Have you ever felt unloved—even when surrounded by people who care for you? In this episode of Now I Get It, I unpack the paradox of “dying of thirst in an ocean of love.” Just like seawater can’t quench your thirst, love that isn’t recognized or understood can leave us feeling empty, no matter how much is actually there.

Through a metaphor-rich exploration, I walk you through four key questions we unconsciously ask when processing love—Is it? What is it? What is it worth? What does it mean? By looking at these questions and how different orientations shape the ways we give and receive affection, you’ll discover why love languages go unnoticed and how to become more attuned to the forms of love flowing around you.

In this episode, you will learn:

• (00:30) Why being surrounded by love doesn’t matter if you can’t recognize how it’s expressed
• (02:10) The four questions that shape how we notice, value, and interpret love
• (03:15) How sensory experiences and traditions can be overlooked as love languages
• (05:00) Why some people show love through acts of service while others prefer shared ideas
• (06:45) How focusing on feelings, values, and unity reveals hidden expressions of care
• (08:30) Why surprises, symbols, and shared visions of the future are powerful ways to give and receive love

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When it comes to business, measurement is everything—or at least, that’s what we like to believe. In this episode of Now I Get It, I dive into the hidden traps of relying on metrics as tools for rewards or punishments and how doing so destroys their actual value. I also unpack how numbers get gamed, why this leaves businesses flying blind, and what the latest economic data reveals about our collective blind spots.

But the conversation doesn’t stop there. We explore the Heisenberg effect and how the very act of measurement changes the thing being measured—sometimes in subtle but important ways. And to ground this in real-world decision-making, I connect it all back to probability and betting, showing how the logic of a wager can help us sharpen our understanding of risk and make smarter, more informed choices in business and life.

In this episode, you will learn:

• (00:22) Why using metrics as rewards or punishments destroys their value
• (01:10) How the jobs report reveals deeper problems in measurement
• (01:49) What the Heisenberg principle teaches us about observation and change
• (02:47) The difference between interaction that alters a system and interaction that doesn’t
• (04:15) How probability reflects the information we already have, not the future
• (05:00) Why betting is the clearest metaphor for making decisions under uncertainty

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When people say, “That’s not what I voted for,” it reveals a common misunderstanding about how representative democracy actually functions. In this episode of Now I Get It, I share personal stories—from my early attempts to call my representative, to watching my own business collapse under the weight of trade games—that reveal just how little control voters truly have once the ballots are cast. Campaign promises may sound like contracts, but legally, politically, and practically, they aren’t.

I also explore fascinating historical examples, including the abolition of the transatlantic slave trade, to show how insider maneuvering and hidden strategies—not public will—often drive political change. From the “just enough votes” tactic to the way parties protect their own careers, we’ll unpack the uncomfortable truth: you’re not voting for policies or people, you’re voting for the machine that runs the show.

In this episode, you will learn:

• (00:55) Why campaign promises aren’t binding contracts—and the legal loophole that protects politicians.
• (02:46) How my own business was derailed by political games around China trade.
• (05:15) The little-known legislative trick that helped bring down the transatlantic slave trade.
• (07:30) How “Trojan horse” bills sneak through unnoticed, even by lawmakers themselves.
• (08:45) The political charade of “just enough votes” and how it deceives voters.
• (09:40) Why you’re really voting for parties, not people or policies—and what that means for democracy.

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This week on Now I Get It, I dive into the real reason conspiracy theories—like those around Jeffrey Epstein—are taking hold of the public imagination. Spoiler: It’s not just wild speculation. I walk you through how trust in our legal, political, and economic systems has eroded, why this distrust is historically grounded, and how the foundations of American democracy are being tested in real time.

We’ll explore how two competing visions of democracy—Greek versus Roman, Boston versus Charleston—have shaped the U.S., how corporate consolidation and “friction by design” have fueled economic inequality, and why even the noblest systems, like the Quaker-driven ethic of transparency, are breaking down. If you've ever felt that the system is rigged, this episode offers you the historical and economic context to understand why.

In this episode, you will learn:

• (00:50) – Why the Epstein case taps into real public fear about justice, power, and protection for the elite
• (02:40) – How Boston and Charleston represent two opposing visions of democracy that still divide America
• (06:00) – What the Quakers got right about business—and how their transparency ethic shaped early capitalism
• (08:45) – How index funds and diversification quietly created monopolies and crushed competition
• (10:50) – Why the educated middle class moved away from workers—and how that shift opened the door for populism
• (11:50) – The dark design behind bad customer service—and how corporations profit by making you give up
• (13:30) – The Powell Memo: a corporate lawyer’s battle plan that reshaped U.S. politics and rolled back democracy
• (17:00) – Real-life stories of healthcare inequality—and how wealth decides who lives or dies
• (18:00) – Why understanding these hidden forces is the first step to rebuilding trust and real change

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I'm Andrew Winkler, and in this episode of Now I Get It, I dive into one of the most overlooked causes of low literacy: the surprising complexity behind how we learn to read. We explore why simply recognizing words isn't enough—and why relying on context clues or outdated teaching strategies can leave learners guessing. I also explain how our brains process sounds and why phonemic awareness (though often misunderstood) is key to unlocking fluent reading.

