• 140 | Choosing Your Values First: Staying Aligned in Money Decisions
    Sep 1 2025

    Work with me: https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin


    In this intimate episode, I share a raw and vulnerable journal entry about a moment where I almost compromised my values for money. I share what it felt like to be pulled by the allure of financial gain while my body was sending very different signals. I also share the process I used to come back to my knowing.

    Money itself isn’t the enemy, it’s neutral, it just is. And when we let fear or scarcity run the show, it can quietly pull us away from our authentic selves. Together, we’ll explore how to recognize the subtle ways we outsource our power to money, how to trust the wisdom of your body, and how to align financial choices with your deepest values.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    • A personal journal entry about the temptation to trade authenticity for financial gain
    • The false promise that more money will fix everything
    • How small compromises can add up to outsourcing your power to money
    • The difference between what your mind wants and what your body knows
    • Why money is meant to serve you, not control you
    • How compassion and awareness can guide you back into alignment


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    Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions?

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    Step 3: Work with Me

    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

    ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here


    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    15 mins
  • 139 | The Power of Language in Your Relationship with Money
    Aug 28 2025

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    You can have the thriving business, the healthy bank account, and all the financial boxes checked and still feel like it’s never enough. That empty, restless feeling isn’t about money at all. It’s about the words we use to speak to ourselves and about ourselves.

    Language carries energy. The way we talk about money can either keep us in fear or open us to trust, love, and sufficiency. In this episode, we’ll explore how small shifts in words can create big shifts in energy. Because true wealth isn’t just about what’s in your bank account, it's also how you feel in your body.

    In this episode, we’ll explore:

    • Why the words you use about money matter
    • How to notice the subtle scarcity language you may not realize you’re repeating
    • Gentle ways to move from fear-based words to empowering ones that feel true
    • Why sufficiency is sometimes the bridge to genuine abundance
    • How language can reconnect you to safety, trust, and possibility with money

    Resources mentioned in this episode:

    Masaru Emoto - Water Experiments

    Ep 137- The Money and Blessings Log: Rewiring Scarcity Thinking Using Neuroscience


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    Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions?

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    Step 3: Work with Me

    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

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    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    18 mins
  • 138 | Still Feeling Guilty When You Spend? Why Money Guilt Happens and How to Break the Cycle
    Aug 25 2025

    Do you feel guilty when you spend money even when you can afford it? In this episode, I unpack the reasons why we feel money guilt and shame, how your nervous system was conditioned to equate spending with danger, and practical ways to rewire your money mindset.

    You’ll learn how childhood money conditioning shaped your nervous system, why guilt has become a default response, and practical tools to rewire your relationship with money circulation.

    What you’ll hear in this episode:

    • Why guilt and shame around spending are rooted in early money messages
    • How your nervous system has been trained to equate spending with danger
    • The sneaky way guilt becomes a familiar and an addictive emotional pattern
    • Why restricting yourself more isn’t the answer, and what to do instead
    • How slowing down and engaging your senses can rewire money patterns
    • Simple practices like breathwork, tapping, and supportive self-talk to signal safety


    Want to learn more or connect with me?


    Step 1: Join my Facebook Community.

    Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you.

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    Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions?

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    Step 3: Work with Me

    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

    ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here


    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    18 mins
  • 137 | The Money and Blessings Log: Rewiring Scarcity Thinking Using Neuroscience
    Aug 21 2025

    Have you ever noticed how your brain latches onto financial worries while completely overlooking the money and abundance already in your life? You’re not imagining it. Your Reticular Activating System (RAS) which is the part of your brain that filters information was designed to scan for threats. Helpful for survival, not so helpful when it comes to money and remembering your abundance.

    Your brain is incredibly adaptable. With practice, you can retrain it to see and feel the financial flow that’s already here. In this episode, I share a powerful practice that one of my clients found so helpful that she asked me to record an entire episode about it, something I call the Money and Blessings Log.

    What you’ll learn in this episode:

    • Why your Reticular Activating System (RAS) keeps you focused on scarcity
    • How to redirect your brain to notice abundance through neuroplasticity
    • My Money and Blessings Log practice
    • How to combine mental awareness with embodied feelings of wealth

    Resources mentioned in this episode:

    Hardwiring Happiness by Rick Hanson

    Want to learn more or connect with me?


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    Step 3: Work with Me

    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

    ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here


    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    13 mins
  • 136 | 3 Things Your Mortgage Lender Should Do (with Jax Crider)
    Aug 18 2025

    Why do some mortgage experiences feel seamless while others turn into nightmares? It’s not just about interest rates; it’s about the lender guiding you through the process.

