How do we raise kind, thoughtful boys in a world that still tells them they have to be tough? What happens when we realise the systems we’ve grown up in don’t serve any of us... including our children?

In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant Lauren Currie, author, advocate, founder of UPFRONT, and mum to a young son. Lauren’s new children’s book, Taylor Meets The Trick, gives families a simple, hopeful way to spot gender stereotypes (“the trick”) and have real conversations about fairness, kindness, and confidence.

We explore:

• How to raise boys who see beyond gender roles and lead with empathy
• Everyday ways the patriarchy shows up in parenting (and how to call it out)
• Why the language we use with our kids matters more than we think
• How children can become the teachers when it comes to spotting bias
• The subtle ways adults are “tricked”... and how to unlearn them

Lauren also shares how she’s raising her son to question stereotypes without shame, what she’s had to unlearn herself, and how parents can make these conversations part of everyday life without it feeling heavy.

Whether you’re a parent, caregiver, teacher, or simply someone who wants to help create a fairer, softer future, this episode will give you ideas, language, and a lovely story to share with the children in your life.

Resources & links

• Taylor Meets The Trick – Order the book here

• Connect with Lauren on Instagram and LinkedIn

• Learn more about UPFRONT: weareupfront.com

Motherhood is full of contradictions. You’re never truly alone -- kids, partners, colleagues are always nearby -- yet it can feel like one of the loneliest seasons of life.

In this conversation, I sit down with Kate Westlund Tovsen, communications consultant and founder of The Society of Working Moms (SOWM), to talk about why working motherhood so often feels isolating and what it takes to build the kind of community we all crave.

Kate shares the story behind creating SOWM, an online Slack-based community designed to be a real village for women navigating both careers and motherhood. We dig into the surprising ways digital connections can become lifelines, how to overcome the hesitation of engaging in online spaces, and why vulnerability is the secret ingredient to building real support.

We also explore:

• Why motherhood can feel more isolating than expected—even when you’re surrounded by people.
• The value of connecting with women at different stages of life and motherhood.
• How digital communities can replicate the generational wisdom that many of us are missing.
• Practical ways to use your voice, share what you need, and start building your own village.
• Stories of how small acts of honesty and courage sparked meaningful connection inside SOWM.

If you’ve ever felt like your “village” is missing, this episode is for you. Whether online or offline, connection is possible, and it often starts with one brave step.

Links and resources:

• Connect with Kate on LinkedIn

• Learn more about The Society of Working Moms: working-moms.com

Hello and welcome back to the penultimate episode of Season 1 of WDIG? If you’ve been feeling foggy, exhausted, or like everything’s a little heavier than it should be, this episode is for you. Alison Campbell, founder of Unburnt, talks honestly about why working mums are especially at risk of burnout, how the expectations of an “always-on” culture quietly stack the pressure, and why none of this is your personal failure.

Alison shares her own wake-up story and explains why normalising constant overwhelm is exactly what keeps people stuck.

If you want practical, doable tools (not more toxic productivity pep talks), you’ll love the micro-habits Alison walks through in this episode.

This is a conversation about naming the load instead of carrying it alone. Permission to stop pushing through, to ask for help, and to carve out space for yourself. If you’re drowning in the idea that you must do it all, this episode gently reminds you: you’re not failing, you’re being let down by unsustainable expectations. It might not always feel this way, but you DO have choices and there ARE manageable ways to stay unburnt.

Want to go deeper? Alison’s work is at getunburnt.com and she shares practical tips on LinkedIn under Alison Campbell.

Now, take a breath, and let's get into it.

Just as you begin to reclaim your identity post-motherhood, sneaky symptoms like brain fog, hot flashes, and anxiety start knocking on your door. Is it hormone havoc, burnout, fatigue, or...perimenopause?

Join me for a candid chat with the lovely Emma Thomas, who's on a mission to unravel the mysteries of the messy middle of life for women everywhere. Emma, founder of The Triple Shift and host of the Middling Along podcast, has pivoted in her career to become a menopause educator, helping women regain control and clarity through the middle bit of life.

Why should you listen to this episode?

