In this deeply personal and paradigm-shifting episode, Kristina introduces the Inner Villain Transformation System—a shadow work model that synthesizes IFS, Human Design, the Enneagram, and primal wound theory into a single, coherent system. With co-host Anna, she explores how maladaptive patterns (like people-pleasing, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome) aren’t isolated quirks but interconnected arcs of transformation. Each “villain” isn’t something to banish, but a gateway to your most powerful legend self.

Whether you resonate with Regina George, Darth Vader, or Nurse Ratched, this episode gives you a mythic yet grounded framework for recognizing and alchemizing your deepest inner patterns—one archetype at a time.

Topics Covered:

• The origin story of the Inner Villain system
• Why maladaptive patterns show up in clusters
• How the nine villains align with Human Design centers and Enneagram types
• The concept of “negations” (deep limiting beliefs) and how they point to core villain archetypes
• The development of the oracle deck and game
• Understanding the arc: Pinnacle Villain → Sub-Villains → Hero → Legend
• Inversion as the key spiritual movement (inspired by yoga, polarity, and karmic unwinding)
• How gameplay and roleplay deepen awareness of inner dynamics
• Disney character analogs for each Enneagram/villain archetype pairing

Inner Villain Archetypes Introduced:

• Type 1: Obedient Critic → Legend Form: Equalizer
• Type 2: Vengeful Martyr → Legend Form: Nourisher
• Type 3: Vain Controller → Legend Form: Inventor
• Type 4: Eternal Child → Legend Form: Traveler
• Type 5: Evasive Expert → Legend Form: Integrator
• Type 6: Divisive Immortal → Legend Form: Healer
• Type 7: Hungry Shapeshifter → Legend Form: Presence
• Type 8: Righteous Bully → Legend Form: Channeler
• Type 9: Invisible Destroyer → Legend Form: Architect

Key Quotes:

• “You don’t need to become a better person. You need to become better at change.”
• “Villains are like pendulums—when we’re stressed, we swing into their worst form. When we’re grounded, we move toward the hero.”
• “These aren’t parts. They’re entire universes.”
• “You don’t jump stars—you invert the spin. That’s the hero moment.”
• “Everyone has all nine villains. The goal is self-love across every domain of your life.”

Game Mechanics Preview:

• Oracle deck includes 63 cards: 9 Pinnacle Villains, 3 Sub Villains (Persecutor, Victim, Rescuer), Hero, Legend, and 9 Power Cards
• Designed for solo shadow work or group gameplay
• Involves roleplay, self-inquiry, and archetypal progression
• Roleplay scenarios bring unconscious patterns into awareness through embodied practice

Resources & Links:

• Learn more or sign up for the newsletter: www.kristinawiltsee.com or www.playconscious.com
• Be notified when the Inner Villain Oracle Deck Kickstarter launches (Fall 2025)
• Explore the nine mini-episodes coming soon—one for each villain archetype

Call to Action:

If this episode sparked recognition, subscribe to the newsletter to explore your villain arc, get early access to the deck, and dive deeper into the transformation system. Whether you’re a seeker, coach, or creative, the Inner Villains are already inside you. It’s time to meet them.

Here is the link for more info: https://www.kristinawiltsee.com/innervillain

Welcome back! It's the first episode of our newest season, in which Kristina and Anna reflect on 2024 and discuss their hopes and dreams for 2025.

Happy New Year, everyone!

Notes:

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In this episode, we talk about the transition from intensive processing to embracing life fully. Are you addicted to shadow work and processing? What are some key indicators that you are ready to decrease the frequency of your shadow work? Get ready to step into a new phase of your life.

Today’s episode is special, as the structure and content of it were revealed to Anna in a dream. This episode is in response to our listeners’ requests after hearing the Siblings episode — many of you wrote in and requested an additional episode on healing the Sibling Wound.

How do we repair the Sibling Wound? The same way we repair any relationship, only this relationship has more history and key characters. In today’s episode you will discover realistic expectations to healing your sibling bond, and a step-by-step plan to repair it. We hope you enjoy listening!

