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Why does something as simple as brushing teeth or getting out the door feel so hard some days?

In this episode of STEPS Together, we’re diving into the science of habits and routines — and why they matter so much for our children’s brains, nervous systems, and long-term development.

You’ll learn:

• How habits are formed in the brain (and why they reduce stress and mental overload)
• Why routines are especially protective for neurodiverse children
• The connection between executive function, regulation, and daily patterns
• Why inconsistency is usually a skills or sensory issue — not a motivation problem
• Practical ways adults can shape habits while honoring a child’s developmental needs

For children with ADHD, autism, sensory processing differences, anxiety, or executive function challenges, routines aren’t about compliance — they’re about safety, predictability, and conserving brain energy for growth.

We’ll explore how to:

• Reduce friction in daily routines
• Support regulation before expecting follow-through
• Use visual and environmental scaffolding effectively
• Build identity-based habits that strengthen confidence and independence

At STEPS for Development, we believe routines aren’t about control. They’re about capacity. They’re about helping children use less energy surviving their day and more energy for growing!

If mornings feel chaotic, transitions feel explosive, or you’re tired of wondering why something “should be simple” but isn’t — this episode will help you see habits through a developmental lens and give you practical next steps you can try right away.

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Change is hard — especially for children who thrive on predictability, routine, and a sense of control. If your child has big reactions to small changes, difficulty shifting plans, or intense feelings when things don’t go as expected, you’re not alone.

In this episode of STEPS Together, we explore flexibility as a developmental skill that grows over time with support, safety, and practice — not pressure. You’ll learn what flexibility really is, why many neurodiverse children struggle with it, and how it connects to emotional regulation, executive functioning, and resilience.

We’ll talk about:

• What flexible thinking looks like in daily life
• Why inflexibility is often linked to anxiety, lagging skills, or nervous system overload
• Simple, low-pressure ways to help children practice flexibility
• How modeling flexibility as a caregiver makes a powerful difference
• Ways to build your own flexibility so you can support your child with confidence

This episode is filled with relatable examples, practical strategies, and compassionate reframes to help you move from power struggles to partnership.

If you’ve ever wondered how to help your child handle change, manage big feelings, or become more adaptable over time, this conversation will give you a roadmap grounded in connection and development.

Remember — flexibility isn’t about compliance. It’s about building the skills to adapt, recover, and thrive.

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The start of a new year often comes with pressure—to set goals, make resolutions, and “do better.” But what if that’s not what you actually need?

In this episode, I’m sharing an honest reflection on the ups and downs of the past month, why I needed to pause, and what helped me reconnect with hope and confidence moving forward. Instead of resolutions, I’ve chosen to focus on three essential skills that support growth in real life: resilience, intention, and courage.

We’ll explore what each of these skills really means, what they look like in everyday moments—especially when you’re balancing your own needs with the needs of others—and how you can begin building them in simple, sustainable ways. Drawing on insights from Brené Brown and a nervous-system–informed perspective, this conversation is grounded, practical, and compassionate.

If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or the feeling that you should be doing more—even when you’re already doing so much—this episode is for you. You don’t need a new version of yourself to move forward. You just need the right support and a few skills to carry you through.

Join me as we take one step at a time—so you can grow your skills, support the child in your life, and move forward with confidence and hope for the future.