Episodes

  • Shocking Surprises Living with A Dismissive Avoidant

    Shocking Surprises Living with A Dismissive Avoidant
    Dec 20 2025
    Unlock Deeper Intimacy & Connection With Thais Gibson This Boxing Week. Start Your Free 7-day Trial and Get the Attachment Styles & Sex Course ($250 Value) Free for Life. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/boxing-week?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=boxing-week&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=aUrPwa0KzOI&utm_content=yt-12-20-25&el=podcast Moving in together can feel like a major relationship milestone, but when one partner has a Dismissive Avoidant attachment style, it can also surface unexpected challenges. In this episode, Thais Gibson and co-host Mike DiZio walk through what to realistically expect when you first move in with a Dismissive Avoidant, why certain behaviors show up, and how to navigate this transition without taking things personally or creating unnecessary conflict. If you’re considering moving in with a Dismissive Avoidant, or already have, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and practical strategies. Living together often fast-tracks couples into the power struggle stage of relationships, and Dismissive Avoidants can feel especially activated by this shift. In this episode, you’ll learn why Dismissive Avoidants may retreat, equate comfort with love, struggle with compromise, and fear expectations, even when they deeply care about their partner. Thais and Mike explore: ✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants need space to regulate emotionally ✅ How fear of being trapped can show up after moving in ✅ Why conflict feels especially threatening in their home environment ✅ How unconscious habits from hyper-independence impact cohabitation ✅ What conversations must happen in advance to prevent resentment Most importantly, this episode emphasizes that these patterns are understandable, workable, and not signs that the relationship is doomed, especially when both partners are willing to communicate and do the healing work. Key Takeaways ✅ Dismissive Avoidants often retreat into personal space to self-regulate after moving in ✅ Comfort and routine may be interpreted as love, leading to unintentional complacency ✅ Fear of expectations can cause emotional withdrawal, not loss of care ✅ Avoiding conflict temporarily increases long-term tension ✅ Compromise and shared habits must be consciously built, not assumed ✅ Clear conversations before moving in reduce fear, shutdown, and resentment Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction 03:17 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Retreat to Their Own Space for Emotional Distance 21:34 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo 22:25 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Equate Comfort With Love 31:06 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Fear Expectation and Being Trapped 43:22 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Retreat to Avoid Conflict 48:33 – 5. Dismissive Avoidants Struggle with Compromise 51:14 – 6. Dismissive Avoidants Are Protective of Their Belongings 51:14 – Live With Them for a Few Days Before Moving in 1:00:04 – Subscribe and Follow For More Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #CommitmentIssues #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #ThaisGibson #RelationshipHealing #SecureAttachment #DatingAdvice
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    1 hr and 1 min
  • Avoidants Propose to Their Partner When THIS Happens

    Avoidants Propose to Their Partner When THIS Happens
    Dec 19 2025
    Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-Time Offer https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=aIKk1oX3_YE&utm_content=yt-12-19-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants don’t commit because they’re pressured, convinced, or chased. In fact, those approaches usually push them further away. Commitment happens when specific emotional conditions are met, conditions rooted in their childhood conditioning, core fears, and unmet needs. In this episode, Thais Gibson explains the real reasons Dismissive Avoidants propose, marry, and invest long-term and why these patterns often surprise people who are dating or loving them. In this video, Thais breaks down the four core drivers behind long-term commitment for Dismissive Avoidants, drawing from attachment theory, conditioning, and years of clinical experience. You’ll learn: Why Dismissive Avoidants are often trying to avoid breakups more than commitment itself How pressure triggers autonomy wounds and emotional shutdown How childhood conditioning shapes their beliefs about relationships and marriage Why many Dismissive Avoidants secretly fear they “can’t do” relationships The deep shame wound that makes them fear being truly seen The emotional needs that help dismissive avoidants feel safe enough to commit This episode also explains what actually helps move the relationship forward, without suppressing your own needs or walking on eggshells. ✨ Key Takeaways ✔ Dismissive avoidants often fear commitment because they associate closeness with pain ✔ Pressure triggers rebellion, not security ✔ Relationship beliefs are shaped by childhood environments — not objective reality ✔ Many dismissive avoidants fear they are defective or incapable of relationships ✔ Acceptance, direct communication, and emotional stability increase safety ✔ Commitment grows when relationships feel predictable, non-shaming, and emotionally safe ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 – What Makes Dismissive Avoidants Commit Long-Term? 00:24 – Dismissive Avoidants Avoid Breakups 02:43 – Dismissive Avoidant Don’t Like Being Pressured 03:56 – Our Perception is Conditioned by the Environment We Grew Up in 06:16 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo 07:07 – Dismissive Avoidant Fear They Can’t “Do” Relationships 09:09 – Dismissive Avoidant Fear Being “Found Out” as Shameful or Defective 10:05 – Needs of the Dismissive Avoidant 13:01 – Comment and Subscribe Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #CommitmentIssues #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #ThaisGibson #RelationshipHealing #SecureAttachment #DatingAdvice
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    14 mins
  • How to Actually Bond With A Dismissive Avoidant Without Losing Yourself