Five Levels of a Disharmonious Relationship:

Level 1: 0-20% of interactions are disharmonious

Level 2: 20-40% of interactions are disharmonious

Level 3: 40-60% of interactions are disharmonious

Level 4: 60-80% of interactions are disharmonious

Level 5: 80-100% of interactions are disharmonious

Five Tips to Heal A Sibling Wound:

1) Forgiveness (Emotional)

2) Feed Your Demon / Family Constellation (Mental)

3) The 360 Life Review

4) Conversation with your Sibling

5) Mediation with your Sibling (optional)

Episodes Referenced In this Episode:

1.14 Hooponopono / True Forgiveness

2.07 The Drama Triangle

4.11 Near Death Experiences

6.16 Reconnecting

6.17 Siblings

Books Referenced:

Limitless Book

The Four Agreements

John Gottman’s New Book

Celestine Prophecy

Links:

Harvesting Your Own Seeds

Me+ App (ADHD Calendar)

Pearls (Daily Book Summaries)

How To Feed Your Demons

Robbie Houcek Contact (Shaman)

Paul Lewis Contact (Mediator)

The following is a gratitude practice that you can use in for any application in your life, but especially for creating a gratitude wave for the nature spirits.

Common sense caution: This is a guided meditation and may put you into a trance state, do not listen to it while driving, or other performing activities that require your full attention.

Note:

This meditation pairs well with episode 6.19 on Elementals.

On this week’s podcast two best friends discuss the karmas associated with house chores, making friends with elemental spirits, a money wound update, and more. If you’re a fan of the podcast you will enjoy this playful, meaningful conversation.

This is our third episode explaining the very complex and channelled system called Human Design. Kristina educates us on how to read our charts to understand which our life purpose and how we filter information and energy.

Here are the symbols and a brief description of what they mean:

☉ Conscious Sun – Your Divine Invitation

Your conscious sun is the most important placement in your chart and is the “aim” the soul wants to experience. It makes up about 70% of your energy. Everything else in the chart supports the suns brightest expression.

⊕ Conscious Earth – Your Stability

The energy that keeps you grounded, stable, and able to show up authentically.

Note: The conscious sun and earth are part of your incarnation cross. I do a deep dive on all four gates of your incarnation cross in the human design map.

☽ Conscious Moon – Your Relationship with Self

How you relate to your intuition, emotions, and needs. Often, the moon will be a significant part of your inner dialogue and the way you talk yourself through situations.

☊ and ☋ Conscious Nodes – Your Petri Dish of Purpose

The way you will observe your own growth and expansion. From birth until Uranus Opposition, the south node is the petri dish, and after Uranus Opposition, the north node takes over.

☿ Conscious Mercury – Your Currency

How you communicate and exchange value with your energy (aka not what you are saying, what you are being).

♀ Conscious Venus – Your Sense of Beauty

What you find beautiful about life and likely to place immense value on.

♂ Conscious Mars – Your Poison Arrow

The thing you must express in the world lest it poisons your mind, body, and spirit

♃ Conscious Jupiter – Your Expansion Excellerator

The thing that expands your consciousness when embodied in the high frequency and shuts down your consciousness when embodied in the low frequency

♄ Conscious Saturn – Your Caution Light

The thing you must keep in check to receive the bounty of Jupiter.

♅ Conscious Uranus – Your Quirks

The unusual or unique thing about how you express that energy. These tend to be more generational than personal because of the long transit time.

♆ Conscious Neptune – Your Maya

The illusions you get trapped in and fight to escape. This also tends to be more generational because of transit time.

♇ Conscious Pluto – Your Key of Truth

The things that unlocks the truth in your expression.

Links:

Christe Inge Gates Library

Free Personalized Chart

Pictures of Charts Discussed in the Episode

Today Anna and Kristina discuss the importance of sibling relationships and how those early dynamics may have helped shape us into who we are today. These best friends explore the sibling wound, as well as tackle challenges parents face when raising more than one child. If you have children or siblings, you won't want to miss this episode.

Links:

Siblings without Rivalry

Freakanomics Chapter on Parenting

Siblings Influence on Each Other

Encanto

Indomitable Blackman Episode