Have you ever felt unloved—even when surrounded by people who care for you? In this episode of Now I Get It, I unpack the paradox of “dying of thirst in an ocean of love.” Just like seawater can’t quench your thirst, love that isn’t recognized or understood can leave us feeling empty, no matter how much is actually there.

Through a metaphor-rich exploration, I walk you through four key questions we unconsciously ask when processing love—Is it? What is it? What is it worth? What does it mean? By looking at these questions and how different orientations shape the ways we give and receive affection, you’ll discover why love languages go unnoticed and how to become more attuned to the forms of love flowing around you.

In this episode, you will learn:

• (00:30) Why being surrounded by love doesn’t matter if you can’t recognize how it’s expressed
• (02:10) The four questions that shape how we notice, value, and interpret love
• (03:15) How sensory experiences and traditions can be overlooked as love languages
• (05:00) Why some people show love through acts of service while others prefer shared ideas
• (06:45) How focusing on feelings, values, and unity reveals hidden expressions of care
• (08:30) Why surprises, symbols, and shared visions of the future are powerful ways to give and receive love

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