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Nobody Asked Us

Nobody Asked Us

By: Melo & Nat
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Nobody Asked Us is the podcast where a husband (Melo) and wife (Nat) talk through life as a married couple in our 30s with two young daughters. We’re not here to give advice—but we are giving each other our two cents.Join us as we navigate this next chapter filled with shifting friendships, new goals, spiritual growth, random hobbies, and everything in between. We’re not experts—just two people trying to figure it out out loud.Some days, it feels like we’ve got it all together. Other days… you’ll catch us outside, wondering what just happened. Whether you’re a parent, a partner, or just trying to make sense of it all too—welcome. You’re in good company.

2025
Parenting & Families Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Why Marriage Feels Harder After Kids (and How We’re Surviving It)
    Jun 17 2025

    So what really changes after you get married and have kids? We sit down in our 30s to unpack it all: how our immune systems have taken a nosedive and how everything from sleep training to diaper bags became our new reality. We chat about how friendships change, why date nights feel like a distant memory, and the guilt and joy that come with planning every move around two wild toddlers. We even share why waiting to have kids in our 30s made all the difference, from emotional readiness to financial stability. If you enjoy what you hear, drop us a comment with your own parenting moment, hit subscribe so you don’t miss the next episode, and share this with a friend riding the same rollercoaster. New episodes every Sunday at 8pm.

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    48 mins
  • Marriage Rules from 1913 + Sydney Sweeney Ad Controversy
    Aug 17 2025

    In 1913, an etiquette magazine published a “manual for marriage” — complete with do’s and don’ts for wives and husbands. Over 100 years later, we’re reading it for the first time… and reacting in real time.

    From meeting your husband at the door every day to not wearing violet ties with green socks, some of these rules are hilariously outdated, others still make sense, and a few are just plain wild.

    We also dive into the Sydney Sweeney / American Eagle ad backlash, why it went viral, and what it says about outrage culture in 2025.

    If you’ve ever wondered how couples were “supposed” to behave in the good old days — and why people seem to get offended by everything now — this episode is part history lesson, part comedy roast, and part culture commentary.

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    24 mins
  • The Devil’s Playbook for Destroying Families (According to ChatGPT)
    Aug 10 2025

    What if the enemy of your marriage didn’t attack with chaos — but with convenience, silence, and distraction?

    We asked ChatGPT a chilling question: “If you were the devil, how would you destroy a happy family?” The six strategies it returned weren’t extreme, they were painfully familiar.

    From making a husband feel he’s never enough, to weakening a wife through comparison, to turning teammates into opponents, we break down each tactic, share how we’ve seen them show up in our own home, and talk about what it takes to protect your marriage, your family, and your peace.

    If you’ve ever felt like your family is drifting or your home is under pressure, this one’s for you.

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    42 mins
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