In this episode of Getting Open, Andrea Miller sits down with Dr. Justin Garcia, evolutionary biologist and Director of the Kinsey Institute, to unpack the science behind modern love, sex, and relationships. Dr. Garcia breaks down monogamy versus fidelity, why infidelity hurts more as a trust violation than a sexual act, and how dating apps, social media, and AI are reshaping desire and intimacy. This conversation explores hookup culture, long-term attraction, cheating myths, and what research actually says about building connection in today’s world.

Chapters:
00:00 Young people are more romantic than we think
02:15 Hookup culture, social media & modern intimacy
05:30 What is monogamy? Social vs sexual monogamy
10:45 Emotional vs sexual infidelity — what hurts more?
15:40 How common is cheating, really? What the data says
20:30 Is there a “cheating gene”?
26:10 Can novelty prevent infidelity in long-term relationships?
30:45 Reconnecting with exes & the danger of romantic nostalgia
35:20 How dating apps & Snapchat changed desire and access
40:15 Are dating apps empowering women — or increasing pressure?
45:55 Loneliness, being single & the changing dating landscape
50:30 Would you have sex with a robot? The shocking statistics
55:40 AI partners, chatbots & the future of intimacy
1:07:00 Hookup culture: what’s healthy, what’s harmful
1:12:45 Do hookups help people learn sexual compatibility?
1:24:10 Why sex often gets better over time in relationships
1:29:45 What truly builds long-term intimacy and trust
1:35:30 Final thoughts on love, fidelity & modern relationships

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#evolutionarybiology #monogamy #relationships

Dr Justin Garcia, Getting Open podcast, modern relationships, monogamy vs fidelity, infidelity psychology, cheating and trust, hookup culture explained, dating apps and relationships, evolutionary psychology relationships, sex and relationships podcast, long term relationships science, intimacy and trust, modern dating culture, Kinsey Institute interview, love and attraction science

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In this episode of Getting Open, Andrea Miller sits down with Dr. Maya Shankar, cognitive scientist and host of A Slight Change of Plans, to explore how we rebuild our identities after life-altering events. From losing her dream of becoming a concert violinist to finding a new purpose through neuroscience and behavioral science, Maya shares powerful insights on resilience, emotional flexibility, and embracing change when life doesn’t go as planned.

Chapters:
00:00 – When Your Identity Is Taken Away
01:52 – Meeting Dr. Maya Shankar
04:26 – Getting Into Juilliard at Age 9
08:12 – Growing Up in High-Pressure Environments
10:39 – The Injury That Ended Everything
15:22 – “I Didn’t Know Who I Was Anymore”
21:38 – Why Achievement Can’t Be Your Identity
24:11 – Redefining Self-Worth Without Success
27:54 – What Failure Teaches You
38:02 – The Pressure to Be Exceptional
45:41 – Imposter Syndrome and Perfectionism
48:52 – Choosing Values Over Titles
55:12 – Defining Yourself by Why, Not What
59:33 – Letting Go of External Validation
01:03:06 – Advice for Anyone Feeling Lost
01:06:54 – What Maya Wishes She Knew Earlier
01:10:22 – Building a Life That Feels Meaningful

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#change #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing

Maya Shankar, cognitive science, A Slight Change of Plans, resilience, embracing change, identity loss, how to reinvent yourself, emotional healing, behavioral science, overcoming change, self discovery, growth mindset, letting go, rebuilding identity, how to start over, dealing with uncertainty, finding purpose, life after failure, change psychology, emotional resilience, self acceptance, change expert, personal growth, adaptability, life transitions, Getting Open podcast

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In this episode of Getting Open, Andrea Miller speaks with Mark Greene, author and advocate for healthy masculinity, about what it really means to be a man today. Mark breaks down how traditional masculinity harms men emotionally, why vulnerability is not weakness, and how men can reconnect with their feelings, relationships, and true selves. This conversation explores emotional literacy, healing generational patterns, and redefining strength for modern men.

