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Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Freedom, Money Management, Abundance Mindset, Budgeting, Spirituality

Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Freedom, Money Management, Abundance Mindset, Budgeting, Spirituality

By: Erin Gray | Wealth Coach Former CFP and CFO
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Ready to stop avoiding your money?


You might look financially successful on the outside, but inside you feel anxious about money, unsure of what’s “enough,” or exhausted from trying to get it right.


Even with wealth on paper, your nervous system can still feel scarcity. You’re not the only one, and you’re in the right place.


Hi, I’m Erin, Spiritual Wealth Coach, former Certified Financial Planner, and CFO.


I created this podcast to help you build true financial confidence, not just more financial knowledge.


For years, I chased numbers in the bank account, outsourced decisions to financial advisors, and still felt guilt, pressure, and never “enoughness.” I didn’t realize I was stuck in a scarcity mindset.


What changed everything was realizing that money isn’t just about strategy, it’s about relationship. To feel safe and empowered with money, I needed nervous system regulation, emotional safety, and an abundance mindset.


On this podcast, we go beyond budgeting and financial planning.


We talk about money mindset, wealth embodiment, nervous system safety, and creating money systems that feel good to use, so you can stop spiraling in shame, ground into your worth, and experience real financial freedom.


If you’re ready to trust yourself with money and create wealth on your terms, this podcast is for you.


I’m so glad you’re here.


Let’s dive in.

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Episodes
  • 140 | Choosing Your Values First: Staying Aligned in Money Decisions
    Sep 1 2025

    Work with me: https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin


    In this intimate episode, I share a raw and vulnerable journal entry about a moment where I almost compromised my values for money. I share what it felt like to be pulled by the allure of financial gain while my body was sending very different signals. I also share the process I used to come back to my knowing.

    Money itself isn’t the enemy, it’s neutral, it just is. And when we let fear or scarcity run the show, it can quietly pull us away from our authentic selves. Together, we’ll explore how to recognize the subtle ways we outsource our power to money, how to trust the wisdom of your body, and how to align financial choices with your deepest values.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    • A personal journal entry about the temptation to trade authenticity for financial gain
    • The false promise that more money will fix everything
    • How small compromises can add up to outsourcing your power to money
    • The difference between what your mind wants and what your body knows
    • Why money is meant to serve you, not control you
    • How compassion and awareness can guide you back into alignment


    Want to learn more or connect with me?


    Step 1: Join my Facebook Community.

    Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you.

    ➡️ Join here

    Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart

    Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions?

    ➡️ Get your chart here

    Step 3: Work with Me

    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

    ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here


    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    15 mins
  • 139 | The Power of Language in Your Relationship with Money
    Aug 28 2025

    Work with me: https://tidycal.com/eringray/45-min-call-with-erin


    You can have the thriving business, the healthy bank account, and all the financial boxes checked and still feel like it’s never enough. That empty, restless feeling isn’t about money at all. It’s about the words we use to speak to ourselves and about ourselves.

    Language carries energy. The way we talk about money can either keep us in fear or open us to trust, love, and sufficiency. In this episode, we’ll explore how small shifts in words can create big shifts in energy. Because true wealth isn’t just about what’s in your bank account, it's also how you feel in your body.

    In this episode, we’ll explore:

    • Why the words you use about money matter
    • How to notice the subtle scarcity language you may not realize you’re repeating
    • Gentle ways to move from fear-based words to empowering ones that feel true
    • Why sufficiency is sometimes the bridge to genuine abundance
    • How language can reconnect you to safety, trust, and possibility with money

    Resources mentioned in this episode:

    Masaru Emoto - Water Experiments

    Ep 137- The Money and Blessings Log: Rewiring Scarcity Thinking Using Neuroscience


    Want to learn more or connect with me?


    Step 1: Join my Facebook Community.

    Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you.

    ➡️ Join here

    Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart

    Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions?

    ➡️ Get your chart here

    Step 3: Work with Me

    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

    ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here


    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

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    18 mins
  • 138 | Still Feeling Guilty When You Spend? Why Money Guilt Happens and How to Break the Cycle
    Aug 25 2025

    Do you feel guilty when you spend money even when you can afford it? In this episode, I unpack the reasons why we feel money guilt and shame, how your nervous system was conditioned to equate spending with danger, and practical ways to rewire your money mindset.

    You’ll learn how childhood money conditioning shaped your nervous system, why guilt has become a default response, and practical tools to rewire your relationship with money circulation.

    What you’ll hear in this episode:

    • Why guilt and shame around spending are rooted in early money messages
    • How your nervous system has been trained to equate spending with danger
    • The sneaky way guilt becomes a familiar and an addictive emotional pattern
    • Why restricting yourself more isn’t the answer, and what to do instead
    • How slowing down and engaging your senses can rewire money patterns
    • Simple practices like breathwork, tapping, and supportive self-talk to signal safety


    Want to learn more or connect with me?


    Step 1: Join my Facebook Community.

    Connect, share, and learn how to relate to your money with other women just like you.

    ➡️ Join here

    Step 2: Grab your free Human Design chart

    Curious what your Human Design chart reveals about how you're uniquely designed to make aligned financial decisions?

    ➡️ Get your chart here

    Step 3: Work with Me

    Learn how to trust your choices, honor your worth, and feel financial freedom that lives in your body, not just on paper.

    ➡️ Schedule your free clarity call here


    From my soul to yours,

    Erin

    Show More Show Less
    18 mins
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