• Don’t Let Me Be Your Ceiling | Fatherhood, Legacy, and New Beginnings | Ep 147 The Dear Son, Show
    Jul 24 2025

    In this episode of The Dead Son Show, join hosts D Johns and Jay Black as they delve into meaningful conversations about the journey of fatherhood and the importance of leaving a lasting legacy for future generations. From discussing the challenges of balancing work and family life to ensuring children understand the value of resilience and progress, no topic is off-limits. Key highlights include the importance of being a dependable source of guidance for your children, the value of teaching entrepreneurial skills and financial literacy, and the necessity of holding children accountable to their dreams to foster their independence and success. Subscribe to our channel and join the dialogue on effective parenting and family building!


    00:00 Welcome to The Dead Son Show

    00:16 Hosts Introductions and Personal Updates

    01:00 Life Lessons and Parenting Reflections

    03:06 Dear Son, Don't Let Me Be Your Ceiling

    04:37 The Scooter Debate and Generational Perspectives

    10:50 Financial Wisdom and Family Conversations

    15:53 Teaching Financial Literacy to the Next Generation

    20:05 The Value of Conversations and Learning from Elders

    28:54 Struggles of Growing Up with Financial Hardships

    30:29 Navigating High School and Future Uncertainties

    32:06 Military as a Pathway to Education

    33:32 Parenting Challenges and Overcoming Adversity

    36:17 Encouraging Children's Dreams and Aspirations

    47:56 Reflections on Personal Growth and Music

    53:27 Closing Remarks and Call to Action


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    55 mins
  • Old Paint. New Canvas. | Leaving Tradition for Innovation | Ep 146 The Dear Son, Show
    Jul 18 2025

    In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, Jey Blac and D Johns delve into meaningful conversations aimed at guiding young boys and men. They explore the balance between traditional values and modern practices, discussing the impact of old advice on new generations. Key topics include the significance of teaching wisdom rather than just steps, the complex dynamics of caring for aging parents, and the importance of letting the new generation find their own path. Tune in for a deep dive into parenting, societal expectations, and the evolving nature of roles within the family. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes!


    00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sound Show

    00:24 Podcasting Journey and Influences

    01:12 Summer Plans and Family Life

    02:07 Grocery Shopping Habits

    03:24 Today's Topic: Keep Your Old Paint Off My New Canvas

    06:11 Parenting Styles and Micromanagement

    09:49 Teaching Wisdom Over Steps

    16:24 Marriage Dynamics and Generational Differences

    20:01 Explaining the Why to Children

    24:16 Encouraging Independence in Children

    25:27 Reflecting on Parenting and Sibling Dynamics

    25:57 Observing and Encouraging Children's Creativity

    29:05 The Role of Children in Caring for Aging Parents

    31:29 Balancing Tradition and Modern Responsibilities

    33:24 Navigating Family Dynamics and Caregiving

    40:40 Generational Differences and Adaptation

    49:08 Concluding Thoughts and Family Reflections


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    52 mins
  • The Joys of Fatherhood | Embracing the Privilege | Ep 145 The Dear Son, Show
    Jul 11 2025

    Welcome to another heartfelt episode of The Dear Son, Show where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they navigate the exciting and challenging journey of parenting, focusing on significant moments and lessons learned. They discuss their sons transitioning into adulthood, the importance of expressing love and appreciation, and how to prepare them for life's responsibilities. Tune in for a heartwarming and enlightening discussion on embracing fatherhood. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful content!


    00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

    00:19 Hosts Catching Up

    00:48 Parenting Updates and Reflections

    04:21 Discussing the Joys of Fatherhood

    05:47 Children's Humor and Personalities

    09:59 Activities and Hobbies

    15:52 Lessons Learned from Parenting

    21:19 Changing the Tire

    21:26 Teaching Life Skills to Kids

    22:04 Yard Work Memories

    23:18 Bonding with Children

    24:41 Caring for Aging Parents

    25:10 The Cycle of Life

    33:38 Expressing Love to Teenage Sons

    36:16 Emotional Intelligence in Parenting

    41:43 Pride and Support in Parenting

    47:10 Cherishing Parenting Moments

    48:31 Conclusion and Gratitude



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    50 mins
  • Don’t Remove It. Refine It. | Fine-tune Your Parenting Approach | Ep 144 The Dear Son, Show
    Jul 4 2025

    Welcome to another impactful episode of The Dear Son, Show with Jey Blac and D Johns! In this episode, we dive deep into real-life conversations aimed to guide young men and fathers through the challenges of life. JD shares a moving story about his father's recent health scare, and they both open up about navigating their sons' journeys toward adulthood and independence. Together, they tackle the importance of 'fine-tuning' rather than 'removing' traits in your children, the valuable life lessons learned, and the importance of setting benchmarks for parental involvement. Tune in to hear our take on vital topics like effective parenting, preparing for life's unexpected turns, and encouraging self-awareness in your kids. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button and share your thoughts in the comments below!