Because no one really prepares us for the hormonal rollercoaster that can hit just as we’re trying to get our footing back after having kids. This conversation will help you understand what’s going on in your body, what to look out for, and how to get the support you need. It’s practical, reassuring, and full of the kind of insight that helps you take your power back.

• www.thetripleshift.org
• www.managingthemenopause.com
• www.holdingupthesky.com
• www.middlingalong.com
• Or connect with Emma on Linkedin

TW: A quick note before we begin, this episode includes a conversation about suicide and maternal mental health, so if you're in a vulnerable place, please take good care of yourself while listening and take a look in the show notes for some links to places where you can get some support if and when you need it. This week, I’m talking to my old friend Rich Baish about something no family should ever have to go through: losing a new mum to postpartum psychosis.

Rich tragically lost his wife Alex to postpartum psychosis just a few weeks after their second daughter was born. In this conversation, he shares what happened, what the warning signs were and what he wishes he’d known at the time. We also talk about what it means to grieve while raising young children, how he’s rebuilt a life he never asked for, and why he’s now working to make sure other families don’t slip through the cracks.

Postpartum psychosis affects 1–2 in every 1,000 new mums. It can come on suddenly, even if there’s no history of mental illness, but it is treatable, if acted on fast enough.

This is a conversation about maternal mental health, yes, for sure, but it's also a conversation about fatherhood, about friendship, about resilience, and above all about love. It's absolutely heartbreaking, but it's also strangely hopeful because what Rich shows us is that even in the darkest of times, it is possible to keep going, to keep showing up, to hold space for what was, while also making space for what comes next.

If you’re pregnant, postpartum, or supporting someone who is, please give it a listen. It might just save a life.

Resources and Support

If you or someone you love might be experiencing symptoms of postpartum psychosis, it is a medical emergency. Don’t wait. Go straight to A&E (UK) or the Emergency Room (US). The sooner help is given, the better the outcome.

UK Resources

• Action on Postpartum Psychosis (APP): The UK’s only charity dedicated to supporting women and families affected by postpartum psychosis. Offers peer support, information, training for healthcare professionals, and bereavement services.
• NHS information on Postpartum Psychosis
• Samaritans – 116 123 (24/7) or chat online any time
• PANDAS Foundation – Support for postnatal depression and other perinatal mental health challenges

US Resources

• Postpartum Support International (PSI): Extensive resources including a helpline, online support groups, and provider directories.
• PSI Helpline
• 998 Lifeline: Call or text 988 for 24/7, confidential support

Welcome to another episode of "Where Did I Go?"! This week, we're diving into the transformative power of motherhood on creativity.

Most of us have heard the spiel that becoming a mother takes away our freedom and sense of self. What we don’t often hear is how it can also spark a massive creative expansion; a total cosmic realignment of who you are and what you’re here to make.

In this episode, I chat with the incredible Katie McCrory, a brand storyteller at IKEA and a passionate writer, about how becoming a mum didn’t shrink her creative life. It blew it wide open.

While on maternity leave, Katie wrote the book she’d been thinking about for years. Not because she finally had spare time (lol), but because motherhood stripped everything back and made what really mattered impossible to ignore. The result? A creative identity that could never go back in the box.

Join us as we explore how becoming a mother can feel like the catalyst for extraordinary creative expansion.

Katie shares her poignant journey, revealing how the challenges of infertility and the joyous chaos of parenting reshaped her artistic identity. Her story is all about leaning into life's upheavals and embracing them as transformative, alchemic experiences.

We delve into Katie's writing process, her enchanting 'cosmic safety net', and the liberating shift from structured, task-oriented mindsets to a freer, more intuitive form of creation. And of course, we discuss the blessings of finding authenticity and backing yourself during one of life's most intense transitions.

So, grab a cozy drink, snuggle in, and let's get inspired by stories of maternal creativity and inner growth capturing the magic in all its forms. You won't want to miss this one!

