In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of empowerment. We explore the crucial difference between being strengthened and being empowered, recognizing that true empowerment often comes from the support and encouragement of others. Through engaging discussions and insightful examples, we highlight the importance of creating spaces where we can be lifted up and supported by our community, freeing us to pursue our life's mission with renewed energy and purpose. Drawing inspiration from sports films like "Facing the Giants" and "Coach Carter," as well as timeless scriptural narratives such as Abraham's journey and Moses' confrontation with Pharaoh, we uncover the profound impact of empowerment on our personal growth and collective well-being.

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• (00:00) Intro
• (17:06) The difference between being strengthened and being empowered
• (22:11) Being alone is “not good”
• (26:02) Empowerment is community
• (33:57) Giving, not just taking
• (37:31) “Just show up”
• (41:44) Abraham’s journey
• (46:14) Beliefs bred from experiences
• (49:16) A negative form of empowerment
• (51:25) Being empowered is not a given
• (55:44) “Coach Carter” and “Facing the Giants”
• (01:07:32) Thani’s recent experiences and thoughts on self-empowerment
• (01:13:47) Self-empowerment steps
• (01:18:45) Closing thoughts

Join us for an insightful episode as we dive deep into the topic of rejection. In this candid conversation with special guest Terrence, we explore the multifaceted nature of rejection and how it can impact different areas of our lives, from dating to personal growth. We discuss the power of reframing rejection as an opportunity for growth and motivation, sharing personal experiences and practical strategies for embracing rejection and moving forward. Drawing inspiration from books like "Go for No," "You are Special," and "The Body Keeps the Score," we delve into the emotional weight of rejection and its potential for reshaping our lives in unexpected ways. Along the way, we touch on biblical parallels, the importance of community support, and the journey of healing from rejection.

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• (00:00) Intro
• (09:04) Terrence responds to the Q&A on curiosity
• (17:56) Go for "no"
• (23:42) The importance of failing fast in mental health
• (28:21) Failure is the first step to success
• (38:40) Redefining rejection with a more sustainable self-worth
• (43:36) Rejection as motivation for forward momentum
• (48:58) God is the final arbiter
• (50:42) "No" is not "never"
• (55:29) Rejection in childhood vs. adulthood
• (59:03) Advice for handling rejection
• (01:06:28) Closing thoughts

In this episode of Unbottled, we explore the concept of curiosity and how it can be both a positive and negative force in our lives. We discuss how curiosity, when used within safe boundaries, can lead to healthy doubt and exploration, creative expression, and a deeper connection with God. However, when abused, curiosity can lead to negative consequences such as addiction and obsession. We also delve into how Jesus leverages our natural curiosity through the use of parables, drawing us in and inspiring us to connect more deeply with Him.

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• (00:00) Intro
• (09:50) Rehabilitating the connotations behind curiosity
• (16:14) Asking questions and doubting common assumptions
• (20:14) Balancing curiosity and exploration with safety
• (22:55) Parenting parallels
• (30:36) Better mentoring with curious mentees
• (35:42) Curiosity and trust
• (42:49) Jesus leveraging curiosity for closeness
• (45:49) Wisdom gained through experience
• (48:25) The positive and negative aspects of curiosity
• (50:14) Tarzan
• (55:58) Relationship fantasy
• (01:03:05) When curiosity threatens contentment
• (01:07:14) Seeking wisdom and guidance
• (01:11:55) Closing thoughts

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In this episode of Unbottled, we delve into the topic of instability and explore how unpredictable circumstances can cause emotional upheaval in our lives. We discuss the difference between being stable and being comfortable through the analogy of a homeless person, and how COVID has caused destabilization on a global scale. We also share some of our personal experiences and coping strategies for regaining some order amidst life's chaotic circumstances.

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• (00:00) Intro
• (03:38) Terrence’s response to Episode 002’s Q/A on insecurity
• (10:08) Some more thoughts on drive and motivation
• (13:43) Experiencing stability in seeming instability
• (22:56) The difference between stability and comfort
• (32:32) The mass destabilization of COVID
• (35:50) Some different categories of stability
• (41:10) Coping with instability
• (54:53) Spiritual implications
• (59:27) Closing thoughts

Tune in to the next episode of UNBOTTLED airing tomorrow (5/08) to hear the rest of the Crew's thoughts on discipline and to join in on an enlightening conversation about instability.

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