Are you constantly pushing yourself to the limit, only to feel drained and overwhelmed? In this episode of Stepping into Purpose, I’m joined by Avery Thatcher, a former ER nurse turned burnout and stress management expert, to explore how small, intentional habits can help high achievers manage their energy, prevent burnout, and thrive.

Avery shares practical tools for incorporating self-care into your daily life—even if you’re always on the go. We dive into the importance of listening to your body’s signals, how to find pockets of time for self-care, and why energy management is more important than time management. If you struggle with high-functioning anxiety or the pressure to always perform, this episode is for you!

In This Episode, We Talk About:

✨ How to find small moments throughout the day to regulate your nervous system
✨ Why energy management is more effective than rigid morning routines
✨ The science behind intuition and how to trust your body’s wisdom
✨ How to break free from self-sabotage and perfectionism
✨ Simple daily habits that help prevent burnout and overwhelm

🎧 Tune in now and learn how to create sustainable self-care practices that actually fit into your busy life!

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High-Functioning Anxiety, Perfectionism, Social anxiety, nervous system regulation, overthinking , rewiring nervous system, people-pleasing, high achiever, imposter syndrome

For as long as I can remember, anxiety has been woven into my story. Growing up in the 1980s—long before emotional well-being was part of the conversation—I was a highly sensitive child overwhelmed by constant worry and a deep sense of not being enough. This pattern of high-functioning anxiety followed me into adulthood, manifesting in relentless perfectionism, burnout, and even chronic fatigue syndrome.

In this solo episode of Stepping into Purpose, I open up about my personal journey through these challenges and share the transformative tools that helped me heal. I discuss:

1. My Early Struggles with Anxiety:

   • How growing up in the 80s, without the language or understanding of emotional well-being, shaped my lifelong battle with anxiety.
   • The impact of internalizing family struggles and absorbing emotions as a highly sensitive child.

2. The Breaking Points:

   • The onset of burnout in my early 20s during my first full-time office job.
   • The grueling experience of chronic fatigue syndrome after years of overworking in the film industry.

3. Discovering the Power of Nervous System Regulation:

   • The moment I realized that true healing had to start within the body.
   • How intuitive practices—like simple, unstructured breathwork, meditation, and gentle movement—helped me shift from a state of overwhelm to one of calm and clarity.

4. Embracing Self-Worth & Authentic Living:

   • Learning that anxiety may always be part of my life, but it doesn’t have to control it.
   • The importance of nurturing myself, listening to my body’s cues, and accepting that my best is always enough.

This episode is for anyone who’s felt trapped by anxiety or burnt out by the relentless pressure to be perfect. I want you to know: You are not alone, and there are tools to help you manage, heal, and thrive.

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Tune in and discover how you can reclaim your peace and step into a life of purpose—even when anxiety feels overwhelming.

Welcome back to Stepping Into Purpose! In this episode, we’re continuing our inspiring conversation with Kristina Driscoll, host of She’s Brave with Kristina Driscoll.

In Part 1, we explored how to manage anxiety through nervous system regulation, build healthy habits, and step into purpose with courage. Today, in Part 2, we dive even deeper into navigating midlife transitions, redefining success, and the power of trusting yourself.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival mode or struggled with self-doubt, this episode is for you. Get ready for practical insights and powerful mindset shifts to help you embrace your worth and live authentically!

1️⃣ Reevaluating Success & Societal Norms✨ True fulfillment comes from impact, service, and authenticity—not just external achievements.✨ Many high-achievers feel dissatisfied because they chase external validation rather than inner alignment.✨ Anxiety isn’t just a mindset issue—it’s a nervous system issue. Instead of overthinking, working with the body (through breath, movement, and sensory cues) is key.

2️⃣ Women’s Midlife Awakening & Lifting Each Other Up✨ Many women in their 40s and 50s experience a shift, realizing they need to rediscover themselves and their purpose.✨ Supporting and uplifting other women is a powerful way to build confidence and connection.✨ Self-worth is built through safety, not pressure—true confidence grows when your nervous system feels safe.