• How motherhood can spark creative rebirth
• Infertility, loss, and the liminal space of transformation
• Writing a book on maternity leave: the truth behind the fairytale
• Letting go of guilt and reclaiming time for yourself
• The myth of the tortured (usually male) artist
• Why creativity because of motherhood hits different
• Alchemy, identity shifts, and trusting the process
• Practical rituals and writing habits that work for busy mums

00:00 – Katie’s journey to motherhood and what cracked her open 07:30 – The magic of the liminal space: life, death, and deep creative clarity 15:00 – IVF, grief, and asking the cosmos for help 22:00 – How Katie wrote her book on maternity leave 33:00 – Writing in 8-minute sprints, spreadsheet planning, and loving the process 41:00 – Substack, daily writing, and keeping creativity alive after the book deal 48:00 – Why your passions matter (and why your kids should see that) 53:00 – How to start: letting go of mum guilt and just taking the first step

Pre-order Katie’s book: Where the Heart Is → Amazon UK | Waterstones (search: “Katie McCrory Where the Heart Is”)

Subscribe to Katie’s newsletter: → lifeathome.substack.com

📖 Mentioned in this episode:

• Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
• The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron
• The Baby on the Fire Escape by Julie Phillips
• Atomic Habits by James Clear

Please share it with someone who needs permission to create again — especially mothers. Tag us on Instagram, leave a review, or message Dani directly. We’d love to hear what resonated.

👉 Follow the podcast: linktr.ee/wdig

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Is balance a myth for working mums? Or have we just misunderstood what it really looks like?

In this episode of Where Did I Go?, Dani sits down with psychologist and founder of Balanced Mum Academy, Roz Davies, to talk about the emotional, psychological, and identity-level shifts that happen when you’re a parent trying to do it all.

Together, they explore:

• Why burnout rewires the brain and makes change feel impossible
• The 9 emotional needs that must be met for us to feel truly balanced
• How time and energy are directly linked to our sense of identity
• Why staying stuck can feel easier than asking yourself hard questions
• The difference between perceived success and true fulfilment
• Practical ways to reconnect with who you are and what matters now

Whether you're feeling lost after returning to work, struggling to juggle it all, or just questioning what "success" even means anymore—this conversation will help you reflect and realign.

Follow Roz Davies:

• On Instagram
• At Rozdavies.com
• Join her free Facebook community: Authentic and Energised Mums

Explore her programs: ✨ Balanced Mum Academy – for working mums ready to reconnect with themselves ✨ Let’s Get Present – a course to help you feel more present and connected with your children

• Burnout isn’t just emotional exhaustion. It’s a physiological shift that pushes us into survival mode.
• Your emotional needs—from connection to purpose—must be met at the right level for you in order to feel balanced.
• Change requires energy, reflection, and permission. And only you can give that to yourself.
• You don’t have to burn it all down. Sometimes the smallest realignment brings the biggest relief.
• You’re allowed to define success on your own terms, even if it looks nothing like it used to.

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Burnout recovery, balance for working mums, emotional needs, motherhood identity shift, burnout symptoms, redefine success, parental burnout, Roz Davies, Balanced Mum Academy, mum guilt, mental load, postnatal burnout

What if ambition doesn’t mean climbing a ladder, but rather finding your own way across a web?

In this episode of Where Did I Go?, I talk to Dr. Anne Welsh — coach, consultant, writer, clinical psychologist, and mum of four — about how motherhood reshapes our relationship with ambition, identity, and success.

We explore what happens when the career ladder stops working for you, and why it’s okay — even powerful — to move sideways, pause, or choose a completely different path. Anne shares her brilliant metaphor of ambition as a web instead of a ladder, and how that small shift in perspective can bring massive relief, clarity, and energy.

We talk about why caregiving is inherently ambitious. How to redefine ambition as drive, not status. The mental health realities that often surface after returning to work. And how to let go of old expectations and start telling a new story about who you are and what you want.

Anne also shares a simple metaphor-based exercise to help unpack your identity after motherhood — one that might just change how you see yourself.

Whether you’re feeling stuck, questioning your career, or quietly wondering where did my ambition go?, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, supported, and more hopeful about what’s next.

Where Did I Go? is a podcast for women in the messy middle of modern motherhood — the part no one warned you about, where your identity starts to shift, your ambition gets complicated, and the old stories just don’t fit anymore. Connect with Dr Anne Welsh: Linkedin / Instagram / Website

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