In this heart-opening episode, Chloe and Steph share a very personal life update - from big transitions and soul-aligned choices to sacred plans for The Woman Within retreat in Bali.

Steph reveals the emotional and spiritual journey behind leaving her high-powered corporate role after 18 years to follow a deeper calling. The conversation moves through themes of intuition, grief, spaciousness, identity, motherhood, and how we define success on our own terms. This one’s an ode to the courage it takes to begin again—and the power of trusting yourself even when there’s no clear map.

🌀 Episode Highlights

00:00 – Welcome + Retreat Vibes

The podcast turns 2+ years old! Chloe and Steph reflect on growth, change, and their upcoming Bali retreat, The Woman Within—a deeply supportive, spacious container for transformation under the New Moon.

04:00 – Steph Quits Her Job: A Soul-Led Decision

Steph opens up about resigning from her Asia Pacific marketing leadership role, why now was the time, and the inner calling she couldn’t ignore.

09:00 – Grief, Identity & Following the Nudge

How losing Arthur shaped her perspective, why she no longer needs a 5-year plan, and what it really means to listen to your gut as a sacral authority in Human Design.

16:00 – Letting Go of “The Plan”

Steph talks about navigating the “What’s next?” pressure, learning to trust the unknown, and staying grounded without external validation.

23:00 – Abundance Starts in the Kitchen 🍳

A powerful little Feng Shui practice you can do today to invite wealth and flow—plus Steph’s new journey into energetic home alignment.

26:00 – Self-Led Success, Not Selfishness

A heartfelt conversation on redefining success, prioritizing presence over productivity, and why your work doesn’t define your worth.

🌿 Resources & Retreat Info

→ The Woman Within Retreat (Aug 23–28, Ubud): Only a few spaces left—click here to explore

→ Follow Steph’s Feng Shui tips: @ninelemonsfengshui

→ Follow Chloe’s self empowerment & leadership page: @conscious.consulting.cc

→ DM us or reach out on IG @the.selfishpodcast if you feel a spar

____

Connect with us

@the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui @stephmccnchy

The Woman Within retreat
6 days, 5 nights from 23rd August - 28th August 2025.

This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.

Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.

All details here.

Mailing list
Sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know what we are up to.

Thank you for listening, we hope you enjoyed the show. If you liked what you heard there are a number of ways you can show your support ❤️

- share with a friend
- give us a 5 star review on your podcast platform

Thank you again and see you next week xx Chloe & Steph

In this expansive episode of The Selfish Podcast, Chloe and Steph explore the energetic intersections between our inner world and outer environment. From the transformative magic of astrocartography to the grounding wisdom of Feng Shui, they dive into how where we are can deeply influence how we feel.

This one’s a journey through joy, healing, and trust — inviting you to reflect on what it really means to feel at home within yourself and your space. With honest conversation and soulful insights, they share why joy isn’t always about laughter — sometimes it’s a quiet moment, a breath, a sunrise. And they open up about their own practices, from daily affirmations to trusting in the divine timing of the universe using Gabby Bernstein’s 21 Day Challenge.

PLUS — it’s the podcast’s 2-year anniversary 🎉 Whether you're into self-care rituals, spiritual tools, or just want to feel more grounded in your day-to-day — this episode is full of gentle reminders and fresh perspectives.

In This Episode:
00:00 – Exploring Self and Space
05:51 – The Intersection of Astro Cartography and Feng Shui
11:51 – Defining and Discovering Joy
17:59 – Trusting the Universe and Daily Affirmations
24:54 – Celebrating Two Years of The Selfish Podcast

Takeaways to Anchor In:
🌿 Our environment holds power — physically, emotionally, energetically.
🌿 Astro cartography + Feng Shui can help us find and create nourishing spaces.
🌿 Joy isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience — it’s deeply personal and ever-evolving.
🌿 Daily affirmations are a beautiful way to connect with trust, presence, and desire.
🌿 Celebrating milestones (big or small) can be powerful anchors in our personal growth journey.
🌿 You’re allowed to trust the Universe, even when the next step feels uncertain.

Let’s Reflect:
Where are you currently finding joy in your life?
What does your space — physical or emotional — need from you right now?

💌 Don’t forget to follow, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who could use a gentle nudge to reconnect with their inner compass.

____

Connect with us

@the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui @stephmccnchy

The Woman Within retreat
6 days, 5 nights from 23rd August - 28th August 2025.

This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.

Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.

All details here.

Mailing list
Sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know what we are up to.

