You’re bi (or gay), and honestly? You’ve got no idea what to do with your hands. We got you. Sex columnist Bobby Box and bi icon Mark Erenberg join us for a crash course in gay sex 101. From flirting with men and building confidence to actually being good in bed. We’re talking imposter syndrome, gay panic, and the do’s and don’ts of bottoming… all with a wink, a giggle, and a lube bottle. Think of it as your guide to queer pleasure, power, and sweaty first kisses.

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00:00 Intro
01:11 First time with a man
10:42 Realizing you like men
16:07 Imposter syndrome for bi men
21:59 How do Gay men feel about bi men?
25:46 Will he leave you for a woman?
30:25 Gay vs straight dating
37:36 Consent in gay men spaces
43:06 You're getting more attention now
47:47 How to hit on a guy
56:24 Hard skills
1:00:08 Bottoming
1:07:40 What is side?
1:12:29 How about group sex?
1:15:00 Giving great BJ's
1:18:26 What if it's too big?
1:21:36 First time prep
1:25:41 Sexy smut

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