• The Man You Were Meant to Be: A Path to Purpose with Dr. Robb Kelly
    Jul 21 2025

    What do you do when your life falls apart and you don’t even recognize yourself anymore?

    Dr. Robb Kelly knows that feeling—he lived it. After losing everything to addiction, including his home, his identity, and his will to keep going, Rob had to rebuild his entire life from scratch. In this brutally honest conversation, he talks about what real recovery looks like, why connection is the antidote to addiction, and how strict daily non-negotiables keep him alive today. He speaks directly to men who’ve been taught to stay silent and explains why emotional suppression is killing us. This isn’t about success stories - it’s about survival, truth, and what it really takes to come back when you’ve lost everything.

    Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel.

    More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/

    Timestamps:
    00:00 – Introduction
    01:02 – A Journey Through Mindfulness and Identity
    06:07 – The Fall from Success: Addiction, Despair, and Loss
    08:00 – Homeless but Not Hopeless: Rediscovering Meaning
    10:48 – Hard Truths from the Streets: Healing After Addiction
    12:11 – Connection as Medicine: What Recovery Really Looks Like
    13:59 – What Makes Us Happy? The Science of Purpose and Neurotransmitters
    18:07 – One Small Act: Paying Off Lunch Debts and Inspiring Others
    19:32 – Lunch Debt in San Antonio: A Movement Begins
    20:54 – Choosing a New Path: Recovery and the Road to Purpose
    22:52 – Forgiveness, Impact, and the Ripple Effect of Kindness
    24:34 – Big 'P' vs Little 'p': Rethinking the Idea of Purpose
    27:11 – Start the Day Right: Rituals That Cultivate Joy
    28:35 – Default or Design: How We Shape a Purposeful Life
    30:29 – More Than Goals: The Pursuit of Inner Happiness
    32:18 – Purpose Begins Within: Why the Inner Journey Matters
    42:26 – Masculinity in Crisis: The Search for True Purpose
    45:59 – Strength Reimagined: Trauma, Healing, and Masculinity
    46:26 – Breaking Cycles: Helping Men Heal from Childhood Pain
    49:49 – The Power of Women: Honoring Their Impact and Legacy
    51:41 – Love, Identity, and the Strength We Find in Others
    52:22 – Drawing the Line: Setting Non-Negotiables That Matter
    53:38 – The Blueprint for Fulfillment: Living by Core Principles
    55:45 – Legacy and Impact: What It Means to Live With Purpose


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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Navy SEAL Rich Diviney -The Essential Qualities of Navy SEALs: Skills vs. Attributes (5 min Microdose)
    Jul 18 2025

    In this short micro dose episode, we explore the specialized qualities required for different SEAL Team missions. Our guest, retired Navy SEAL Commander Rich Diviney, shares his fascination with the unique attributes needed for high-stakes operations like combat diving and hostage rescue—emphasizing how patience, adaptability, and mental agility are mission-critical. Listen to full episode here: https://pod.fo/e/28e08f

    Drawing from hundreds of real-world missions in Iraq and Afghanistan, Rich unpacks the true purpose behind SEAL training—not to teach specific skills, but to reveal the core attributes required to perform under extreme pressure. Whether underwater for long durations or making life-or-death decisions in seconds, SEALs succeed not just because of what they know, but because of who they are.

    Rich’s insights extend beyond the military. He shows how this same philosophy—prioritizing attributes over skills—can transform leadership and team performance in any environment.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Different SEAL missions require distinct personal qualities.

    • Training is designed to reveal these attributes, not just build skills.

    • The best teams are built on character, not credentials.

    • This mindset applies equally in business and leadership.

    Specific Missions in the SEAL Teams Require Specific Qualities
    Success in SEAL missions depends on the unique attributes of each team member—not just their technical skills. This distinction is critical for maintaining adaptability in dynamic, high-risk environments.

    Attributes Over Skills
    Each mission demands specific traits. Combat diving requires deep patience; hostage rescue calls for rapid decision-making and agility. Someone who thrives in slow, methodical tasks might falter in a high-speed crisis—but they’d excel when endurance and calm are key. Recognizing these differences is central to building the right team for the mission.

    Real-World Examples
    Rich Diviney shares a story from 2010, reflecting on his experiences in Iraq and Afghanistan. SEAL training includes grueling exercises—carrying boats, lifting logs—not because those skills are directly used in combat, but because they create pressure. The goal isn’t just physical fitness—it’s to surface traits like grit, teamwork, composure, and resilience.