3️⃣ The Importance of Being Present✨ Living in the past can lead to depression, and focusing too much on the future can cause anxiety.✨ Purpose and peace are found in the present moment.

If you loved this conversation, be sure to check out Part 1 for even more insights!

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Welcome back to Stepping into Purpose! Today, I’m joined by my lovely friend Kristina Driscoll, host of She’s Brave with Kristina Driscoll. Kristina has an incredible story of resilience, courage, and stepping into her purpose, and in this episode, we explore what it truly means to be brave—not by eliminating fear, but by moving forward despite it.In Part 1 of our conversation, we dive deep into managing anxiety, regulating the nervous system, and building self-trust. Kristina and I discuss simple but powerful tools for calming anxiety, the importance of curating a life that supports your well-being, and how stepping into your purpose requires courage and authenticity.✨ Top Takeaways from Part 1:1️⃣ Nervous System Regulation for Anxiety Relief:-Using affirmations like “I am safe” or Louise Hay’s teachings can help calm the nervous system and reduce anxiety.-Naming emotions—saying “I feel anxious”—can help regulate the nervous system and ease the fight-or-flight response.-Simple breathwork techniques, like sighing or lengthening the exhale, can bring the body into a more relaxed state.2️⃣ Building Healthy Habits for Managing Anxiety:-Habit-stacking (like adding meditation after yoga) makes self-care routines more sustainable.-Creating a curated life that prioritizes well-being is key to long-term nervous system regulation.3️⃣ Stepping into Purpose with Courage and Authenticity:-Stepping into your purpose takes bravery, especially for women who have spent years living by societal expectations.-Living authentically means making choices based on inner alignment rather than external validation.-Healing and nervous system regulation must come before pushing toward big goals—true growth happens when we’re in a regulated state.This is just Part 1 of our conversation—stay tuned for Part 2, where we dive even deeper into nervous system healing, anxiety relief, and embracing midlife transformation!🎧 Listen now and let us know your biggest takeaway!Connect with Kristina Driscoll:🔗 She’s Brave with Kristina Driscoll Podcast: https://shesbravepodcast.com/📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shesbravepodcast/Let’s Connect!📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lydiagillman.lovetoatee/🌎 Website:https://www.lydia-gillman.com/If you loved this episode, please leave a review and share it with someone who needs this message! 💛

Welcome to the Step Into Purpose podcast with your host, Lydia Gillman. In this special New Year’s episode, we’re diving into the transformative power of setting intentions and choosing a guiding word for the year ahead. As we leave 2024 behind and step into the blank canvas of 2025, this is your moment to reflect, release, and realign.

In this episode, I’ll share:

• The magic of starting fresh with a new year.
• My personal journey with my 2024 word, Surrender, and how it shaped my year.
• How I’ve chosen Depth as my word for 2025 and what it means for my personal growth.
• A step-by-step process to discover your own guiding word for the year.
• Journaling prompts and reflective practices to support your intention-setting journey.

Plus, I’ll share:

• A powerful visualization exercise to imagine yourself at the end of 2025.
• Why facing a little fear in your chosen word is a sign of growth.
• Practical tips to keep your word front and center all year long.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Surrender Experiment by Michael Singer (highly recommended!)
• My free mini-course: Thrive with Self-Worth – a three-part email series to help you release limiting beliefs and self-sabotaging behaviors.

Reflect and Take Action:
What did 2024 teach you about yourself? What habits, people, or mindsets will you bring into the new year—and which ones will you leave behind?

Let’s create 2025 with intention! Share your chosen word for the year with me—I'd love to hear it. Check out the list of inspiring words for ideas to get started.

• Abundance
• Balance
• Courage
• Depth
• Elevate
• Freedom
• Gratitude
• Harmony
• Intention
• Joy
• Love
• Patience
• Purpose
• Resilience
• Surrender
• Space
• Trust
• Vitality
• Wholeness
• Worthiness
• Growth
• Empowerment
• Grace
• Clarity
• Transformation
• Alignment
• Confidence

Which word speaks to you?

