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Better Than Bitter™ Divorce Podcast

Better Than Bitter™ Divorce Podcast

By: Tania Leichliter
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Is your divorce filling you with fear? Fear of the unknown, of financial stability, of loneliness, of how this will impact your children? Divorce can feel overwhelming and isolating, leaving you stuck in resentment. But what if you could take off the fighting gloves and commit to an amicable path forward? Welcome to Better Than Bitter™, the podcast that champions amicable divorce. Hosted by Divorce Success Coach Tania Leichliter—creator of the 5 Step Gameplan Course—this podcast empowers you to embrace an "I CAN" attitude for a brighter future. Through powerful interviews with adult children of amicable divorces, bonus parents finding connection in blended families, and divorced individuals who share their success in choosing an amicable path, you’ll leave each episode feeling, “I've Got This!” Alongside these inspiring stories, bonus episodes cover key topics like mindset management, understanding the divorce process, grief, fear, and practical tools for moving forward. Better Than Bitter™ offers the insights and strategies you need to process your emotional divorce and prepare for alternative dispute resolution—to save on legal fees, protect your children from emotional fallout, and build a fulfilling life beyond bitterness. Tune in each week! It’s time to take control of your divorce and reclaim your future by divorcing amicably.T Will Coaching LLC Hygiene & Healthy Living Parenting & Families Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships
Episodes
  • Episode 56: Gray Divorce: Am I Losing My Mind, Body, and Sanity?
    Dec 12 2025
    Episode 56: Gray Divorce: Am I Losing My Mind, Body, and Sanity?

    Our guest for this episode:

    Paula Brown, MAIOP

    Founder, Konenki Menopause Solutions

    Paula Brown holds a Bachelor’s in Human Resources Management and a Master’s in Industrial and Organizational Psychology, blending nonprofit and corporate expertise. A learning and development leader, she excels in designing impactful training programs and fostering inclusivity through strong communication and facilitation skills. Resilient and committed to helping others overcome challenges, Paula drives organizational growth with a focus on continuous learning.

    Paula is the creator of Rita’s Labyrinth in Holliston, MA, offering mindfulness and spiritual practices inspired by diverse traditions, especially the divine feminine. She is also a facilitator of The Artist’s Way, creating spaces for exploration and growth, integrating her professional and spiritual passions to inspire lasting positive change.

    Paula Brown's Website

    Konenki Menopause Facebook Page

    Konenki Menopause Instagram

    Summary

    In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter and Paula Brown discuss the intersection of divorce and menopause, exploring the challenges women face during this transitional period. They share personal stories of struggle, resilience, and the importance of support networks. The conversation highlights the impact of hormonal changes on mental health, relationships, and personal reinvention, emphasizing that menopause is a natural life transition rather than a crisis. Listeners are encouraged to seek help and find hope in their journeys.


    Keywords


    divorce, menopause, women empowerment, mental health, hormone therapy, personal stories, resilience, support networks, life transitions, relationship dynamics


    Takeaways


    • Divorce can be navigated amicably with the right support.
    • Menopause brings significant physiological changes that can affect mental health.
    • Personal stories of struggle can inspire resilience in others.
    • Hormonal changes during menopause can lead to brain fog and other symptoms.
    • Support networks are crucial for women going through divorce and menopause.
    • Reinventing oneself post-divorce is possible and empowering.
    • Menopause is a natural life transition, not a crisis.
    • Open communication with partners about menopause is essential.
    • There are professionals available to help women navigate menopause.
    • Hope exists for maintaining intimacy and connection in relationships.


    Titles


    Navigating Divorce and Menopause: A Journey of Resilience

    Personal Stories of Struggle: Finding Strength in Transition


    Sound Bites


    "It's life-changing."

    "I thought I had a brain tumor."

    "I was fired from two jobs."


    Chapters


    00:00 Navigating Menopause and Divorce

    02:28 Personal Journeys Through Menopause

    09:11 The Role of Support Networks

    16:37 Coping with Stress and Brain Fog

    18:17 Impact of Menopause on Relationships

    28:45 Rekindling Passion and Libido

    33:38 Finding Hope and Support

    38:36 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

    40:05 Resources for Support and Growth



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    40 mins
  • Episode 55: The Co-Parenting Secret: It's Not About YOU!
    Dec 5 2025
    Episode 55: The Co-Parenting Secret. It's Not About YOU!

