We’re cracking open the secret, censored, and wildly creative history of lesbian sex. We’re digging through ancient poems, forbidden medical texts, barroom gossip, queer zines, and the techniques they definitely didn’t teach in sex ed. Tracing sapphic desire from Sappho’s bedroom to modern queer culture and exposing just how inventive lesbians have always been.

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00:00 intro
01:05 Why is lesbian research scarce?
06:25 do men have higher libido
21:05 ancient greece lesbians
27:24 ancient india lesbians
29:46 medieval lesbos
37:36 is using a dildo phallocentric?
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45:42 the arabs had the right idea
48:58 the "itch"
54:04 early modern lesbos
1:02:03 lesbian nuns
1:09:41 modern lesbians
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Every corner of queer TikTok is on fire. Hot takes, call-out wars, and “LGB without the T” chaos, and suddenly the biggest culture war isn’t left vs. right, it’s inside our own community. We’re diving into the history of queer infighting, from Stonewall splits to homonormativity, moral panics, tender-queer discourse, and why assimilation vs. liberation is the eternal gay cage match.

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00:00 Intro
00:52 What is causing the divide?
07:19 Are we taking it too far?
11:50 The moral panic
16:51 Am I the problem?
23:31 The worst it's ever been
31:23 Save the children
41:44 Assimilation vs abolition
50:23 Which strategy will win?
57:38 This time is different
1:03:53 How tf do we move forward
1:13:14 What can I do today?

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You’re bi (or gay), and honestly? You’ve got no idea what to do with your hands. We got you. Sex columnist Bobby Box and bi icon Mark Erenberg join us for a crash course in gay sex 101. From flirting with men and building confidence to actually being good in bed. We’re talking imposter syndrome, gay panic, and the do’s and don’ts of bottoming… all with a wink, a giggle, and a lube bottle. Think of it as your guide to queer pleasure, power, and sweaty first kisses.

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00:00 Intro
01:11 First time with a man
10:42 Realizing you like men
16:07 Imposter syndrome for bi men
21:59 How do Gay men feel about bi men?
25:46 Will he leave you for a woman?
30:25 Gay vs straight dating
37:36 Consent in gay men spaces
43:06 You're getting more attention now
47:47 How to hit on a guy
56:24 Hard skills
1:00:08 Bottoming
1:07:40 What is side?
1:12:29 How about group sex?
1:15:00 Giving great BJ's
1:18:26 What if it's too big?
1:21:36 First time prep
1:25:41 Sexy smut

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Pansexuality: it’s not just bisexuality with extra glitter. We’re tracing its wild origins from the BDSM underground to the free love 70s to the nonbinary explosion of the 2010s, because this label has range. We’re unpacking the bi vs. pan debate, the pan pride flag’s secret meanings, and why pansexuality has always been the sexy rebel of the LGBTQ+ alphabet.

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00:00 Intro
01:34 Bi or pan?
10:26 Pan is the umbrella
14:55 What is a lesbian?
19:55 What does attraction look like for pansexuals?
24:02 History of pansexuality
31:38 Early examples of pansexuality
35:45 The kinky history
39:41 The evolution of pan
48:55 Sexuality is not fluid?
56:08 Pan challenges
01:05:37 Is pansexuality inherently political?

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Do all lesbians think the same? We’re digging into the big three stereotypes. Emotional intensity, U-Hauling, and lesbian bed death, to see if Sapphics really do relationships differently. We’re breaking down where these tropes come from, what’s rooted in history, and what’s just straight-up lesbophobic myth. Joined by hopeless romantic & poet lesbian play boy poetry, we’re asking: are lesbians too intense, too fast, and too sexless, or just misunderstood?

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00:00 Intro
01:28 Are we more intense?
07:11 It's the hormones
17:20 Good or toxic?
28:35 U-hauling
44:18 Lesbian bed death
01:02:50 Frequency is the key

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Sexuality isn’t static, it’s a shuffle. Sometimes you’re feeling super gay, sometimes a little straight, sometimes both at once, and that ebb and flow is what we’re calling the Bi-Cycle. We’re breaking down why attraction shifts over time, the label confusion that comes with it, and how to navigate relationships when your desires don’t sit still.

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00:00 intro
01:19 What is the bi-cycle?
01:50 First time experiencing it
09:38 Why does the cycle happen?
17:04 Are you confused?
25:03 Can you choose it?
31:12 Navigating it in relationships
39:30 Bi-cycle while monogamous
45:09 Are you missing out?
48:30 What's the hardest part?
01:02:38 Explain yourself

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Is sleeping with your friends a queer love language or just lesbian chaos theory? We’re spilling on crushes, cuddle hookups, and why queers can’t stop blurring the friendship line. With Zhané and Syd, we talk jealousy, intimacy, ENM vs monogamy, and every messy “oops, I made out with my bestie” scenario. Gay disasters, incoming.

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00:00 intro
01:44 Have you hooked up with friends?
09:20 Pros and cons of hooking up
25:39 What about the friendship?
40:10 Is it inevitable?
49:15 Making the first move
57:56 Intoxicated consent
01:04:18 Keeping a platonic vibe after
01:10:38 How to avoid problems
01:16:52 Role playing scenarios

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CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains mentions of SA. Please take care of yourself while listening, and feel free to skip to the next episode if it’s not the right time for you.

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Femininity: feared, fetishized, and slapped with a “no fems” dating bio. We’re pulling femmephobia apart with Ms. Myles and Danielle. From its colonial, patriarchal origin story to the high school boys who think they have to one-up each other in a contest to sound the most heterosexual.

00:00 Intro
02:25 Define femmephobia
05:28 How does society treat femmes?
15:06 Being a trans femme is something else
23:32 Origins of femmephobia
31:09 The misogyny mask
43:11 No femmes allowed
48:37 Unwavering queerness
53:23 Do you wanna be a boy?
58:15 Protect the dolls

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