Think being a single guy in the lifestyle is easy? Think again.

Pinky and Ava put Anthony and Nirvana Lover (aka P*$*y Destroyer) in the hot seat to talk about what it’s really like.

They cover everything from etiquette to ego checks, building a good name, and yes… that time Hot Mama "pimped" them out.

Buckle up—this is the single man’s guide to staying in the game without becoming the cautionary tale.

#ThreeShadesOfGrey #NonMonogamy #LifestyleCommunity #PolyLife #SwingersLife #OpenRelationships #EthicalNonMonogamy #SingleMen #SoloInLifestyle #LifestyleEtiquette #HotMamaPimped #StagLife #MythsMannersMayhem #SingleButNotSorry #SoloButPlayingNice #CautionaryTales #PodcastLife #RelationshipTalk

LINKS:

Three Shades Of Grey | Website

Splash Takeovers

School may be out, but Pinky and Ava prove the learning never stops—especially when summer adventures are the teachers.

In this episode of Pinky & Ava’s Pajama Party, the ladies spill the tea on their travels, trysts, and everything in between. From steamy liaisons to unforgettable getaways, they share the lessons, laughs, and little indulgences that made their summer sizzle.

What happens when swinging and polyamory overlap?

In this episode of Three Shades Deeper, we dive into the term “Swolly”—a playful way to describe those who enjoy both. The group sits down with Coach Meshai from Expansive Connection, who opens up about her own journey in embracing a swolly identity.

Together, they unpack the pros and cons of living at the intersection of swinging and polyamory, the misconceptions people often have, and what it really looks like to claim space in both communities.

Whether you’re a swinger, poly, swolly, or just swolly-curious, this conversation takes you deeper into the nuances of non-monogamy, identity, and authenticity.

Buckle up, because this Naughty N'awlin’s 2025 recap is anything but tame.

With Ava stuck at home living that #MomLife, she grills Pinky and Anthony about their wild, laughter-filled, and occasionally chaotic journey to the Big Easy.

From travel headaches that almost kept them from the party, to Pinky pushing herself out of her comfort zone (and loving every second), to a whirlwind of classes that ranged from eye-opening to downright delicious—this episode serves up the play-by-play you didn’t know you needed. Whether you’re here for the travel drama, the sexy education, or the cheeky behind-the-scenes stories, you’ll feel like you were right there… beads, bourbon, and all.

Ever wonder what really gets Pinky and Ava going?

In this intimate and unfiltered episode of Pinky and Ava’s Pajama Party, the duo dives deep into their turn-ons—and they’re not just talking bodies.

From the thrill of emotional freedom to the buzz of a partner’s confidence, from shared laughter to shared lovers, they explore the layers of satisfaction that light them up.

It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s ridiculously relatable.

In this deliciously nerdy and insightful episode, we’re joined by Sir Sublime—a self-proclaimed “lazy top,” kink toymaker, and connoisseur of all things rope, impact, and mindplay.

Together, we unwrap the art and intention behind BDSM, diving into the nuances of dominance, the seduction of sensory play, and why best practices matter in the kink world.

Whether you’re a seasoned sadist or just kink-curious, Sir Sublime reminds us that "everyone kinks their own way"—and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to pleasure and power. We talk toys, technique, trust, and what it means to top without burning out.

Along the way, we explore:
• Why negotiation isn’t just for boardrooms (but should still involve snacks)
• How consent can be sexy, sacred, and sometimes sound like a well-prepped PowerPoint
• And why aftercare might mean cuddles, cookies, or just not losing your rope scissors again

From nerdy obsessions to sexy confessions, this episode is a playful, practical, and passionate look into the world of consensual kink.

LINKS:

Sinfully Sublime | Sir Sublime's Toys

Douglas Kent | Sky (sic "Air")

Jay Wiseman | Books

In this episode of we take a moment to own our sh*t.

In the past, we might’ve made it sound like there’s only one right way to start a non-monogamous relationship. But thanks to some wise friends of the show—and a little bit of grown-folks (Foxy) "magic"—we realized we goofed. Non-monogamy isn’t a one-size-fits-all situation, and there are many ways to build strong, thriving, sexy connections right from the start.

So, we gathered around the mic with our extended poly pod squad for a heartfelt (and hilarious) roundtable. We revisit the conversation, acknowledge the error, and explore the beautifully diverse ways people enter non-monogamy with intention, flexibility, and love.

Tune in for some laughs, lessons, and the reminder that getting it wrong can sometimes lead to getting it really right

It’s time to clear the air, and maybe burst a few egos along the way!

In this episode Pinky & Ava get real about one of the most frustrating misconceptions in the non-monogamous world — that being open means being easy......Spoiler alert: We Don't "F@(k" Everybody!!!

The ladies share some cringe-worthy, hilarious, and downright annoying stories of people who thought “non-monogamous” was code for “no standards.” From awkward assumptions to bold propositions, they set the record straight on what it really means to be selective — even when you live life outside the lines.

If you’ve ever been misunderstood in your open relationships — or just want to hear some entertaining tea — cozy up and press play. Pajamas optional… standards required.