Thank you for listening, we hope you enjoyed the show. If you liked what you heard there are a number of ways you can show your support ❤️

- share with a friend
- give us a 5 star review on your podcast platform

Thank you again and see you next week xx Chloe & Steph

We sit down with energy healer and intuitive guide Tara Hegerty, who shares her powerful personal journey from a high-pressure events career through trauma, fertility challenges, and into a deep spiritual awakening. Tara opens up about her journey and how she stumbled upon a book that changed everything—How to Read the Akashic Records.

She explains how the Akashic Records are not just a cosmic library, but a living field of consciousness holding the truth of our soul’s journey—past, present, and future. Tara shows us how ancestral healing, spiritual alignment, and energy work can shift our lives and even our businesses in profound ways.

Whether you're a woman in business, deep in your healing journey, or feeling called to reconnect with your spirit, this episode will leave you inspired and gently activated.

✨ What We Cover:

• Tara’s transition from corporate burnout to intuitive healer
• How trauma can disconnect us from our spirit—and how to reconnect
• Understanding and accessing the Akashic Records
• Healing ancestral trauma and unconscious burdens
• Why your business has its own consciousness
• Spiritual alignment as the foundation for sustainable success
• Daily energy practices to shift your nervous system
• The power of personal retreats and self-care rhythms

💡 Top Takeaways:

• The Akashic Records offer deep insight into soul contracts, past lives, and ancestral patterns.
• Healing is not just emotional—it’s energetic, physical, and spiritual.
• Trauma often hides in the unconscious and can manifest as fatigue, hormonal imbalance, or repeating life cycles.
• Reconnection with your spirit is the missing piece for many women doing “all the right things.”
• Your intuition is your soul speaking—learn to trust it.
• Self-care rhythms (like quarterly solo retreats!) are vital, not indulgent.
• Spiritual alignment can open new pathways in both life and business.

🌿 Connect with Tara
Website: www.tarahegerty.com
Instagram: @tara.hegerty

Our retreat!
Join us on our retreat! All the details here

____

Connect with us

@the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui @stephmccnchy

The Woman Within retreat
6 days, 5 nights from 23rd August - 28th August 2025.

This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.

Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.

All details here.

Mailing list
Sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know what we are up to.

Thank you for listening, we hope you enjoyed the show. If you liked what you heard there are a number of ways you can show your support ❤️

- share with a friend
- give us a 5 star review on your podcast platform

Thank you again and see you next week xx Chloe & Steph

In this episode of the Selfish Podcast, Steph talks about her experiences in a float tank ... seriously guys you need to get on to this!

Before they dive into this, the girls catch up. Steph discusses her recent family holiday and the emotional significance of celebrating her late son Arthur's birthday, and the rituals she engaged in to honour his memory. Chloe shares her own journey of self-discovery, focusing on themes of control and the desire to embrace her feminine energy.

They also discuss their upcoming retreat - if you feel called, take a look xx

Chloe & Steph then delve into the fascinating world of float tanks (17:50), also known as sensory deprivation tanks. Steph shares her personal experience of floating, highlighting the therapeutic benefits such as relaxation, improved sleep, and stress relief.

The conversation covers the process of floating, the sensations experienced during the session, and the overall impact on mental and physical well-being. They also discuss practical considerations for first-time floaters, including what to expect and how to prepare for the experience. And of course they will cover what Steph was wearing... spoiler alert not much!

____

Connect with us

@the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui @stephmccnchy

The Woman Within retreat
6 days, 5 nights from 23rd August - 28th August 2025.

This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.

Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.

All details here.

Mailing list
Sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know what we are up to.

Thank you for listening, we hope you enjoyed the show. If you liked what you heard there are a number of ways you can show your support ❤️

- share with a friend
- give us a 5 star review on your podcast platform

Thank you again and see you next week xx Chloe & Steph

In this episode of The Selfish Podcast, Chloe and Steph reflect on their past intentions and introduce a new concept called the 'anti-resolution.' This approach focuses on letting go of habits and practices that drain energy rather than adding more to their lives. Before diving into this, they delve into the astrological significance of the current full moon (14 March) and lunar eclipse, discussing how these cosmic events can influence personal growth and self-reflection.

Anti-resolution

Chloe discusses conducting an energy audit to identify what is currently draining their energy and how to create space for new, more aligned practices. The conversation emphasises mindfulness, self-reflection, and the importance of decluttering both physically and mentally to enhance personal growth and well-being.

They discuss the concept of anti-resolutions and the need to let go of old habits and beliefs to make room for personal growth. The conversation also touches on the significance of theme songs for the year and concludes with insights from tarot, focusing on the idea of shedding the old to embrace the new.

Links

Link to: 2024 Intentions episode

Our retreat is LIVE: All details here.

____

Connect with us

@the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui @stephmccnchy

The Woman Within retreat
6 days, 5 nights from 23rd August - 28th August 2025.