Chapters:
00:00 – Why Masculinity Is Broken
01:38 – Meet Mark Greene
03:12 – How Boys Are Taught to Shut Down Emotionally
05:54 – The Damage Caused by “Be a Man”
08:42 – Why Men Are Afraid of Vulnerability
13:26 – When Masculinity Becomes a Prison
15:58 – The Cost of Being the Provider
18:11 – Why Men Struggle to Ask for Help
29:40 – What Healthy Masculinity Really Looks Like
39:52 – How Men Can Reconnect With Emotion
44:05 – Teaching Boys Emotional Intelligence
56:14 – Redefining Strength for Modern Men
01:03:10 – Why Men Fear Emotional Intimacy
01:07:02 – Loneliness, Isolation, and Modern Manhood
01:15:46 – The Role of Fathers and Male Role Models
01:28:55 – Mark’s Message to Men Who Feel Stuck
01:32:10 – Final Reflections on Being Fully Human

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#healthymasculinity #menandemotions #emotionalintelligence #mentalhealthformen

Mark Greene, Getting Open podcast, healthy masculinity, modern masculinity, men and emotions, emotional vulnerability men, redefining masculinity, men mental health podcast, masculinity and vulnerability, emotional intelligence men, breaking toxic masculinity, men healing podcast, male emotional health

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In this episode of Getting Open, Andrea Miller sits down with Alegra Kastens for an honest conversation about intuition, healing, and learning to trust yourself — especially when anxiety and OCD are part of the picture. Alegra opens up about how OCD shows up in everyday life, the difference between intuition and intrusive thoughts, and what it takes to break old emotional patterns without bypassing fear. This episode explores self-trust, mental health, and finding alignment even when your mind feels loud.

Chapters:
00:00 – Why Your Intuition Is Trying to Get Your Attention
01:41 – Meet Alegra Kastens
03:14 – Learning to Trust Yourself Again
06:48 – What Happens When You Ignore Intuition
09:32 – Emotional Patterns We Repeat Unconsciously
11:26 – Breaking Old Cycles for Good
13:58 – The Body Knows Before the Mind
15:02 – The Moment Everything Shifted
17:41 – Why Healing Isn’t Linear
19:12 – Living With OCD and Anxiety
21:08 – How OCD Shows Up in Everyday Life
27:44 – Fear vs. Inner Guidance
31:07 – Why Stillness Brings Clarity
34:20 – Letting Go of Control
38:52 – Releasing Old Versions of Yourself
42:10 – Trusting the Unknown Path
49:58 – Growth Requires Radical Honesty
53:10 – When Life Finally Feels Aligned
59:42 – Advice for Anyone Feeling Stuck
01:03:15 – Final Reflections on Trust & Growth

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#intuition #personalgrowth ##ocd #alignment

Alegra Kastens, Getting Open podcast, intuition and healing, trusting your intuition, emotional growth podcast, personal alignment, breaking emotional patterns, self awareness, healing journey, listening to your body, inner wisdom, personal development podcast, ocd, ocd alegra kastens, alegra kastens ocd, ocd tips, ocd signs, living with ocd

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In this episode of Getting Open, Andrea Miller sits down with actress and singer Linda Purl for a deeply honest conversation about love, self-worth, aging, reinvention, and choosing yourself later in life. Linda shares lessons from decades in Hollywood, navigating relationships, finding creative fulfillment, and embracing confidence at every stage.

Chapters:
01:42 – Meet Linda Purl
03:55 – Growing up in the spotlight
08:47 – Searching for validation outside yourself
11:22 – Why women are conditioned to shrink
13:54 – Relationships as mirrors
15:36 – Aging, beauty & freedom
20:10 – Choosing yourself without guilt
27:44 – Reinventing your life at any age
31:12 – Confidence earned through experience
34:58 – Creativity as survival
38:21 – Staying curious instead of fearful
42:17 – Love later in life
45:36 – The importance of self-expression
48:54 – Lessons Hollywood didn’t teach
59:40 – It’s never too late to begin again
01:06:28 – Advice for women at any stage
01:09:12 – Living unapologetically

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#reinventyourself #agingwithconfidence #selfworth

Linda Purl, Getting Open podcast, aging and confidence, women reinventing life, self worth for women, love later in life, Hollywood actress interview, personal growth podcast, confidence at any age, creativity and fulfillment, women and aging, choosing yourself, authentic living

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In this episode of Getting Open, Andrea Miller speaks with Gellyahnah Aakhen, spiritual teacher and healer, about ancestral wisdom, embodiment, soul contracts, karma, and more. Gellyahnah shares how reconnecting with the body, lineage, and intuition can heal trauma, dissolve shame, and help people live in deeper alignment. This conversation explores sacred rage, self-trust, nervous system healing, and what it means to return home to yourself.