    In this episode, mortgage expert Jacqueline “Jax” Crider shares what most borrowers overlook: not all lenders are created equal. With 20+ years of experience and a law degree, Jax explains why the right mortgage partner should challenge your assumptions, uncover better options, and help you make decisions from confidence, not fear.

    We also dive into the emotional side of money — from shame and guilt to the hesitation women often feel about investing in themselves.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why interest rate isn’t the only factor that matters in a mortgage
    • How transparency with your lender can save you stress and money
    • The role of shame and fear in financial decision-making
    • Why calculated risks are essential for growth
    • How to align financial choices with your values and energy


    If you want to learn more about Jax, you can connect with her here: (https;//urals.co/jax-crider)

    Want to learn more or connect with me?


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    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

    ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here


    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    46 mins
  • 135 | Does Your Money Feel Like Love or Fear? Raising Your Money Frequency for More Abundance
    Aug 14 2025

    What if money wasn’t something to chase, control, or fear and instead it is something that could feel like love?

    In this episode, I unpack the energetic truth that changed everything in my own financial journey and that is: money operates on the frequency of love, not fear. After years of relating to money through scarcity, stress, and performance, I began to explore what it meant to build wealth from emotional safety, self-trust, and alignment.

    When we relate to money as something outside of us, something to hoard, obsess over, or prove ourselves for, we perpetuate a nervous system state of lack. Money is energy, and energy responds to energy.

    In this episode, we'll explore:

    • Why your nervous system may be in a pattern of a fear-based money loop
    • The spiritual truth of money as an extension of Source energy
    • The difference between wanting more from fear vs. desiring more from wholeness
    • How to treat your money like someone you love and why that changes everything
    • What happens when you release the belief that money is hard, corrupt, or dangerous
    • Why money responds to the vibration you’re holding and how to shift it
    • Practical ways to make decisions from expansion, not fear
    • How to align your financial choices with your future self and heart's desires

    Want to learn more or connect with me?


    Step 1: Join my Facebook Community.

    Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you.

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    Step 3: Work with Me

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    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    19 mins
  • 134 | Why I Let Go of My CFP license: Trusting My Intuition Over Fear in Wealth Building
    Aug 11 2025

    I'm peeling back the layers in this episode on why I let my CFP go and how I use financial planning with clients now.

    This episode is for the woman who senses there's more to money than logic and spreadsheets. Who's done the planning, hit the milestones, and still feels disconnected. I invited you on my journey of choosing soul alignment over fear and how letting go of the traditional path allows me to serve clients at a more embodied, intuitive level.

    In this episode, we'll explore:

    • Why I walked away from the CFP designation
    • How traditional financial planning often ignores intuition, emotion, and energy
    • The moment I realized fear, not desire was keeping me tied to a system that no longer served me
    • The difference between building wealth from scarcity vs. alignment
    • What it means to embody prosperity consciousness
    • Trusting your own financial wisdom before outsourcing to others
    • Creating money structures rooted in self-trust, not formulas or fear
    • The deeper emotional and energetic work behind money decisions


    Want to learn more or connect with me?


    Step 1: Join my Facebook Community.

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    Step 3: Work with Me

    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

    ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here


    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    21 mins
  • 133 | Redefining Retirement: Discovering the Freedom Mindset for Wealth and Work You Love
    Aug 7 2025

    In this episode, I challenge the outdated narrative surrounding retirement and the concept of financial freedom. Have you ever caught yourself thinking, I’ll finally rest when I retire”? I dive into how the traditional retirement model can feel restrictive, especially for women, and how it reinforces a scarcity mindset.

    Traditional retirement models are built around the assumption that work is something to endure, not something that can nourish your soul. But what if the goal isn’t to escape work, and instead, to reimagine it?

    I'm sharing my own personal take on financial freedom, where wealth supports the life you actually want to live now, not decades from now. Especially for women and cyclical beings, this episode is an invitation to build wealth that honors your nervous system, your rhythms, and your soul’s seasons.

    In this episode, we'll explore:

    • Why the traditional retirement story feels restrictive for so many women
    • The burnout loop created by the “grind now, rest later” approach to work
    • How to define wealth beyond numbers—and into freedom of choice
    • What it means to create soul-led work that evolves with you
    • How to build a business that allows rest along the way, not just at the end
    • My thoughts on mini-retirements and sabbaticals

    Want to learn more or connect with me?


    Step 1: Join my Facebook Community.

    Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you.

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    Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions?

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    Step 3: Work with Me

    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

    ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here


    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    14 mins