We unpack the real science behind reading—what happens when we go from sounds to syllables, and syllables to meaning—and how that process is shaped by language history, pronunciation quirks, and the hidden structure of English. I break down practical strategies to boost reading skills, including why teaching sound combinations is easier (and more powerful) than you think. Whether you're an educator, parent, or lifelong learner, this episode will shift how you think about literacy.

In this episode, you will learn:

• (00:36) – Why the “cost” of learning to read isn’t financial—it’s about effort, access, and missing skills
• (01:45) – The overlooked skill fluent readers have—and why most people don’t realize it’s a skill at all
• (03:10) – How using concrete visuals for vowel sounds can make reading easier for beginners
• (05:00) – Why your dialect might affect how you hear (and teach) vowel sounds like “ostrich” and “octopus”
• (06:03) – What diphthongs are—and how combining simple sounds builds real reading fluency
• (07:20) – How the ancient Greeks’ alphabet mistakes still shape how we understand literacy today
• (08:55) – The surprising rules behind which consonants can cluster—and how kids learn them naturally
• (11:51) – Why English spelling doesn’t match how we speak—and how to teach reading anyway
• (13:30) – How one foundational skill can help kids get years ahead in reading by the end of elementary school

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I'm Andrew Winkler, and in this episode of Now I Get It, I dive into one of the most overlooked causes of low literacy: the surprising complexity behind how we learn to read. We explore why simply recognizing words isn't enough—and why relying on context clues or outdated teaching strategies can leave learners guessing. I also explain how our brains process sounds and why phonemic awareness (though often misunderstood) is key to unlocking fluent reading.

We unpack the real science behind reading—what happens when we go from sounds to syllables, and syllables to meaning—and how that process is shaped by language history, pronunciation quirks, and the hidden structure of English. I break down practical strategies to boost reading skills, including why teaching sound combinations is easier (and more powerful) than you think. Whether you're an educator, parent, or lifelong learner, this episode will shift how you think about literacy.

In this episode, you will learn:

• (01:05) - Why the cost of learning to read isn’t just financial—it’s about time, access, and attention
• (03:50) - The original meaning of the word bead—and how language evolves through misunderstanding
• (05:45) - What “phonemic awareness” actually is—and why the term itself is misleading
• (08:30) - The difference between phonemes and allophones (and why it matters when learning to read)
• (10:40) - How simple sound combinations like p + ay = pay can build reading fluency
• (13:00) - Why English spelling feels so broken—and how phonemic skills help overcome it
• (16:30) - A full walkthrough of English consonant sounds, from lips to throat
• (22:00) - How dialects and simplification shape language—and what that means for teaching literacy today

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In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Andrew Winkler explores the psychology behind decision-making and how personality type influences whether we act quickly or hesitate. Drawing from John Cleese’s idea of the “last responsible moment,” Dr. Andy explains how people fall into two camps: those who feel pressure to decide quickly, and those who grow anxious if forced to decide too soon.

By breaking down cognitive functions—like thinking, feeling, sensing, and intuition—Dr. Andy shows how each of us has unique strengths we either turn outward or inward. These preferences not only impact how we process decisions but also how we interact with the world. This episode brings clarity to the mechanics behind Myers-Briggs types and what it means to be a "judger" or a "perceiver" at your core.

In this episode, you will learn:

• (00:30) – Why John Cleese’s “last responsible moment” is a powerful lens for understanding decision-making
• (01:10) – How personality types influence whether you feel rushed or delayed when making decisions
• (02:00) – The four core cognitive functions and how they shape how we gather and evaluate information
• (03:10) – What it means to turn your strongest mental functions inward or outward—and how it affects your interactions
• (04:30) – Why your dominant extroverted function determines your decision-making comfort zone
• (05:40) – How all of this connects to the Myers-Briggs personality model—and what it means for real-life choices

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In this episode of Now I Get It, I break down the real story behind tariffs—who actually pays them, how they affect the prices you see on store shelves, and why politicians might not be telling the full truth. Using real-world examples from manufacturing and retail, I explain the flow of goods and costs from producer to consumer, revealing why a 130% tariff isn’t just a number—it’s a seismic shift in how global trade plays out.

We also dive into the often-ignored parts of international trade: services and investment. While the media obsesses over the trade deficit in goods, I highlight why things like streaming movies, financial services, and foreign investments are critical components of our economy—and why excluding them from trade calculations paints a misleading picture. If you’ve ever wondered how tariffs impact more than just imported goods, this one’s for you.

In this episode, you will learn:

• (00:30) – Why the person writing the tariff check isn’t the one truly paying for it
• (02:00) – How elasticity of demand determines who absorbs the cost of import duties
• (03:20) – How a 50¢ product ends up costing $3—and what tariffs do to that chain
• (05:00) – Why a 130% tariff on Chinese goods can’t possibly be paid by Chinese manufacturers
• (06:45) – What the trade deficit leaves out—and why services and investments matter more than you think

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