We’re cracking open the secret, censored, and wildly creative history of lesbian sex. We’re digging through ancient poems, forbidden medical texts, barroom gossip, queer zines, and the techniques they definitely didn’t teach in sex ed. Tracing sapphic desire from Sappho’s bedroom to modern queer culture and exposing just how inventive lesbians have always been.

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01:05 Why is lesbian research scarce?
06:25 do men have higher libido
21:05 ancient greece lesbians
27:24 ancient india lesbians
29:46 medieval lesbos
37:36 is using a dildo phallocentric?
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45:42 the arabs had the right idea
48:58 the "itch"
54:04 early modern lesbos
1:02:03 lesbian nuns
1:09:41 modern lesbians
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Every corner of queer TikTok is on fire. Hot takes, call-out wars, and “LGB without the T” chaos, and suddenly the biggest culture war isn’t left vs. right, it’s inside our own community. We’re diving into the history of queer infighting, from Stonewall splits to homonormativity, moral panics, tender-queer discourse, and why assimilation vs. liberation is the eternal gay cage match.

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00:00 Intro
00:52 What is causing the divide?
07:19 Are we taking it too far?
11:50 The moral panic
16:51 Am I the problem?
23:31 The worst it's ever been
31:23 Save the children
41:44 Assimilation vs abolition
50:23 Which strategy will win?
57:38 This time is different
1:03:53 How tf do we move forward
1:13:14 What can I do today?

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You’re bi (or gay), and honestly? You’ve got no idea what to do with your hands. We got you. Sex columnist Bobby Box and bi icon Mark Erenberg join us for a crash course in gay sex 101. From flirting with men and building confidence to actually being good in bed. We’re talking imposter syndrome, gay panic, and the do’s and don’ts of bottoming… all with a wink, a giggle, and a lube bottle. Think of it as your guide to queer pleasure, power, and sweaty first kisses.

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00:00 Intro
01:11 First time with a man
10:42 Realizing you like men
16:07 Imposter syndrome for bi men
21:59 How do Gay men feel about bi men?
25:46 Will he leave you for a woman?
30:25 Gay vs straight dating
37:36 Consent in gay men spaces
43:06 You're getting more attention now
47:47 How to hit on a guy
56:24 Hard skills
1:00:08 Bottoming
1:07:40 What is side?
1:12:29 How about group sex?
1:15:00 Giving great BJ's
1:18:26 What if it's too big?
1:21:36 First time prep
1:25:41 Sexy smut

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