So what really changes after you get married and have kids? We sit down in our 30s to unpack it all: how our immune systems have taken a nosedive and how everything from sleep training to diaper bags became our new reality. We chat about how friendships change, why date nights feel like a distant memory, and the guilt and joy that come with planning every move around two wild toddlers. We even share why waiting to have kids in our 30s made all the difference, from emotional readiness to financial stability. If you enjoy what you hear, drop us a comment with your own parenting moment, hit subscribe so you don’t miss the next episode, and share this with a friend riding the same rollercoaster. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm.

In 1913, an etiquette magazine published a “manual for marriage” — complete with do’s and don’ts for wives and husbands. Over 100 years later, we’re reading it for the first time… and reacting in real time.

From meeting your husband at the door every day to not wearing violet ties with green socks, some of these rules are hilariously outdated, others still make sense, and a few are just plain wild.

We also dive into the Sydney Sweeney / American Eagle ad backlash, why it went viral, and what it says about outrage culture in 2025.

If you’ve ever wondered how couples were “supposed” to behave in the good old days — and why people seem to get offended by everything now — this episode is part history lesson, part comedy roast, and part culture commentary.

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What if the enemy of your marriage didn’t attack with chaos — but with convenience, silence, and distraction?

We asked ChatGPT a chilling question: “If you were the devil, how would you destroy a happy family?” The six strategies it returned weren’t extreme, they were painfully familiar.

From making a husband feel he’s never enough, to weakening a wife through comparison, to turning teammates into opponents, we break down each tactic, share how we’ve seen them show up in our own home, and talk about what it takes to protect your marriage, your family, and your peace.

If you’ve ever felt like your family is drifting or your home is under pressure, this one’s for you.

Some of the most defining moments in life don’t happen on purpose, they blindside you, break the plan, and leave you trying to make sense of what just happened. In this episode, Melo shares the story of getting randomly punched in the face by a stranger at a Cinco de Mayo event — a hit that shattered his jaw and rewired how he saw people, protection, and partnership. Nat opens up about a failed move to LA to pursue her dream, and how the version of success she was chasing ended up breaking her down. We talk about the shock of unexpected detours, the fear that creeps in when your identity takes a hit, and the surprising clarity you gain when everything falls apart. If you've ever felt like life threw you completely off course — this episode is for you.

Feeling stuck in your 20s isn’t just in your head — it’s a mix of pressure, confusion, and a bunch of lies culture feeds you about success, freedom, and who you’re supposed to be. In this episode, we’re breaking down why your 20s feel so overwhelming, what no one tells you about this decade, and how to avoid sleepwalking through some of the most important years of your life. We also talk about the trap of comparing timelines, the toxic side of hustle culture, the myth of “finding yourself” by traveling, and how bad habits in your 20s can cost you way more than you realize. If you’ve ever felt behind, lost, or lowkey panicked about turning 30 — this one’s your reality check.

Toxic people come in many forms — and they’re not always easy to recognize. Sometimes it’s the friend who only shows up when they need something. Other times, it’s the family member who crosses a line and expects you to stay quiet.

In this episode, we talk about the real signs of toxicity, how to tell the difference between someone who’s flawed vs. someone who’s manipulative, and the hard truth about letting go — even when it’s uncomfortable.

We also share personal stories of toxic dynamics we’ve experienced: from energy-draining relationships to the family member who stole from us. We’re breaking down how to protect your peace, reclaim your energy, and move forward without guilt.

This isn’t about canceling people. It’s about boundaries, self-respect, and knowing who actually deserves access to you.

Modern marriage is a lot to manage — and with kids in the mix, it can feel like total chaos. In this episode, we’re breaking down the real systems that keep our relationship (and sanity) intact: from shared calendars and clear roles to how we finally merged finances and why we think one bank account changed everything. We also talk about gift-giving, traditions, parenting routines, and the small things that help us function as a team, not just roommates raising kids. Spoiler: it’s not always pretty, but it works. If you’ve ever wondered how couples “do it all,” or just need a few ideas to make life run smoother, this one’s for you.

Marriage is on the decline, and we’re not surprised — but we are concerned.

In this episode, we unpack why fewer men want to get married, how dating culture has changed, and what it means for the next generation (including our daughters). From hookup culture to dating apps, blurred gender roles to fear of divorce, we’re diving into the big questions no one seems to be asking.

We also share our own story: the pressures we felt, the boundaries we set, and how we knew it was time to commit.

Whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between, this one’s worth a listen.