Episodes

  • Tim Talk | The Narcissist Playbook | The 4 Phases of a Narcissistic Relationship

    Tim Talk | The Narcissist Playbook | The 4 Phases of a Narcissistic Relationship
    Jan 15 2026
    00:00 How Narcissists Win Your Trust
    19:23 The Devaluation Stage
    42:59 The Temporary Discard and Hooks
    59:15 The Discard Phase

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    Intro/Outro Music:
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    The Time with Tim Fletcher Podcast is for informational purposes only to provide understanding, learning, and awareness about complex trauma. No information published here can replace professional evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis, please contact your local crisis hotline at
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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • S3E09 | What Happens When Trauma, ADHD, and Menopause Collide with Jen Schmidt

    S3E09 | What Happens When Trauma, ADHD, and Menopause Collide with Jen Schmidt
    Jan 8 2026
    Joining Andy and Tim, our guest Jen shares how complex trauma shaped her identity long before she had words for it. Growing up with ADHD, emotional gaps, and a persistent sense of “badness,” she learned to survive by adapting to others, carrying emotions that weren’t hers, and losing connection to herself. Together with Tim Fletcher, the conversation explores pre-verbal trauma, shame, attachment patterns, marriage strain, nervous system healing, and why menopause can intensify trauma symptoms for women. This episode offers clarity, validation, and hope for anyone who feels like healing hasn’t worked or wonders why things suddenly got harder later in life.

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    Intro/Outro Music:
    ‘Take Your Pick’ by Aaron Lieberman
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    The Time with Tim Fletcher Podcast is for informational purposes only to provide understanding, learning, and awareness about complex trauma. No information published here can replace professional evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis, please contact your local crisis hotline at
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    1 hr and 43 mins
  • S3E08 | Christmas and Complex Trauma: Finding Connection, Comfort, and New Traditions

    S3E08 | Christmas and Complex Trauma: Finding Connection, Comfort, and New Traditions
    Dec 25 2025
    On this special Christmas Day episode of Time With Tim, Andy brings together members of Tim’s team to talk about why this season can feel tender for so many people. Christmas is often portrayed as magical, yet for many it brings reminders of loss, loneliness, and change. In this episode, you’ll hear honest reflections on grief, chosen family, new traditions, and the quiet hope that grows through connection. The Fletcher family also shares a heartfelt message to close the episode. Wherever you are today, may you feel a sense of belonging. You are not alone.

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    1 hr and 41 mins
  • S3E07 | Q&A with Tim Fletcher: Boundaries

    S3E07 | Q&A with Tim Fletcher: Boundaries
    Dec 11 2025
    In this episode, Tim and Andy dive into one of the most challenging parts of healing from complex trauma: boundaries. Together they explore why boundaries often feel confusing, scary, or “selfish,” and how unhealthy family systems shape the rules we grow up with. Tim explains the difference between internal and external boundaries, why willpower alone isn’t enough, how shame and fawning affect our ability to hold limits, and what loving, sustainable boundary-setting actually looks like in real relationships. If you’ve ever struggled to stand up for yourself, collapsed around other people’s emotions, or felt guilty for having needs, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and practical tools for change.

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    Intro/Outro Music:
    ‘Take Your Pick’ by Aaron Lieberman
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    The Time with Tim Fletcher Podcast is for informational purposes only to provide understanding, learning, and awareness about complex trauma. No information published here can replace professional evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis, please contact your local crisis hotline at
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    1 hr and 45 mins
  • S3E06 | Understanding NARM: A New Way to Heal Complex Trauma with Gabriel Schüßler

    S3E06 | Understanding NARM: A New Way to Heal Complex Trauma with Gabriel Schüßler
    Nov 27 2025
    NARM® (The NeuroAffective Relational Model®) is a therapeutic approach developed by Dr. Laurence Heller that helps people heal developmental and complex trauma by restoring connection with their authentic self in the present moment. It focuses on shame, survival patterns, and disrupted attachment, offering a compassionate path toward agency, self-trust, and inner coherence. Andy sits down with fellow LIFT coach and facilitator, Gabriel Schüßler, to cover this fascinating modality.

    Learn more about NARM: https://narmtraining.com/

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    Intro/Outro Music:
    ‘Take Your Pick’ by Aaron Lieberman
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    The Time with Tim Fletcher Podcast is for informational purposes only to provide understanding, learning, and awareness about complex trauma. No information published here can replace professional evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis, please contact your local crisis hotline at
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    1 hr and 27 mins
  • S3E05 | The Truth About Human Trafficking in Canada, with Katelyn Campbell of The Joy Smith Foundation

    S3E05 | The Truth About Human Trafficking in Canada, with Katelyn Campbell of The Joy Smith Foundation
    Nov 13 2025
    Human trafficking often hides in plain sight. In this conversation, Katelyn Campbell from the Joy Smith Foundation shares how emotional pain, shame, and the longing for love can make people vulnerable to manipulation and exploitation. With Tim and Andy, she explores how traffickers use trust and affection to control, what warning signs to look for, and how awareness and compassion can help protect others and bring hope to those healing from it.

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    00:00 – Katelyn’s Story: From a Good Childhood to Hidden Wounds
    13:00 – Emotional Abuse and Vulnerability
    44:00 – Understanding Human Trafficking
    57:00 – Warning Signs and Prevention
    1:27:00 – Healing, Hope, and Taking Action

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    Intro/Outro Music:
    ‘Take Your Pick’ by Aaron Lieberman
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    Disclaimers:
    The Time with Tim Fletcher Podcast is for informational purposes only to provide understanding, learning, and awareness about complex trauma. No information published here can replace professional evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis, please contact your local crisis hotline at
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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • S3E04 | Find What Makes Your Heart Sing with Morag Clark

    S3E04 | Find What Makes Your Heart Sing with Morag Clark
    Oct 30 2025
    After a traumatic childhood, Morag’s life spiraled into judgment, drinking, and searching for validation in all the wrong places. In this episode of Time with Tim, she shares her journey from trauma and addiction to freedom, spirituality, and self-compassion. Morag opens up about the roots of her pain, the moment everything began to change, and what it means to heal the “little girl inside.” Her story is a powerful reminder that healing is possible for anyone willing to face the truth—and that it’s never too late to find what makes your heart sing.

    Grow from Within: https://www.growfromwithin.com.au/
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    Intro/Outro Music:
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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • S3E03 | The Road Back: Healing, Brotherhood, and the Power of Honest Change w/ Troy Koerntjes

    S3E03 | The Road Back: Healing, Brotherhood, and the Power of Honest Change w/ Troy Koerntjes
    Oct 16 2025
    Troy Koerntjes’ path led from outlaw motorcycle clubs and chaos to recovery and compassion. Through injury, grief, and therapy, he discovered the kind of belonging he’d always searched for and now leads programs that help others find connection, strength, and healing.

    Follow Troy and Complete Health Geelong:
    Instagram: @troykoerntjes
    Website: https://completehealthgeelong.com.au/
    YouTube: @CompleteHealthGeelong⁩

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    Intro/Outro Music:
    ‘Take Your Pick’ by Aaron Lieberman
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    Disclaimers:
    The Time with Tim Fletcher Podcast is for informational purposes only to provide understanding, learning, and awareness about complex trauma. No information published here can replace professional evaluation, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis, please contact your local crisis hotline at
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    1 hr and 33 mins