • 2. From Hospital Birth to Home Birth: Daniel's Birth
    May 6 2025

    In this episode of Faith Over Fear: The Christian Pregnancy & Birth Podcast, I’m sharing the full story of my second birth—Daniel’s peaceful home birth—and how it stretched my faith, challenged my need for control, and ultimately led me to experience more joy and surrender than I thought possible.

    This pregnancy and birth journey was different from my first. After delivering my daughter unmedicated in a hospital, I found myself being called toward a new kind of birth experience. But that shift came with fear, hesitation, and daily moments of surrender—especially after walking through another miscarriage scare and months of intense early labor symptoms.

    Whether you’re considering a home birth, wrestling with “what if” scenarios, or simply needing a fresh reminder that God is with you in your birth story—this episode is full of encouragement for your heart, mind, and spirit.

    In this episode, I share:

    • 🌸 How we decided to switch from hospital care to planning a home birth
    • 🩺 Navigating another miscarriage scare and trusting God’s provision for our pregnancy
    • 🎶 How worship music and prayer helped me through labor’s most intense moments
    • ✝️ The mindset shifts that helped me surrender fear and embrace faithful preparation
    • 👶 Sweet, unexpected moments that made Daniel’s birth even more joyful than I imagined

    Scripture Shared:

    "When a woman is giving birth, she has sorrow because her hour has come, but when she has delivered the baby, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a human being has been born into the world." – John 16:21 (ESV)

    A Prayer for You:

    I close this episode by praying over you—especially if you’re carrying fear, uncertainty, or heavy hopes into your pregnancy or birth journey. May you be reminded that God is near, His timing is perfect, and His joy is waiting on the other side of surrender.

    Mentioned in this episode:

    • ✨ Christian Mama Birth Prep Library: Free birth prep tools, worship playlists & more
    • 💛 Work with Me 1:1 – Doula Support & Coaching: Explore birth support and childbirth education for your pregnancy and birth journey

    If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend. Let’s keep choosing faith over fear, one birth story at a time.

    Go here for the full blog post, show notes, and all resources mentioned!

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    49 mins
  • 1. How God Used My Birth Story to Call Me Into Birth Work (Ellie’s Unmedicated Hospital Birth)
    Apr 29 2025

    In this very first episode of Faith Over Fear: The Christian Pregnancy & Birth Podcast, I’m taking you behind the scenes of one of the most transformative days of my life—the birth of my daughter, Ellie.

    From navigating unexpected complications early in pregnancy to giving birth unmedicated in a hospital setting, this episode is full of the real, raw, faith-filled moments that shaped me as a woman and called me into the sacred work of serving other mamas.

    You’ll hear how I coped with a subchorionic hematoma, managed intense pelvic pain, and prepared for birth with a mix of evidence-based tools and spiritual practices. You’ll also get a glimpse of the worship-filled atmosphere during labor, how “The Blessing” became my birth anthem, and the exact moment I realized God was calling me to become a doula and childbirth educator.

    Whether you’re newly pregnant, preparing for birth, or just curious how God shows up in the labor room—this episode will inspire you to surrender fear, embrace faithful preparation, and trust in His beautiful design for birth.

    In this episode, I share:

    • My journey through early pregnancy fears and faith
    • Coping with a subchorionic hematoma and pelvic pain due to hypermobility
    • The natural comfort measures that helped me during labor
    • How I experienced God’s peace and presence in the delivery room
    • What sparked my decision to become a doula and childbirth educator

    Scripture Shared:
    “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” – Proverbs 16:9

    A Prayer for You:
    I close this episode by praying over you—whether you’re hoping to conceive, currently pregnant, or already a mama. May God meet you in your preparation and birth journey with peace, strength, and deep trust in His goodness.

    Mentioned in this episode:

    • ✨ Christian Mama Birth Prep Library: Free birth planning tools, worship playlist & more
    • 💛 Work with Me 1:1 – Doula Support & Coaching: Explore in-person and virtual support for your pregnancy and birth

    If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend. Let’s keep choosing faith over fear, one birth story at a time. Go here for the full episode show notes and all resources mentioned!

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    25 mins
  • My Heart Behind the Podcast
    Apr 12 2025

    Welcome to Faith Over Fear: The Christian Pregnancy & Birth Podcast!

    In this short trailer episode, I’m sharing the heart behind the podcast and why I believe Christian mamas need a space like this now more than ever.

    You’ll hear what to expect from each episode, the mission driving this podcast, and how we’ll walk through pregnancy, birth, and early motherhood together—with our eyes fixed on Jesus, not fear.

    This is more than just a birth podcast. It’s a gospel-centered invitation to trust God more deeply in one of the most powerful seasons of your life.

    💛 Visit faithoverfearbirth.com to access my free Christian Mama Birth Prep Library and learn how I can support you with virtual or in-person doula care.

    🎧 Be sure to subscribe and follow the show on your favorite platform—so you never miss an episode of encouragement, truth, and peace-filled preparation.

    Let’s begin—choosing faith over fear, one step at a time.

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