I spent 21 years drinking and 900 days sober—this is the exact map to survive "The Void" of month 2 and 3.

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Stop "white knuckling" your sobriety. 30 days is just a detox; the real psychological warfare starts when the "Pink Cloud" evaporates. In this video, I break down the 12-week timeline that no one tells you about.

What you’ll learn:

The Sugar Hack: Why your ego is making you relapse (and why you need the ice cream).

The Witching Hour Defense: How to survive 5 PM to 7 PM without caving.

The Sleep Reality: Why you haven't actually slept in years (and the Magnesium Glycinate fix).

The Void: Why "peace" feels like "boredom" and how the "Sniper" kills your streak in Week 6.

I’m Megan. I used to puke into tumblers at red lights while teaching 5 AM fitness classes. I was "high functioning," which just means I hadn't been caught yet. Now, I help people build a life they don't need to escape from.

0:00 - I was puking at red lights (The Reality)

2:27 - Why you MUST eat sugar to stay sober

3:47 - The 5pm Witching Hour Bridge

4:18 - Alcohol stole your sleep. Here is the fix.

5:10 - Welcome to "The Void" (Month 2)

6:06 - The Sniper: The Day 45 Relapse Trap

7:51 - Handling the Rage Monster in Month 3

11:51 - Your Strategic 90-Day Reset

You don’t need a support group; you need a strategic overhaul.

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They told him he was a liar. He had 22 years clean, but the medical system didn't care.

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If you believe that a relapse means you have to "start over at Day One," you need to understand the neuroscience of addiction. In this episode, we expose how a routine surgery turned into a prescription trap that nearly ended a 22-year sobriety streak—and how science, not dogma, saved Bob’s life.

In this video we cover:

The Pain Clinic Trap: How the medical system creates dependency while hiding in plain sight.

Biology vs. Morality: Why Medication Assisted Treatment (MAT) stabilizes neurochemistry (dopamine) in ways willpower cannot.

The MARA Method: A breakdown of "Medication-Assisted Recovery Anonymous" and why Harm Reduction is replacing the "all or nothing" model.

Escaping the Shame Cycle: Why Bob stopped calling himself an "addict" and started focusing on safety.

This video is for anyone tired of being told their struggle is a "character defect." It’s time to stop fighting your brain and start healing it.

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Drinking a half-gallon of vodka every day while being a dad—until his liver physically rejected the poison. This is the raw medical truth about the "Coca-Cola" symptoms, the terror of DTs, and the 24-hour turnaround that saved his life.

Being a "functioning" alcoholic is a grueling full-time job. It’s a life of hiding trash bags in your car, white-knuckling 40-minute commutes, and using 3 AM "maintenance shots" just to stop the shakes. In this deep dive, Ollie reveals the exact biological moment his liver hit the "point of no return" and why pride is the deadliest hurdle to getting help.

If you are currently drinking to feel "normal" or ignoring the physical signs of liver hepatitis, this isn't a motivational speech—it's a tactical warning of what happens when the biological debt comes due.

What We Break Down:

The "Coca-Cola" Sign: The specific physical symptom ignored for weeks.

The DT Reality: What it actually feels like to experience Delirium Tremens and hospital hallucinations.

The High-Functioning Lie: How he maintained a corporate career and a family while consuming 1.75L of vodka daily.

The Ammonia Fog: Why he tried to escape the hospital during a 5-day medical blackout.

The hospital bed is only Day 1. If this story hit home, you need to understand the mental gymnastics your brain will play to lure you back to the bottle during the first 30 days. Watch our breakdown of the "Relapse Trap" next: [LINK]

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0:00 The "Functioning" Manager’s Secret Life

1:18 When the Body Says "No"

2:13 The 3 AM Shakes & Heart Palpitations

3:23 The Dangerous 40-Minute Commute

4:45 The Relapse & Betraying Family Trust

6:09 Medical Intervention: The Urgent Care Truth

7:27 "Coca-Cola" Urine & Liver Failure Signs

9:24 The Last Drive to the ER

11:17 Delirium Tremens (DTs) & Losing Reality

12:44 Strapped to a Hospital Bed

14:45 The Doctor's Final Warning

16:33 Scared Sober: The Google Search Reality

18:50 The Tactical Exit Strategy (At-Home Detox)

