• Train for the Storm in the Sunshine: When & How To Practice Coping Strategies
    Dec 31 2024

    In this episode, Ebonii discusses the importance of practicing coping skills before anxiety strikes, likening it to a fire drill for mental health. She emphasizes the need for self-awareness in recognizing anxiety signals and selecting effective coping strategies. The conversation covers various tools such as movement, journaling, and the significance of practice in developing mental muscle memory. Ebonii encourages listeners to find personalized coping methods that resonate with them and to consistently engage in these practices to better manage anxiety.

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    36 mins
  • Anxiety Grows in The Dark - Turn on the Lights!
    Dec 24 2024

    In this episode, Ebonii discusses the importance of facing fears and anxiety head-on. She uses metaphors like 'staring into the barrel' and 'looking under the bed' to illustrate how avoidance only amplifies anxiety. By naming fears and accepting discomfort, individuals can weaken their anxiety and regain control over their emotions. The conversation emphasizes practical strategies for managing anxiety, including the significance of clarity and action in overcoming fear.

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    32 mins
  • The Big 3 of Anxiety: Death, Madness & The Social Fiasco
    Dec 17 2024

    In this episode, Ebonii explores the three primary fears that fuel anxiety: the fear of death, losing control, and embarrassment. She delves into how these fears are rooted in our survival instincts and offers practical strategies for managing them. By understanding these fears and reframing our thoughts, we can take back control and live more peacefully. Ebonii emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and provides actionable tips to navigate anxiety in everyday life.

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    27 mins
  • From Confusion to Clarity: Ignore the “Why” to Ease Anxiety
    Dec 10 2024

    In this conversation, Ebonii discusses the detrimental effects of 'why' questions on anxiety and how shifting to 'what' and 'how' questions can empower individuals to take action and regain control over their thoughts. She provides practical strategies for reframing anxious thoughts and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in managing anxiety.

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    21 mins
  • Save the Judging for Jesus: Why Judging Yourself Won't Fix Anxiety (And What Will)
    Dec 3 2024

    In this episode of 'Anxiety is My Jam', Ebonii discusses the importance of embracing anxiety as a teacher rather than a curse. She emphasizes the detrimental effects of self-judgment and the power of mindfulness and self-compassion in managing anxiety. The conversation explores practical strategies for transforming awareness into action, highlighting the significance of small intentional steps and building a supportive community for personal growth.

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    28 mins
  • Anthropomorphize the Shite
    Nov 26 2024

    In this episode, Ebonii discusses the concept of anthropomorphizing anxiety as a coping mechanism. By creating a character for anxiety, individuals can distance themselves from the emotion, making it easier to manage. Ebonii outlines steps to name, visualize, and engage with this character, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and understanding anxiety's behavior. The discussion highlights how humor and creativity can aid in managing anxiety, ultimately empowering individuals to reclaim control over their emotions.

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    22 mins
  • Anxiety & Memory: Why It Feels Like You Can't Remember
    Nov 19 2024

    In this episode of "Anxiety is my Jam," host Ebonii delves into the complex relationship between anxiety and memory. She discusses why anxiety can lead to forgetfulness, mental blocks, and confusion. Through personal anecdotes and scientific insights, she explains why it sometimes feels like you just can’t remember. The episode concludes with practical strategies to manage anxiety and improve memory.


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    29 mins
  • The Ripple Effect: How Concern Begets Worry & Worry Begets Anxiety
    Nov 12 2024

    In this episode, Ebonii explores the interconnectedness of concern, worry, and anxiety. She explains how concern is a natural emotion that can lead to worry if not managed properly. The conversation delves into the cycle of concern turning into anxiety and provides a six-step process to break this cycle, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, reframing thoughts, and seeking support.

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    23 mins