Chapters:
01:34 – Meet Gellyahnah Aakhen: Spiritual Teacher & Healer
03:18 – The Body Remembers What the Mind Forgets
06:42 – Intuition Is Biological, Not Mystical
09:55 – How Disconnection Creates Trauma
13:21 – Sacred Rage and Why It’s Necessary
17:04 – How Shame Lives in the Nervous System
22:36 – Ancestral Trauma & Lineage Healing
30:32 – Why Slowing Down Is a Radical Act
33:15 – Listening to the Body’s Signals
44:18 – Feminine Power, Boundaries & Self-Trust
48:39 – Embodiment as Liberation
52:06 – What It Means to Come Home to Yourself
01:06:08 – Grief, Anger & Emotional Alchemy
01:16:41 – What Alignment Actually Feels Like
01:20:05 – Embodiment Practices for Daily Life
01:23:47 – When Healing Gets Messy
01:29:44 – What Gellyahnah Hopes You Remember

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#embodiment #somatichealing #femininewisdom #nervoussystemhealing #intuition

Gellyahnah Aakhen, embodiment healing, feminine wisdom, ancestral trauma healing, nervous system regulation, intuition and the body, somatic healing, spiritual healing podcast, feminine power, trauma stored in the body, embodiment practices, self trust, emotional healing, Getting Open podcast, lineage healing, sacred rage, intuition development, soul contracts, karma healing, spiritual teacher

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In this vulnerable conversation, former Maroon 5 founding drummer Ryan Dusick opens up about fame, addiction, rebuilding his life, and becoming a therapist after losing everything. He and Andrea talk about purpose, identity collapse, mental health, recovery, and what it means to start over at rock bottom. Ryan shares what being in the biggest band in the world taught him — and what life after fame has given him.

Chapters:
00:00 – The untold pain behind Maroon 5’s early success
03:42 – Growing up with Adam Levine & forming Maroon 5 at 13
05:42 – Losing the band & losing himself
06:30 – What rock bottom actually looked like
11:02 – Treatment choices — what helped & what didn’t
18:54 – Believing he was a “sophisticated drinker”
19:55 – The breakdown that forced change
21:06 – The Big Book reading & a near panic attack
28:11 – Curiosity + compassion = relationship superpowers
29:03 – Hard conversations are easier without an agenda
31:14 – Checking in with your inner “parts”
33:20 – Ryan’s book Harder to Breathe & podcast
40:00 – Lessons from addiction that apply to EVERY relationship
50:00 – Learning to sit with discomfort
01:00:00 – Rediscovering identity after losing a dream
01:10:00 – Why “fixing” people never works
01:19:10 – Adam Levine’s ADHD quirks that drove Ryan nuts
01:29:25 – Parenting, partnership & showing up wisely
01:31:14 – Understanding the “manager” part of yourself
01:33:20 – Where to find Ryan’s work

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#maroon5 #mentalhealthjourney #addictionrecovery #fame

Ryan Dusick, Maroon 5 original drummer, Maroon 5 interview, Ryan Dusick therapist, addiction recovery, starting over at 40, fame and mental health, rock bottom story, identity loss, creative burnout, Leaving Maroon 5, personal transformation, mental health journey, Getting Open podcast, Andrea Miller interview, rebuilding your life, overcoming breakdown, Maroon 5, Kara's Flowers, Adam Levine

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In this deeply moving episode, end-of-life doula and bestselling author Diane Button shares what sitting at hundreds of bedsides has taught her about meaning, love, regret, and how to live fully right now. She and Andrea explore the real emotional landscape of dying — what people wish they’d done differently, what truly matters in the end, how to navigate grief, and how to support loved ones with presence instead of fear. This conversation is grounded, hopeful, and life-affirming.

Chapters:
00:00 – Why Talking About Death Matters
01:22 – Meet Diane Button: End-of-Life Doula & Author
05:47 – The Biggest Regret People Have Before Dying
12:40 – No One Talks About Their Achievements
14:58 – How to Be Present With Someone Who’s Dying
17:12 – You Can’t Fix Grief — Only Witness It
20:39 – What to Say (and NOT Say) in Final Moments
23:15 – Diane’s Path to Becoming an End-of-Life Doula
31:47 – How to Emotionally Prepare for Loss
34:10 – A Peaceful Death Begins With a Meaningful Life
42:11 – What Grief Actually Looks Like
44:29 – The Mystery, Beauty & Humanity of Final Hours
56:41 – What Matters Most: Love, Forgiveness & Presence
58:55 – Diane’s Advice for Living a Regret-Free Life

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#endoflifedoula #griefsupport #endoflife #doula

Diane Button, end-of-life doula, death doula, lessons from the dying, grief support, meaning of life, dying regrets, how to live fully, preparing for death, emotional healing, life purpose, hospice stories, grief and loss, Getting Open podcast, end of life conversations, peaceful death, legacy and meaning

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