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Dear Son,

Dear Son,

By: Derek Johns
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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.

Derek Johns
Parenting & Families Relationships
Episodes
  • Don’t Let Me Be Your Ceiling | Fatherhood, Legacy, and New Beginnings | Ep 147 The Dear Son, Show
    Jul 24 2025

    In this episode of The Dead Son Show, join hosts D Johns and Jay Black as they delve into meaningful conversations about the journey of fatherhood and the importance of leaving a lasting legacy for future generations. From discussing the challenges of balancing work and family life to ensuring children understand the value of resilience and progress, no topic is off-limits. Key highlights include the importance of being a dependable source of guidance for your children, the value of teaching entrepreneurial skills and financial literacy, and the necessity of holding children accountable to their dreams to foster their independence and success. Subscribe to our channel and join the dialogue on effective parenting and family building!


    00:00 Welcome to The Dead Son Show

    00:16 Hosts Introductions and Personal Updates

    01:00 Life Lessons and Parenting Reflections

    03:06 Dear Son, Don't Let Me Be Your Ceiling

    04:37 The Scooter Debate and Generational Perspectives

    10:50 Financial Wisdom and Family Conversations

    15:53 Teaching Financial Literacy to the Next Generation

    20:05 The Value of Conversations and Learning from Elders

    28:54 Struggles of Growing Up with Financial Hardships

    30:29 Navigating High School and Future Uncertainties

    32:06 Military as a Pathway to Education

    33:32 Parenting Challenges and Overcoming Adversity

    36:17 Encouraging Children's Dreams and Aspirations

    47:56 Reflections on Personal Growth and Music

    53:27 Closing Remarks and Call to Action


    #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting



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    Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show


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    My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1


    My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy


    Let’s connect socially:


    https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast


    https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast




    The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community


    1. Reveal trauma


    2. Heal from trauma


    3. Help through telling stories of it all




    “Better Man. Better Father.”


    The Dear Son, Network ®



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content

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    55 mins
  • Old Paint. New Canvas. | Leaving Tradition for Innovation | Ep 146 The Dear Son, Show
    Jul 18 2025

    In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, Jey Blac and D Johns delve into meaningful conversations aimed at guiding young boys and men. They explore the balance between traditional values and modern practices, discussing the impact of old advice on new generations. Key topics include the significance of teaching wisdom rather than just steps, the complex dynamics of caring for aging parents, and the importance of letting the new generation find their own path. Tune in for a deep dive into parenting, societal expectations, and the evolving nature of roles within the family. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes!


    00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sound Show

    00:24 Podcasting Journey and Influences

    01:12 Summer Plans and Family Life

    02:07 Grocery Shopping Habits

    03:24 Today's Topic: Keep Your Old Paint Off My New Canvas

    06:11 Parenting Styles and Micromanagement

    09:49 Teaching Wisdom Over Steps

    16:24 Marriage Dynamics and Generational Differences

    20:01 Explaining the Why to Children

    24:16 Encouraging Independence in Children

    25:27 Reflecting on Parenting and Sibling Dynamics

    25:57 Observing and Encouraging Children's Creativity

    29:05 The Role of Children in Caring for Aging Parents

    31:29 Balancing Tradition and Modern Responsibilities

    33:24 Navigating Family Dynamics and Caregiving

    40:40 Generational Differences and Adaptation

    49:08 Concluding Thoughts and Family Reflections


    #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting



    Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac


    Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:


    1. subscribe to the channel,

    2. turn on the notifications,

    3. like this video,

    4. leave a comment, and

    5. share this content with someone who needs it.



    The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com



    Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:


    Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show


    Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com


    My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy


    My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy


    Let’s connect socially:


    https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast


    https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast




    The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community


    1. Reveal trauma


    2. Heal from trauma


    3. Help through telling stories of it all




    “Better Man. Better Father.”


    The Dear Son, Network ®



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content

    Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

    Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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    52 mins
  • The Joys of Fatherhood | Embracing the Privilege | Ep 145 The Dear Son, Show
    Jul 11 2025

    Welcome to another heartfelt episode of The Dear Son, Show where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they navigate the exciting and challenging journey of parenting, focusing on significant moments and lessons learned. They discuss their sons transitioning into adulthood, the importance of expressing love and appreciation, and how to prepare them for life's responsibilities. Tune in for a heartwarming and enlightening discussion on embracing fatherhood. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful content!


    00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

    00:19 Hosts Catching Up

    00:48 Parenting Updates and Reflections

    04:21 Discussing the Joys of Fatherhood

    05:47 Children's Humor and Personalities

    09:59 Activities and Hobbies

    15:52 Lessons Learned from Parenting

    21:19 Changing the Tire

    21:26 Teaching Life Skills to Kids

    22:04 Yard Work Memories

    23:18 Bonding with Children

    24:41 Caring for Aging Parents

    25:10 The Cycle of Life

    33:38 Expressing Love to Teenage Sons

    36:16 Emotional Intelligence in Parenting

    41:43 Pride and Support in Parenting

    47:10 Cherishing Parenting Moments

    48:31 Conclusion and Gratitude



    #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting



    Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac


    Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:


    1. subscribe to the channel,

    2. turn on the notifications,

    3. like this video,

    4. leave a comment, and

    5. share this content with someone who needs it.



    The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com



    Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:


    Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show


    Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com


    My book: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy



    Let’s connect socially:


    https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast


    https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast




    The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community


    1. Reveal trauma


    2. Heal from trauma


    3. Help through telling stories of it all




    “Better Man. Better Father.”


    The Dear Son, Network ®



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-content

    Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

    Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
    Show More Show Less
    50 mins
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