    The Story of the Non-Swimmer
    Rich tells the story of a SEAL candidate who couldn’t swim. On the swim test, he jumped in, sank to the bottom, and walked across the pool. When asked what happened, he admitted he didn’t know how to swim. But the instructor didn’t dismiss him. Instead, recognizing the young man’s determination and resolve, he said, “That’s okay—we can teach you how to swim.”

    That moment illustrates a core principle: if someone has the right attributes—grit, tenacity, humility—you can teach them the technical parts. But the reverse isn’t always true.

    From Military to Business
    After retiring, Rich noticed that organizations often overvalue hard skills while struggling to define or develop the deeper qualities that drive performance. Terms like “soft skills” don’t do justice to traits like emotional control, adaptability, and drive. Focusing on attributes gives companies a more accurate view of who will thrive, grow, and lead effectively.

    Conclusion
    The highest-performing SEAL teams aren’t built on resumes. They’re built on character. That same principle holds true in every high-performance setting.


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    6 mins
  • Can AI Make Us Better Men?
    Jul 14 2025

    What does it mean to be a man in the age of AI?

    This episode dives into how artificial intelligence is reshaping masculinity, communication, and mental health, offering both opportunities and challenges in the digital age. The conversation explores how AI can support emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and personal growth - when used as a tool rather than a crutch. With thoughtful discussion on the ethical implications of AI, the crisis of masculinity, and the importance of human connection, the episode urges men to redefine strength through vulnerability, advocate for responsible tech use, and navigate this new landscape with intention and integrity.

    Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel and make better decisions.

    More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/

    Timestamps:
    00:00 – Introduction

    04:00 – Can AI Be Empathetic? Rethinking the Nature of Intelligence

    06:02 – Masculinity in the Machine Age: How AI Is Shaping Identity

    11:10 – Redefining Dialogue: What AI Means for Human Communication

    18:57 – Are We Still Connecting? AI’s Effect on Relationships

    22:56 – Masculinity in Crisis: Is Technology to Blame?

    27:41 – Walking the Line: Harnessing AI Without Losing Intuition

    33:08 – Men, Meaning, and Machines: AI in the Journey of Growth

    40:49 – Designing Tomorrow: A More Conscious Future with AI

    45:16 – Who’s Accountable? Building Ethics and Trust into AI Systems

    48:06 – AI Email Fails: Early Lessons from Our Digital Helpers

    50:33 – Why Human Connection Still Matters in a Tech-Driven World

    53:27 – Meditation, Mindfulness, and Machines: Finding the Middle Path

    59:26 – Incels, Isolation, and AI: What the Future Holds for Belonging


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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Jon's Fitness Journey: July Check in
    Jul 11 2025

    Jon's Fitness Journey - July Check-in

    In this honest conversation, Jon and Will break down what it really takes to transform, not just physically, but mentally and emotionally.

    Jon opens up about his journey over the past six months: the hard-earned muscle, the silent progress of visceral fat loss, and the surprising data from his latest DEXA scan. But this episode isn’t about hitting numbers. It’s about what those numbers reveal — and what they hide.

    Topics include:

    • Why Jon’s “heavier” now… but healthier

    • The critical difference between weight loss and fat loss

    • How body composition scans changed Jon’s approach to fitness

    • The role of discipline, identity, and emotional honesty in real transformation

    • Why fitness goals should be about freedom, not punishment


    Whether you’re trying to get lean, get healthy, or just get back in the fight — this episode is a reminder that the real journey starts when you stop chasing quick fixes… and start owning your story.

    🎧 Hit play and come walk the long road with us.


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Jon's Fitness Journey Introduction

    03:00 Challenges with Diet and Discipline

    06:01 Understanding Carbohydrate Needs

    09:03 DEXA Scan Results and Body Composition

    11:45 Visceral Fat and Health Metrics

    14:50 Understanding Visceral Fat and Health Metrics

    18:12 The Impact of Weight Loss on Sleep Quality

    21:27 Exploring Supplements and Their Effects

    25:22 The Importance of Sleep and Recovery

    26:57 Tracking Progress and Dietary Adjustments


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    29 mins
  • This Is What Authenticity Really Looks Like | Clint Bruce
    Jul 7 2025

    Former Navy SEAL, NFL player, and entrepreneur Clint Bruce opens up about the war most men never talk about—the battle to stay real in a world that rewards performance.


