Episodes

  • PART TWO Husband Emerging from 8 years in MLC

    PART TWO Husband Emerging from 8 years in MLC
    Mar 14 2025

    Our story continues with part two as our guest shares a story he wrote for his wife, trying to explain what happened. Feeling like he was living a tug of war with his brain, he felt guilt but was completely unable to stop his secret life. He talks of being psychologically manipulated and how that's exactly what led to the end of that emotional affair. As our dear guest emerges from the tunnel he doesn't recall everything, but does recall enough to know that he hurt the woman he loved most of all. He is now more self-aware and open to where the future leads him. He has truly learned a lot and perhaps now is embracing emotional connections like never before. Light at the end of the tunnel.
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    42 mins
  • Forward Moving Spouse Finds New Love

    Forward Moving Spouse Finds New Love
    Apr 2 2025
    In this podcast episode, the host discusses the often underestimated severity of a midlife crisis (MLC), likening its symptoms to depression and identity crises. The episode features Jane, who recounts her marriage unraveling after 29 years due to her husband's affair with her best friend. Despite the betrayal and the restrictions of the COVID lockdown, which severely limited avenues for counseling and healing, Jane manages to find happiness and rebuild her life. The story highlights the psychological impacts of MLC, the repercussions of emotional upheaval, and the path to resilience and recovery.
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    41 mins
  • Navigating Betrayal and Flying Monkeys

    Navigating Betrayal and Flying Monkeys
    Apr 26 2025
    This podcast episode sheds light on the tumultuous experience of a midlife crisis, often overlooked as mere cliché. It delves into the role of 'flying monkeys,' or enablers, who support narcissistic behaviors and false narratives during personal upheavals like divorce. The host explores cognitive dissonance and why individuals may align with these destabilizing storylines. Additionally, the discussion touches on the devastating emotional impact of betrayal and how these narratives can isolate and harm true victims. With practical advice on identifying and protecting against these influences, the episode emphasizes resilience and reclaiming personal truth.
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    19 mins