Thank you for joining me on this reflective and empowering journey. Here’s to a year filled with depth, growth, and alignment.

Let’s step into purpose together!

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Turning 50: Reclaiming Self Worth and Embracing Celebration

Do milestone birthdays leave you reflecting on your self-worth, the stories you carry, or even feelings of unworthiness? You’re not alone—and this episode is here to inspire you to claim your worth and step into the next chapter with confidence and self-love. 🎉✨

In this solo episode, Lydia Gillman opens up about turning 50 and the profound lessons this milestone has brought. She shares her personal journey of learning to embrace vulnerability, overcome discomfort around being celebrated, and rewrite old stories that no longer serve her.

In This Episode, We Cover:
🌟 Unworthiness & Childhood Conditioning:

• How early experiences shape our beliefs about worthiness and how to begin unraveling them.
• Why perfectionism can block creativity and joy—and how to let go of the need to always “do more.”

🌟 The Healing Power of Being Seen:

• Why receiving love and celebration from others can feel uncomfortable but is essential for growth.
• How stepping outside your comfort zone can be a catalyst for reclaiming your self-worth.

🌟 Self-Worth as the Foundation for Purpose:

• Why knowing your innate value is the key to unlocking your full potential.
• The role of daily nervous system regulation practices in building emotional resilience.

Practical Tools for Reclaiming Your Worth:
💡 Celebrate Yourself: Start small—journal about your wins, share a moment of gratitude, or treat yourself to something special.
💡 Breathwork for Self-Soothing: Try deep breathing exercises to calm your nervous system and shift anxious patterns.
💡 Rewrite Limiting Beliefs: Use affirmations like “I am worthy as I am” to challenge and replace old narratives.
💡 Mindful Presence: Carve out time for intentional reflection, whether through journaling, meditation, or simply sitting in stillness.
💡 Vulnerability Practice: Open up to trusted loved ones and allow yourself to be celebrated—it’s a gift to both you and them!

Resources Mentioned:
📚 Worthy by Jamie Kern Lima – A powerful book on overcoming self-doubt and reclaiming your value.
💡 Discover more tools for nervous system regulation and self-worth in my FREE mini-course:

Thrive with Self Worth Sign Up Here!

Let’s Connect:
➡ Instagram: @lydiagillman.lovetoatee for more inspiration and resources.
➡ Podcast Platforms: Subscribe to Stepping into Purpose on Apple Podcasts⁠, Spotify, and YouTube.
➡ Book a FREE Connection Call: Explore how Lydia can support you on your journey to self-worth and purpose: Book here.

Lydia’s reflections and tools in this episode will inspire you to celebrate the milestones in your life, embrace your innate worth, and step into the next chapter with courage and authenticity.

#selfworth #50thbirthday #nervoussystemregulation #selflovejourney #highlysensitiveperson #lifepurpose

The Stepping into Purpose podcast has been on a short hiatus, but it's coming back soon, with a new focus!

Sometimes on the road to living our life of purpose and stepping into the truest version of ourselves, there will be roadblocks.
This has certainly been the case for me, and more often than not, they've come in the form of limiting beliefs, self-sabotage, and other internal blocks.

I've been on a big healing journey and taken a deep dive into working on regulating my nervous system and rewiring neural pathways, to release these blocks which can come from unhealed trauma, stress, and unhelpful unconscious belief systems, some of which have been with us since infancy!

I believe this is the most important work of our lives, and must be done to really be able to live our full potential.

I'll be diving into interviews with practitioners of this work who will share helpful tips, as well as people who have also walked this path and can share their own experiences.

This deep inner work is my passion, and I believe when more people know about these tools and use them, the world will be a better place!

Stay tuned as we relaunch the Stepping into Purpose podcast SOON!!