21:03 The "Vacation Jug" & Extreme Hiding

24:27 Quitting the Career to Save the Life

26:50 Reverse Tolerance: Why the Body Rejects Ethanol

28:58 The First 90 Days: Finding a Routine

34:09 The Mental Gymnastics of Sobriety

37:11 The "Binky" Habit: Replacing the Bottle

41:02 Rock Bottom is the Starting Line

44:14 Don’t Detox Alone: The Hospital Mandate

Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. I am a alcohol survivor sharing my story. If you need medical help, please contact a professional.

High-functioning is just a label we use to feel better about drinking every night. If you’re hiding vodka in your Lacroix or waiting for a "rock bottom" that hasn't come yet—this video is for you.

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I didn't realize alcohol was the most devastating drug in my life until I hit Day 45 of my journey and the "switch" finally flipped. Sobriety isn't just about willpower; it’s about breaking generational cycles and finally becoming the present parent your children deserve.

In this video, I’m sharing the raw, "invisible" costs of functioning as an alcoholic for 21 years and the exact ritual I used to stop the cycle for good.

In this video, we discuss:

The "High Functioning" Trap: Why your job and paid bills are actually being used as a shield to protect your addiction.

The 45-Day Switch: The specific timeline when the internal urge to drink finally disappears.

My 3-Step Nightly Ritual: How I used L-Theanine and magnesium to replace the "fancy glass" habit.

Damaging Admissions: The day I stopped puking in a tumbler on my way to work and chose my goals over my drinking friends.

Plan for Your Transformation:

Own the Fault: Realize that blaming trauma or circumstances gives them power over your future.

Replace the Ritual: Don't just quit; find a functional replacement that calms your nervous system.

Endure the "Glass" Phase: Success belongs to those who can keep doing the work without seeing the immediate result.

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If you’ve promised yourself a hundred times that you’d stop drinking, but find yourself opening a bottle by 5 PM, you aren't broken—you are fighting a chemical war with the wrong weapons.

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In this video, I hand you the exact biological and social manual I used to go from hiding vodka to over 900 days sober. We stop treating addiction like a character flaw and start using physiological tactics that actually work to rewire your dopamine reward system.

The Sugar Hack: Why trying to "get skinny" in the first 30 days guarantees relapse (and why you need to eat the ice cream instead).

The "Witching Hour" Fix: How to survive the high-stress 5 PM - 7 PM window by triggering a state change without alcohol.

The Supplement Strategy: Using L-Glutamine to kill sugar/alcohol cravings instantly and Magnesium to calm the nervous system.

The "Pink Cloud" Trap: The dangerous phase between day 30 and 60 where 90% of people relapse because they feel "fixed."

Social Scripts: Exactly what to say to friends, dates, and coworkers so you don't feel awkward holding a "prop drink."

This isn't about "trying harder." It's about surviving the biology of withdrawal so you never have to rely on willpower again.

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The most expensive thing alcohol cost me wasn't the $36,000 I wasted—it was my children's trust. After 21 years of failure, here is the brutally honest story of how I finally quit drinking, how I repaired my marriage, and why sobriety was the only way to save my life.

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IN THIS VIDEO: I didn't just have a "habit." I was paying an Ignorance Debt every single day. I viewed alcohol as a friend, but the math proves it was a liability that nearly bankrupted my life—financially and emotionally.

We are breaking down the raw truth of addiction and recovery:

The Wedding Disaster: How I couldn't sit through my own dinner because I was too hungover.

The Financial Audit: Breaking down the $36,000 cost of being a "functioning" alcoholic.

The Biological Truth: Why alcohol is a neurotoxin that shuts off your memory (hippocampus) while leaving your motor skills running.

Why you can't "luck" your way into sobriety—you have to put in the reps.

