In this episode of Deciphering Growth, Tiffany and Eric take a deep dive into the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—and how early childhood trauma rewires the brain's response to connection, trust, and safety.

We unpack the neuroscience behind attachment, including amygdala reactivity, vagal tone, and how co-regulation and emotional attunement impact the development of the nervous system. Learn how attachment patterns show up in adult relationships, friendships, and the workplace—and how neuroplasticity makes healing possible.

Whether you’re navigating anxiety in relationships, exploring trauma recovery, or just curious about how your brain and body respond to connection, this episode offers insight, hope, and practical understanding.

In this powerful episode of Deciphering Growth, Tiffany Graves and Eric Stone sit down with filmmakers Blue and Jason Gerber, directors of the documentary Dawn Dusk. The film follows designer Chelli Look as she navigates grief, forgiveness, and resilience after losing her sister to domestic violence.

Rather than focusing on the violence itself, Dawn Dusk explores the healing journey that follows — showing how creativity, advocacy, and the rhythms of life can transform pain into purpose. The conversation dives into themes of trauma, grief, forgiveness, and the role of art in mental health recovery.

How does trauma shape addiction—and how can recovery programs support true healing?

In this week’s episode of Deciphering Growth, we break down what it really means for recovery spaces to be trauma-informed. We talk about the language that helps (and harms), common missteps in traditional models, and the importance of nervous system regulation in healing.

We’re also exploring alternative programs and what it means to build safer, more supportive recovery environments for everyone.

✨ If you’ve ever wondered why some recovery programs miss the mark—or how we can do better—this is an episode for you.

Addiction isn’t a moral failure—it’s often a survival response to unresolved trauma. In this week’s episode of Deciphering Growth, we unpack the neuroscience of addiction, how trauma rewires the brain, and why healing requires more than willpower.

Join us as we explore how self-medication—whether through substances, behaviors, or habits—can become a coping mechanism for pain, and what true recovery and nervous system regulation actually look like.

✨ This episode is for anyone who's struggled, supported someone in recovery, or simply wants a deeper understanding of trauma-informed healing.

In this episode, Tiffany and Eric dive into the real-world impact of recent mental health policy changes—including Medicaid work requirements, the defunding of school-based mental health services, the opioid settlement fund, and the rollback of mental health parity enforcement. We discuss the consequences of these shifts on vulnerable populations, rural healthcare clinics, overdose prevention efforts, and youth mental health programs.
🎙️ Learn why therapy is political, how federal decisions shape access to care, and what’s at stake in the 2024 policy landscape.
📌 Topics include:

• Medicaid & mental health coverage

• 9-8-8 suicide lifeline funding

• Overdose prevention stats

• Veteran suicide rates

• How to take action through advocacy

👉 Subscribe for more real talk on mental health, trauma, and growth.
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In this powerful episode of Deciphering Growth, Tiffany Graves and Eric Stone dive deep into what real resilience looks like for those who experienced childhood trauma. We explore the neurobiology of adversity, how toxic stress rewires the brain, the impact of ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences), and the emotional cost of "turning out fine."

You’ll learn:

• Why resilience is not toughness or emotional suppression

• How trauma affects memory, learning, and emotional regulation

• The healing power of therapy, consistent caregiving, and nervous system rewiring

• The difference between developmental trauma and single-incident trauma

• The role of community, access, and privilege in healing

🎙️ Whether you're a survivor, a therapist, or someone who cares, this episode offers validation, insight, and hope.

🔗 Find us on Patreon for bonus content and resource links mentioned in this episode.

This week on Deciphering Growth, we explore the deep and lasting wounds caused by conversion therapy and faith-based rejection.

Tiffany Graves and Eric Stone unpack how therapy meant to help can sometimes do profound harm — especially when it targets a person’s identity. We talk about identity rupture, internalized shame, moral injury, and how to support the LGBTQ+ community with compassion and authenticity.

🧠 In this episode:

• What happens when therapy retraumatizes

• The trauma behind “hate the sin, love the sinner”

• Why moral injury and spiritual abandonment matter

• PTSD/CPTSD symptoms tied to religious rejection

• What true allyship actually looks like

✨ This is a real one. Tune in, reflect, and if it’s too much today — come back when you’re ready.

#DecipheringGrowth #PrideMonth #MentalHealth #ReligiousTrauma #ConversionTherapy #LGBTQSupport #TherapyPodcast

🎧 Pride, Healing, and Chosen Family | Deciphering Growth

In this special Pride Month episode, Tiffany Graves and Eric Stone dive into the rich history of Pride, the trauma still faced by the LGBTQIA+ community, and the healing power of chosen family. They reflect on the somatic toll of identity-based trauma, the nuances of navigating Pride events with neurodivergence, and how solidarity—not just tolerance—can reshape our collective healing.

🔍 Topics Covered:

• The Stonewall Uprising and Cincinnati’s complex LGBTQ+ history

• Religious trauma and systemic invalidation

• Navigating Pride with anxiety, sensory overload, or grief

• Creating safety in relationships and recognizing supportive community

• How allies can show up meaningfully year-round

👣 Reflect with us:
✨ What part of yourself deserves more celebration this month?
✨ How has your understanding of Pride evolved?

🎧 Subscribe and share if this episode resonates. We’d love to hear your reflections.
#Pride #LGBTQ #MentalHealthPodcast #ChosenFamily #QueerHealing #ReligiousTrauma #TherapyTools #DecipheringGrowth