    Our guest for this episode:

    Jon Bassford, JD, MBA, CAE

    About our guest:

    He has written a book called "The Co-Parenting Secret: It's not about you”. Jon is actually a consultant.

    Link to book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/6gR0ucX

    He heads up operations for startups and nonprofits, but he has written this book based on his own personal story. His friends, his family, and people were amazed by him and his wife and how well they were able to co-parent. And they were like, you should write a book. And John's like, huh, maybe I should write a book.


    Keywords


    co-parenting, divorce, family dynamics, intentional parenting, emotional well-being, communication, relationships, parenting strategies, self-reflection, family support


    Summary


    In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter speaks with Jon Bassford about his book, 'The Co-Parenting Secret: It's Not About You.' They discuss the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of intentionality, and how to navigate new relationships while keeping the children's best interests at heart. John shares his personal experiences and insights on creating a supportive environment for children post-divorce, emphasizing the need for effective communication and emotional well-being.


    Takeaways


    • Co-parenting requires intentionality and focus on the children.
    • It's essential to communicate effectively for the sake of the kids.
    • Divorce doesn't have to be a negative experience for children.
    • Maintaining relationships with extended family is crucial.
    • Emotional well-being of parents directly affects the children.
    • Letting go of animosity can improve co-parenting dynamics.
    • Children benefit from having multiple loving adults in their lives.
    • Being open to new relationships can be healthy for everyone involved.
    • Self-reflection is key to personal growth post-divorce.
    • Creating a supportive environment helps children thrive.


    Titles


    Navigating the Co-Parenting Journey

    Intentional Co-Parenting Strategies


    Sound Bites


    "It's not about you."

    "You have to be very intentional."

    "Let go of the animosity."


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Co-Parenting Dynamics

    03:17 The Journey of Writing a Co-Parenting Book

    05:42 Navigating Co-Parenting with Young Children

    08:09 Intentionality in Co-Parenting Relationships

    11:07 Humanizing Divorce and Co-Parenting

    13:32 Building a Supportive Co-Parenting Village

    16:19 Handling New Relationships and Dating

    18:51 Communication as a Pillar of Co-Parenting

    21:45 Teaching Children About Relationships

    24:22 Focusing on Self-Improvement

    26:53 Letting Go of Control and Embracing Flexibility

    29:44 Creating a Loving Environment for Children

    36:02 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

    37:31 Resources for Support and Growth


    On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching

    methods,

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    38 mins
  • Episode 54: Tis' The Season To Rebuild Your Life with Purpose, Passion, & Intent
    Nov 19 2025
    Episode 54: Tis' The Season To Rebuild Your Life with Purpose, Passion, & Intent
    Keywords

    divorce, amicable resolution, emotional resilience, purpose, passion, intentions, holidays, self-discovery, personal growth, coaching

    Summary


    In this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the emotional complexities of navigating divorce, especially during the holiday season. She emphasizes the importance of rebuilding one's life with purpose, passion, and intention. Tania shares personal stories and insights on finding gratitude, setting intentions for the future, and rediscovering one's identity and passions post-divorce. The episode concludes with a three-step rebuilding framework and guided reflection exercises to help listeners move forward positively.


    Takeaways


    • Divorce can be navigated amicably with the right mindset.
    • Holidays can trigger complex emotions during and after divorce.
    • Setting intentions is more effective than traditional resolutions.
    • Divorce presents opportunities for personal growth and new beginnings.
    • Engaging in passions can help alleviate feelings of loneliness.
    • Finding purpose post-divorce is crucial for emotional well-being.
    • Rediscovering lost passions can reignite one's identity.
    • Intentions shape how we approach challenges and opportunities.
    • A three-step framework can guide the rebuilding process after divorce.
    • Reflection exercises can help clarify goals and intentions for the future.


    Titles


    Rebuilding Life After Divorce: A New Perspective

    Navigating Holidays with Grace Post-Divorce


    Sound Bites


    "Thanksgiving is a season of gratitude."

    "Divorce creates opportunity for us."

    "Find your purpose post-divorce."


    Chapters


    00:00 Rebuilding with Purpose and Passion

    09:53 Finding Your Purpose After Divorce

    17:43 Reawakening Passion and Intent

    21:11 The Three-Step Rebuilding Framework

    25:09 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

    26:38 Resources for Support and Growth


    On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching

    methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your...

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    49 mins
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