    How to Actually Bond With A Dismissive Avoidant Without Losing Yourself
    Dec 17 2025

    Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=2iAB3SwfKMY&utm_content=yt-12-17-25&el=podcast

    How Do You Actually Bond With a Dismissive Avoidant, Without Losing Yourself?

    If you’ve ever felt confused, disconnected, or like you’re walking on eggshells in a relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant, this video is for you. Bonding is possible, but only when it’s done in a way that honors both your needs and theirs.

    In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the real core needs that make dismissive avoidants feel safe, connected, and bonded, while also showing you how to communicate your own needs without self-abandoning or creating resentment .

    In This Video, You’ll Learn:

    Why unmet needs quietly starve relationships over time What Dismissive Avoidants are truly afraid of in closeness How to communicate needs without triggering withdrawal Why appreciation, empathy, and understanding matter more than grand gestures How safety, stability, and certainty create lasting emotional bonds

    Key Takeaways:

    ✔ Dismissive Avoidants bond through clear boundaries, autonomy, and emotional safety ✔ Concrete communication prevents misunderstandings and fear-based withdrawal ✔ Appreciation works best when it’s sincere, specific, and grounded ✔ Empathy and understanding meet deep unmet inner-child needs ✔ Healthy relationships require mutual needs to be acknowledged and met

    ⏱ Timestamps:

    00:00 – What Makes Dismissive Avoidants Feel Bonded? 01:26 – The Significance of Needs 03:04 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Need a Sense of Autonomy, Independence, and Freedom 05:17 – Needs Course Promo 06:10 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Want to Feel Understanding in the Relationship 07:16 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Need Appreciation and Acknowledgement 09:17 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Need Empathy 10:09 – 5. Dismissive Avoidants Need Certainty, Stability, and Safety

    Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

    Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

    #AttachmentStyles #DismissiveAvoidant #HealingAttachment #PersonalDevelopment #Relationships #EmotionalNeeds #ThaisGibson
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    12 mins
  • Fearful Avoidant | The Childhood Pain That Nobody Talks About (HOW TO HEAL!)

    Fearful Avoidant | The Childhood Pain That Nobody Talks About (HOW TO HEAL!)
    Dec 13 2025

    Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-13-25&el=podcast

    The Fearful Avoidant attachment style is often labelled as unpredictable, confusing, or “mixed signals.” But behind the push-pull, the self-protection, and the sudden emotional shifts is something deeper: hidden childhood pain and conditioning that never got healed.

    This video uncovers that pain — the chaos, broken trust, abandonment fears, and betrayal wounds that wire the subconscious nervous system to equate love with danger. You’ll learn how conditioning forms, why your nervous system responds before you’re even conscious of it, and how ancient wisdom + neuroscience come together to create a practical path forward.

    Most importantly, we walk through a step-by-step exercise to rewire the core wounds Fearful Avoidants carry, and finally stop reliving the emotional past in the present.

    You’ll learn: ✅ The childhood patterns that shape Fearful Avoidant attachment ✅ Why your nervous system reacts before you can think ✅ How conditioning becomes identity — and how to break that link ✅ What ancient traditions teach about non-attachment and self-awareness ✅ Why observing your conditioning changes your relationship to it ✅ A powerful rewiring method to release abandonment, betrayal, and unworthiness ✅ How repetition and emotion reprogram core beliefs stored since childhood

    Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – The Inner Childhood Pain of the Fearful Avoidant 02:28 – Fearful Avoidants Experience Chaos in Childhood 04:43 – Conditioning Shapes Our Identity 06:48 – Needs Course Promo 04:23 – Express Your Needs Early On 07:14 – Pavlovian Conditioning: Pavlov’s Dog 09:42 – How Our Conditioning Can Affect Our Nervous System 13:14 – The Avenues to Healing 15:36 – Non-Attachment and the Observer 19:09 – Ancient Wisdom on Clinging to Our Conditioning 22:16 – Rumi: “Out Beyond Ideas of Wrongdoing and Rightdoing” 23:37 – Transcendence VS Rewiring 25:14 – Belief Reprogramming – Step 1: Write Down Your Wounds and Fears 26:37 – Step 2: Find the Opposite of Your Wound or Fear 27:28 – Step 3: Come Up With 10 Pieces of Evidence Why This New Idea is Possible 28:23 – Your Subconscious Mind Speaks In Emotions and Imagery 31:22 – Record and Listen Back for 21 Days 32:18 – Bowl of Light

    Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

    Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

    📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson

    💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

    #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyleHealing #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalTrauma #InnerChildHealing #Neuroplasticity #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #RelationshipHealing #SubconsciousReprogramming
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    34 mins
  • The MUST-KNOW Core Wounds of A FEARFUL AVOIDANT for True Healing

    The MUST-KNOW Core Wounds of A FEARFUL AVOIDANT for True Healing
    Dec 12 2025

    Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-12-25&el=podcast

    If you’ve ever felt torn between wanting love and fearing it at the same time, this episode is for you. Join Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, for a powerful deep dive into the core wounds of the Fearful Avoidant (FA) attachment style and what it really takes to heal them.

    You’ll discover how FAs develop conflicting subconscious beliefs about connection, trust, and vulnerability and how those beliefs drive push-pull patterns, emotional burnout, and relationship anxiety. Thais shares her proven framework for identifying and reprogramming your own wounds so you can finally feel safe giving and receiving love.

    💡 You’ll Learn: The core wounds that keep fearful avoidants stuck in painful patterns How to recognize the signs of conflicted attachment behavior Why your nervous system gets triggered during intimacy and distance Practical steps to reprogram fear-based beliefs and build inner safety How to use somatic tools to regulate emotions in real time A step-by-step approach to becoming a secure, emotionally available partner

    Key Takeaway: Healing as a fearful avoidant starts with understanding your core wounds, but true transformation happens when you reprogram your nervous system and beliefs to feel safe in connection.

    🎙️ Meet Your Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and creator of the Integrated Attachment Theory™. With a Ph.D. and over 70,000 students worldwide, she teaches emotional mastery, subconscious reprogramming, and secure relationship skills.

    📚 Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📘 Read Learning Love by Thais Gibson https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love

    🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Explore the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

    #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentHealing #ThaisGibson #EmotionalHealing #SubconsciousReprogramming #SomaticHealing #RelationshipAnxiety #AttachmentStyles #SecureLove #PersonalGrowth
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Dismissive Avoidants: How They Bond Emotionally & Physically

    Dismissive Avoidants: How They Bond Emotionally & Physically
    Dec 10 2025

    Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-10-25&el=podcast

    Many people misunderstand what sex and intimacy mean to a Dismissive Avoidant — assuming distance, shutdowns, or withdrawal are signs of disinterest. But neuroscience shows that Dismissive Avoidants bond through intimacy in very unique ways, and their core wounds around vulnerability deeply shape how they connect emotionally and physically.

    In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down what happens in the mind, body, and nervous system of a Dismissive Avoidant during sex and connection. You’ll learn why intimacy activates old subconscious programming, why vulnerability can trigger fear, and how to build a safer foundation for physical and emotional closeness.

    You’ll learn: ✅ Why vulnerability activates core wounds like “I am unsafe” and “I am defective” ✅ How emotional intimacy can trigger shutdown after closeness ✅ Why pressure or expectations around sex lead to withdrawal ✅ How shame becomes subconsciously associated with intimacy ✅ The role of childhood emotional neglect in adult sexual dynamics ✅ How fear of inadequacy impacts desire and presence ✅ What partners can do to communicate without triggering shutdown

    Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – What Happens to Dismissive Avoidants Around Sex and Intimacy 01:00 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Have Big Core Wounds Around Intimacy 01:35 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Are Afraid of Feeling Trapped, Helpless or Pressured 02:50 – Needs Course Promo 03:17 – When There is a Lot of Vulnerability Around Sex 03:56 – If There is Pressure Around Sex 04:27 – When Sex Becomes Less Frequent or Creates Problems 05:17 – If They Feel Criticized About Sex 05:32 – When They Feel Incapable of Meeting Their Partner's Needs 06:04 – If They Are Critical About Themselves 06:22 – Do You Have Any Questions?

    Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

    Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

    📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson

    💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

    #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #IntimacyIssues #RelationshipAdvice #SexAndAttachment #Neuroplasticity #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool
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    7 mins
  • Dismissive Avoidant Breadcrumbing: What You Need to Know

    Dismissive Avoidant Breadcrumbing: What You Need to Know
    Dec 8 2025

    Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-08-25&el=podcast

    If you’re tired of feeling confused, undervalued, or “left hanging” by someone who only gives you just enough to keep you around, this episode breaks down the psychology of Dismissive Avoidant breadcrumbing.

    Thais Gibson explains the deeper emotional and subconscious roots of breadcrumbing within the Dismissive Avoidant attachment style, including how their childhood emotional neglect creates a comfort zone around emotional scarcity. She also reveals why people on the receiving end of breadcrumbing often feel “stuck,” and how this dynamic stems from their own learned comfort with neglect.

    You’ll walk away with practical tools to recondition your subconscious comfort zone, shift limiting beliefs, rebuild your standards, and create a relationship model based on mutual nourishment rather than deprivation.

    You'll learn: ✅ What breadcrumbing actually is and why it’s so common with Dismissive Avoidants ✅ How childhood emotional neglect creates an Avoidant's “breadcrumb comfort zone” ✅ Why trauma spreads through patterns, not intention ✅ How Dismissive Avoidants can stop breadcrumbing by learning to stop breadcrumbing themselves ✅ Why people who accept breadcrumbs usually have their own comfort zone of neglect ✅ How to recondition your subconscious to expect, and accept, real emotional nourishment ✅ The role of boundaries, standards, and self-worth in stopping the cycle ✅ Why identifying your needs changes your entire dating experience

    Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Are You Being Breadcrumbed by a Dismissive Avoidant? 02:34 – Why We Accept Breadcrumbs: Subconscious Comfort Zones 05:15 – Dismissive Avoidants Must Stop Breadcrumbing Themselves 06:37 – Giving Yourself What You're Not Receiving Externally 08:22 – Needs Course Promo 08:47 – Why You Stay in Breadcrumbing Dynamics 09:26 – Boundaries as a Declaration of Your Self Worth

    Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

    Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

    📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson

    💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

    #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #HealingAttachment #RelationshipPatterns #Breadcrumbing #EmotionalNeglect
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    10 mins
  • Signs a Dismissive Avoidant Is in Limerence

    Signs a Dismissive Avoidant Is in Limerence
    Nov 28 2025
    CYBER MONDAY OFFER: FREE Somatic Attachment Healing Course for Life! Get the Somatic Attachment Healing Course FREE for life when you start your 7-day trial of the All-Access Pass. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/somatic-attachment-healing?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=cyber-monday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-29-25&el=podcast Can a Dismissive Avoidant actually become secretly obsessed with you? In this vulnerable episode, Mike opens up about a real-life limerence experience, revealing what Dismissive Avoidant infatuation truly looks like from the inside. If you’ve ever wondered whether a Dismissive Avoidant is thinking about you more than they let on… this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and surprising insight. Today we’re diving into the 6 key signs a Dismissive Avoidant is secretly obsessed with you and why dismissive avoidants can experience deep limerence even when they appear emotionally distant. Mike shares a personal story of unexpected intense infatuation, how unmet needs and repressed traits triggered limerence, and the subtle ways Dismissive Avoidants try to connect without revealing too much. We also break down the psychology of limerence, why it hits so hard, and which attachment style tends to experience celebrity-crush limerence the most. Dismissive Avoidants do experience limerence, often intensely, but privately. Dismissive Avoidant limerence is usually triggered when someone reflects their deeply repressed traits or meets long-standing unmet needs such as acceptance, attunement, and emotional support. Signs of Dismissive Avoidant obsession often show up indirectly (liking all your posts, asking deep questions early, staring from a distance, subtle attempts to “bump into you”). Limerence becomes soothing for Dismissive Avoidants, a way to experience emotional intensity without vulnerability. Dismissive Avoidant women are the most likely group to develop strong celebrity-crush limerence. True connection requires moving from fantasy to authenticity and learning to meet your needs more directly. 👥 ABOUT THE HOSTS Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a leading expert in Attachment Theory and integrative emotional healing. Mike is a former Dismissive Avoidant who openly shares his experiences to help others understand attachment dynamics and healing. 📚 RESOURCES & LINKS Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #Limerence #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentTheory #PDS #ThaisGibson #EmotionalHealing #Relationships If you’re ready to break old patterns, heal your nervous system, and transform your relationships from the inside out, start your 7-day trial today and get the Somatic Attachment Healing Course FREE for life. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/somatic-attachment-healing?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=cyber-monday&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=fxGk1uk5YWM&utm_content=yt-11-29-25&el=podcast
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    52 mins