This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.

Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.

All details here.

Mailing list
Sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know what we are up to.

Thank you for listening, we hope you enjoyed the show. If you liked what you heard there are a number of ways you can show your support ❤️

- share with a friend
- give us a 5 star review on your podcast platform

Thank you again and see you next week xx Chloe & Steph

In this special bonus episode, hosts Steph, Chloe, and Janika discuss their upcoming retreat, The Woman Within, designed for women seeking self-discovery and healing.

They share their personal journeys, the retreat's purpose, and the significance of the astrological timing.

The conversation emphasises the importance of creating space for personal growth and the transformative experiences participants can expect.

With a focus on community and empowerment, we invite you to join us on this intimate journey of self-exploration and connection.

Limited spots are available to ensure an intimate experience. We invite you to join the retreat waitlist.

It’s going to be a transformative time to reconnect to the woman within.

The one who bubbles up to the surface, longing to be expressed—her dreams, her desires, her true wants.

Yet, it feels as though her voice gets buried under to-do lists, the needs of others, and the pressure of expectations.

She needs time to think, to breathe, to be, to belong. Time to rediscover herself again. And that’s where this retreat comes in.

Spaces are limited, and we want you to be the first to know and grab your spot so sign up now for exclusive access and announcements.

If this sounds like you, we will see you in the waitlist.

@janikagalloway @the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui @stephmccnchy

____

Connect with us

@the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui @stephmccnchy

The Woman Within retreat
6 days, 5 nights from 23rd August - 28th August 2025.

This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.

Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.

All details here.

Mailing list
Sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know what we are up to.

Thank you for listening, we hope you enjoyed the show. If you liked what you heard there are a number of ways you can show your support ❤️

- share with a friend
- give us a 5 star review on your podcast platform

Thank you again and see you next week xx Chloe & Steph

It's our 100th episode! Join Chloe and Steph as they shed a few tears and celebrate 100 before chatting about the retreat, and then on to the main topic of today, a deep dive into their romantic relationships.

This is follow on from their conversation with Sally Jane Douglas and they have been sitting with the idea how our relationships evolve as we grow.

They discuss the importance of being intentional in their connections, the challenges faced in long-term relationships, and the significance of shared visions for the future.

Chloe & Steph also go into the importance of communication in long-term relationships, the need for self-awareness, and the significance of being intentional about how we present ourselves and our relationships to the world.Chloe emphasises the necessity of sharing our evolving selves with loved ones to foster deeper connections and understanding.

We hope you enjoy this episode xx

____

Connect with us

@the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui @stephmccnchy

The Woman Within retreat
6 days, 5 nights from 23rd August - 28th August 2025.

This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.

Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.

All details here.

Mailing list
Sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know what we are up to.

Thank you for listening, we hope you enjoyed the show. If you liked what you heard there are a number of ways you can show your support ❤️

- share with a friend
- give us a 5 star review on your podcast platform

Thank you again and see you next week xx Chloe & Steph

This week we welcome back the fabulous Sally Jane Douglas! Sally shares her journey into relationships and intimacy. Sally shares her personal experiences of cultivating self-connection and vulnerability, and how that has laid the foundation for her current intimate relationship. The chat delves into understanding feminine and masculine energies, practical steps for building emotional and sexual intimacy, and Sally's new program "Her Renaissance" focused on these topics.

Sally also shares insights into her role as a step-parent. The episode is filled with wisdom, vulnerability, and practical advice for nurturing fulfilling relationships.

Key Points Discussed:

• The importance of self-connection, vulnerability, and embracing both feminine and masculine energies
• Practical steps for cultivating emotional and sexual intimacy in relationships
• Sally's new program "Her Renaissance" focused on feminine embodiment, intimacy, and pleasure
• The value of conscious check-ins and co-creating relationship visions with a partner
• Insights into navigating step-parenting with intention and flexibility

We hope you love this chat as much as we did.

Connect with Sally: @sallyjanedouglas

____

Connect with us

@the.selfishpodcast @chloe_cocks @conscious.consulting.cc @ninelemonsfengshui @stephmccnchy

The Woman Within retreat
6 days, 5 nights from 23rd August - 28th August 2025.

This is an invitation to journey to the woman within.

Join us for an all-inclusive retreat designed for women to reconnect with themselves, prioritise their well-being, and tap into their deeper desires and power.

All details here.

Mailing list
Sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know what we are up to.

Thank you for listening, we hope you enjoyed the show. If you liked what you heard there are a number of ways you can show your support ❤️

- share with a friend
- give us a 5 star review on your podcast platform

Thank you again and see you next week xx Chloe & Steph