    From the ball field to the battlefield to the boardroom, Clint reveals how chasing an image nearly broke him, and why authenticity is the hardest - and most important—fight of all.


    Throughout this raw conversation, we explore purpose, transition, the power of curiosity, and what it really means to define your own high ground.

    Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching will get you off the hamster wheel and start making better decisions.

    More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/

    Timestamps:
    00:00 - Introduction
    02:19 - From Football MVP to Leadership Advocate
    03:24 - Grounding Practices and Personal Reflections
    04:40 - Finding and Maintaining Your High Ground
    06:36 - Navigating Life's Maps: Lessons from the Field
    12:08 - Lessons from Battlefields to Boardrooms
    15:16 - Understanding the Human Performance Systems
    17:33 - Navigating Identity and Purpose in Business
    19:12 - From High-Speed Feedback to Uncertainty
    23:33 - The Importance of Curiosity and Asking for Help
    26:54 - Embracing Hardship and Overcoming Quit Mentality
    30:19 - The Achievement Equation: Angles, Allies, and Advantages
    33:21 - Forging Camaraderie Through Suffering and Curiosity
    46:13 - Self-Awareness and Intentionality in Personal Choices
    47:21 - Intentionalism and Self-Awareness in Running
    01:33:04 - A Journey of Remembrance and Celebration
    01:38:19 - Choosing Sadness: The Power of Authenticity and Connection
    01:46:49 - Awkward Lunch and Draft Dilemmas
    01:47:16 - Overcoming Doubt: A Football Player's Journey
    01:48:05 - Closing Thoughts and Gratitude


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    1 hr and 49 mins
  • Seeking Internal Validation - No More Mr. Nice Guy with Robert Glover (5 min micro dose)
    Jul 4 2025

    Men Talking Mindfulness aims to empower men's personal and emotional growth through mindfulness. We offer engaging content and practical tools in a supportive community, guiding men toward a balanced, mindful, and fulfilling life.

    Here's the link to the full show: https://pod.fo/e/2a17ed


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    6 mins
  • Daniel Carcillo: What Psilocybin Did to My Brain After Suffering 7 Concussions
    Jun 30 2025

    What do you do when your mind is no longer your own?

    Jon and Will sit down with Daniel Carcillo - former NHL enforcer turned mental health advocate - to explore the transformative potential of psilocybin therapy. Daniel shares his deeply personal healing journey from trauma, concussions, and identity loss to clarity, mindfulness, and purpose through the use of psychedelic mushrooms. Together, they unpack the science, stigma, and spirituality behind psilocybin, the role of community in recovery, and how finding presence can unlock emotional breakthroughs. This is a vulnerable, data-informed conversation on healing, letting go, and building a future where natural medicine is accessible to all.

    Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel and start making better decisions.

    More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/


    Timestamps:
    00:00 – The Healing Power of Mushrooms
    03:08 – Journey of a Stanley Cup Champion
    06:02 – Concussions and Their Impact
    08:52 – Finding Hope in Psilocybin
    12:05 – The Wisdom of Plant Medicine
    15:00 – Letting Go of Identity

    17:48 – The Present Moment and Mindfulness
    21:05 – Building Community and Purpose
    23:54 – The Role of Breath and Nutrition
    41:13 – Detaching from Ego and Embracing Trust
    44:31 – The Experience Onward Center: A New Approach to Healing
    50:55 – Addressing Stigma Around Psychedelics
    58:24 – Understanding Dosage and Strain
    01:10:18 – Creating a Personal Relationship with Psychedelics
    01:15:58 – Expanding Access to Psilocybin Treatment


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    1 hr and 22 mins
  • The Courage to Be the Fool: Why Taking Risks Is the Best Way Forward (Mega MicroDose)
    Jun 27 2025

    Resharing an episode from YouTube Channel Leadership Sound Bites with Host Michelle Smith. (Thank you for this opportunity, Michelle!!)


    Here, we dive deep into the wisdom of Dostoevsky and discuss the trap of overthinking and the transformational power of direct experience. We explore why the world needs more compassionate “fools”—people who take risks, show up imperfectly, and lead with heart, not ego.


    Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help. Head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching and how it can help you get off the hamster wheel and start making better decisions.


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    36 mins