    00:00 Introduction and Host Greetings

    00:17 Personal Stories and Family Health

    01:29 Parenting Challenges and Reflections

    02:06 Today's Topic: Don't Remove, Fine Tune

    02:30 Parenting Styles and Generational Differences

    04:21 Navigating Teenage Independence

    06:00 Preparing for the Future: Education and Career Choices

    10:35 Balancing Guidance and Independence

    13:14 Real-Life Parenting Struggles

    24:31 Getting the Bread: Job Hunting and Opportunities

    25:40 Scooter Dilemma: To Ride or Not to Ride

    27:45 Lessons in Confidence and Humility

    29:45 Navigating Trade School: Challenges and Strategies

    33:21 Parental Guidance: Balancing Support and Independence

    46:43 Final Thoughts and Reflections



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    51 mins
  • It Takes a Village | How Important Is Your Friend Circle? | Ep 143| The Dear Son, Show
    Jun 27 2025

    Welcome to another meaningful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive deep into the life lessons and challenges faced through the lens of fatherhood. This episode tackles critical topics such as choosing friends wisely in adulthood, the acceptability of allowing your friend circle to discipline your child, and the essential nature of having a trustworthy village to help raise your kids. Not only will we explore the importance of these discussions, but we'll also delve into real-life examples and personal stories that illustrate the impact of these decisions. Don't miss this candid and insightful conversation. Like, comment, and subscribe to never miss an episode!


    00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

    00:00:18 Summer Adventures and Content Creation

    00:01:24 The TikTok Experience

    00:01:56 Disciplining Children: Trust and Boundaries

    00:02:46 Generational Differences in Discipline

    00:05:16 The Importance of Communication in Discipline

    00:09:42 Respect and Consequences in Public Behavior

    00:19:20 The Role of Community and Authority

    00:24:37 Choosing Friends and Their Impact on Family

    00:25:26 Navigating Adult Friendships

    00:25:58 Defining Trust and Boundaries

    00:26:24 Evaluating Character and Trustworthiness

    00:27:24 The Importance of Family and Close Circles

    00:28:01 Guarding Your Inner Circle

    00:29:52 Teaching Children About Relationships

    00:32:07 Life Lessons and Friendships

    00:34:25 The Impact of Friends on Life Choices

    00:36:13 Support and Loyalty in Friendships

    00:37:56 The Role of Village in Parenting

    00:45:06 Closing Thoughts and Reflections


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    52 mins
  • You Can Be a Great Father, but a Horrible Person | w/ Quintin Harris | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 142
    Jun 13 2025

    In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, delve into meaningful conversations about life, fatherhood, and personal growth with host and special guest Quintin Harris. Through compelling dialogue, they explore the nuances of fatherhood, the importance of being present, and navigating the intricacies of marriage. Discover how personal experiences and shared wisdom shape their journey, and gain practical advice on effective parenting and relationship building. Tune in for an episode rich in life lessons and heartfelt moments. Don't forget to subscribe for more engaging conversations.


    00:00:00 Introduction to the Dead Sun Show

    00:00:17 Meet Quentin Harris

    00:00:25 The Brotherhood at Concord

    00:01:38 Quentin's Role at Concord

    00:03:04 Family Dynamics and Challenges

    00:05:15 Growing Up in Baton Rouge

    00:07:08 College Life and Lessons Learned

    00:21:48 Marriage and Personal Growth

    00:28:40 Realizing Insensitivity in Relationships

    00:30:01 The Impact of Fatherhood

    00:36:04 Corporate Life vs. Home Life

    00:41:14 Marriage Challenges and Solutions

    00:49:45 Parenting Wisdom and Reflections

    01:00:37 Final Thoughts and Future Plans


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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • Double Standard King | Parenting, Relationships & Societal Expectations | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 141
    Jun 7 2025

    In this captivating episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the realm of double standards. Designed to provide young boys and men with wisdom they can use today, this conversation addresses the real-life implications of double standards across parenting, relationships, and societal expectations. Discover Jay Black's and D John's personal experiences and candid thoughts on subjects such as the differing rules for sons and daughters, the unique dynamics in marital relationships, and the societal pressures young men face today. Don't miss out on this engaging discussion that offers both heartfelt advice and relatable anecdotes. Subscribe now to stay updated with our insightful conversations!


    00:00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:00:28 Parenting Challenges and Curfews

    00:02:41 Double Standards in Parenting

    00:04:23 Curfews and Responsibilities

    00:06:29 Gender Roles and Expectations

    00:10:40 Teaching Life Skills

    00:14:09 Balancing Discipline and Freedom

    00:25:38 Navigating Double Standards in Relationships

    00:26:05 The Unspoken Rules of Marriage

    00:28:14 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned

    00:30:47 The Consequences of Double Standards

    00:41:42 Parenting and Double Standards

    00:47:50 Final Thoughts and Reflections



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    52 mins
  • You Graduated. Now What? | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 140
    May 30 2025

    In this captivating episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the profound conversations about fatherhood and the pivotal moments of their sons' recent high school graduations. They discuss the journey from adolescence to adulthood, the impact of newfound independence, and the responsibilities that come with it. Key topics include the emotional whirlwind of seeing their sons graduate, the importance of letting them face life's challenges to build character, and the realities of parenting double standards. Join the discussion as they share personal stories and advice, making this an essential episode for parents and guardians navigating similar paths. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell to stay updated with our latest conversations!


    00:00 Welcome to The Dead Son Show

    00:31 Celebrating Our Sons' Graduation

    01:38 Balancing Family and Education

    02:48 Navigating Fatherhood and Expectations

    05:30 Preparing for the Next Chapter

    08:43 Reflecting on Parenting and Independence

    21:29 The Prom Experience and Generational Differences

    23:41 Building Your Future Self

    24:07 Time as Wealth: Avoiding the Money Trap

    24:57 Balancing Work and Life

    26:08 Learning from Mistakes

    26:51 Family Stories and Lessons

    29:24 Recognizing and Avoiding Danger

    30:31 Parenting and Protection

    37:03 Prom Night Reflections

    39:27 Preparing for Independence

    45:35 Final Thoughts and Resources


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    49 mins