Rebuilding Trust: How to handle the shame when your kids are terrified of you.

MY STORY: For two decades, I was a tornado. I didn't have a stop button; I had a blackout button. I was the mom falling asleep at the movies and passing out by the campfire. Today, I am over 2.5 years sober, and I’m sharing the "Source Code" of how I rewired my brain so you don't have to wait 20 years to figure this out.

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The single most dangerous lie in addiction. In this video, Shane Ramer proves that "Functioning" isn't a type of alcoholic.

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Shane went from a "social drinker" with a college degree to facing multiple felonies and a prison sentence in less than 40 minutes. He wasn't homeless. He wasn't "one of those people." He was just like you.

In this interview, we break down:

The "Walgreens Paradox": Why we trust alcohol just because it’s legal (and why that’s a fatal mistake).

The "Dr. Jekyll" Effect: The biological reason your personality flips when the Prefrontal Cortex shuts off.

The Replacement Stack: Why "willpower" fails and how to use Sun, Sweat, and Service to hack your dopamine.

The Suicide Standoff: The raw, unfiltered story of Shane’s "Rock Bottom" that changed everything.

0:00 - Society's Blind Spot: The Legal Neurotoxin

0:54 - The "Ignorance Debt": Why the First Drink Lied

2:20 - The Slide: From 7th Grade to Heroin

4:51 - The High-Functioning Shame Cycle

7:52 - Rock Bottom: Waking Up in a Psych Pod

11:02 - The Turning Point: "Get Your Head Out of Your Butt"

13:10 - Consequences: The Permanent Felony

16:51 - Volume Negates Luck: Getting Hired With a Record

20:44 - The "Not That Bad" Trap (Comparison is Deadly)

24:17 - How to Earn Trust When You've Burned It

29:23 - The ROI of Sobriety: Being There for the End

34:50 - The Replacement Stack: Sun, Exercise, & Purpose

42:00 - It’s Not Addiction, It’s Trauma (EMDR)

47:31 - Year One Tactics: Building the Bunker

50:44 - Breaking the Stigma: Bad Chemistry, Not Bad People

53:14 - Daily Protocol: Winning the Morning

55:52 - Pattern Recognition: Stopping Relapse Early

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Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. I am a alcohol survivor sharing my story. If you need medical help, please contact a professional.

Is "Functioning Alcoholism" stealing your potential? Here is how to quit drinking without feeling like you are giving up your social life.

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I didn't lose my job. I didn't get a DUI. Because I was "functioning," I thought I was safe. I was wrong.

In this video, I break down the "Ignorance Debt" of alcohol—the price you pay every single day in lost energy, anxiety, and potential. I spent years thinking I was the life of the party, only to realize I was paying $600 a weekend to poison my own happiness.

In this video, I reveal:

The Financial Audit: The sickening math of what "social drinking" actually costs (hint: it was over $200 a weekend).

The Overstimulation Protocol: How to handle the "Witching Hour" and ADHD triggers without numbing out.

The Identity Shift: Why saying "I'm trying to quit" guarantees failure—and what to say instead.

0:00 - The "Fun Mom" Trap (Functioning Alcoholism)

0:35 - The Financial Audit ($600 Weekends)

1:20 - The Ego & "Ruining Events"

2:20 - The Turning Point (Waking Up Without Shame)

2:54 - Rule #1: The Overstimulation Protocol (ADHD & Anxiety)

3:45 - Rule #2: The Money Reality Check

4:26 - Rule #3: The Identity Shift ("I Don't Drink")

4:56 - Free Sobriety Survival Checklist 5:18 - The Cost of Being "Absent"

6:07 - Health Scares & Generational Trauma

7:54 - Dealing with Haters & Spiritual Warfare

9:30 - Nobody Is Coming To Save You

10:20 - How to "Ride The Wave" of Cravings

11:25 - A Warning If You Are Young

12:40 - The Truth About Alcohol & Weight Loss

13:37 - "Playing The Tape Forward"

14:40 - Finding Your Tribe

Resources:

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