• #019 Dr Mark Williams: The Power of Human Connection
    Oct 9 2025

    Summary

    In this conversation, Dr. Mark Williams, a cognitive neuroscientist, discusses the critical importance of human connection for mental health and overall well-being. He emphasizes that our brains are wired for connection, and loneliness can lead to severe health issues. The discussion covers various aspects of connection, including its role in personal growth, the impact of technology, and the importance of community. Dr. Williams also addresses gender differences in connection needs and the societal roles that contribute to our well-being. The conversation concludes with practical advice on how to enhance connections in our daily lives.


    Takeaways

    • Our brains have evolved to enable us to connect, not disconnect.
    • Loneliness is a significant factor in mental health issues and can lead to early death.
    • Spending time with trusted individuals can improve cardiovascular health and mental well-being.
    • Connection is more effective than medication for many mental health issues.
    • Helping others leads to greater happiness than focusing on oneself.
    • The importance of community and social contracts in society is crucial for well-being.
    • Gender differences in connection needs are largely influenced by societal expectations, not biology.
    • Trauma can affect an individual's ability to connect with others.
    • Every role in society, no matter how small, contributes to the overall functioning of the community.
    • Practical steps to enhance connection include simply saying hello to others.

    Dr Mark Williams:

    https://www.drmarkwilliams.com/


    Creating a brain healthy world

    https://rethinkingthebrain.com/

    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Mental Health and Connection

    02:57 The Importance of Human Connection

    05:50 The Science Behind Loneliness and Health

    08:48 The Role of Connection in Mental Health

    11:43 Understanding Different Needs for Connection

    14:42 The Impact of Generational Trauma

    17:19 The Power of Helping Others

    20:28 Exploring Gender Differences in Connection

    23:17 The Evolution of Gender Roles

    29:18 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    31:48 The Decline of Physical Activity

    34:34 Gender Roles and Historical Perspectives

    38:28 Variability in Human Biology

    42:48 The Importance of Social Connection

    48:17 Practical Steps to Reconnect

    56:10 Future Endeavors and Contributions


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    59 mins
  • #018 Two Men: Personal Growth with Paul Oldham
    Sep 30 2025

    Join us in raw and honest chat about struggles and how we've over came them or are still navigating through them.


    This is the first episode of the Two Men series. All about 2 working class men who have struggles through real life to reap the benefits of hard work and grit.


    Summary


    in this episode we cover journeys of overcoming personal struggles, particularly in the realms of mental health and public speaking. We discuss the importance of facing fears head-on, the power of vulnerability in fostering connections, and the significance of mindset in achieving happiness. The dialogue emphasizes the need for self-awareness and reflection as foundational steps in personal development. Both Mark and Paul explore the concept of purpose, highlighting how sharing love and light can empower others and create meaningful change in the world.



    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Purpose and Momentum

    01:47 Overcoming Fears and Barriers

    04:37 The Journey of Public Speaking

    09:34 Building Confidence Through Experience

    14:11 The Power of Vulnerability and Connection

    19:21 Understanding Happiness and Gratitude

    23:57 The Role of Consciousness in Personal Growth

    30:15 Understanding Emotional Responses

    32:57 The Importance of Self-Awareness

    35:46 Tools for Personal Growth

    39:12 Finding Your Purpose

    50:29 Motivation and Empowerment



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    1 hr
  • #017 Kim Barrett: The Power of Mindset in Business
    Aug 24 2025

    Summary


    In this conversation, Kim Barrett shares his journey in social media marketing, discussing the challenges he faced and the mindset shifts that helped him succeed. He emphasizes the importance of NLP in personal development, the dynamics of marketing and sales, and the value of mentorship. Kim also reflects on overcoming adversity and the significance of authenticity in business. The discussion highlights practical strategies for prioritization, focus, and building a successful business from scratch, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace resilience and connection in their endeavors.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Kim Barrett and His Journey

    02:47 Overcoming Challenges in Business

    05:31 The Role of NLP in Personal Development

    08:24 Navigating Stress and Uncertainty

    11:01 The Importance of Prioritization

    14:03 Understanding Marketing and Sales Dynamics

    22:31 The Importance of Awareness in Sales

    24:36 Closing the Sale: Skills and Strategies

    26:35 Overcoming Challenges: A Personal Story

    31:54 The Role of Mentorship in Business

    34:32 Defining Goals and Staying Focused

    40:22 Starting Fresh: Building a New Business

    43:00 Promoting Yourself and Your Work


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    46 mins
  • #016 Super Mario: Overweight to Over the moon with life.
    Jul 27 2025

    Get up and go! How running can transform all aspects of your life!


    Summary

    In this episode of The Vurnal, Mark sits down with Mario Buchs ultra-runner, coach, and all-around top bloke.

    For a real, raw chat about the ripple effects of taking control of your health.

    From adjusting social circles to leveling up confidence and handling stress like a boss, Mario shares how long-distance running didn't just get him fit, it helped him become unstoppable in life.

    You’ll hear how adversity can become your training partner, and how making your bed and going for a walk might just kickstart your entire life transformation.

    Plus, Mario drops a billboard-worthy message for any man stuck in a rut and shares what truly drives his coaching philosophy.



    🕒 Chapters:

    • 00:00 - Opening reflections on weight loss struggles
    • 01:15 - Life after transformation: confidence, relationships, and new social circles
    • 03:40 -Seeking stress as training for real life
    • 05:35 - Mario’s billboard message to struggling men
    • 06:30 - Why simple habits are where real change begins
    • 08:40 - How to restart after failure (even if you've never ridden a horse)
    • 10:00 - Human beings: built to run farther than any animal
    • 13:30 - Mark's testimonial on Mario’s coaching and running advice
    • 15:20 - The passion that pours out of people who love what they do
    • 17:00 - Mario’s coaching business & who he helps (spoiler: everyone)
    • 18:15 - His podcast "The One Percenters" and the unique twist he brings
    • 19:30 - Closing thoughts & how to support the movement

    🧠 Key Takeaways:


    • Changing your health can shift every part of your life — including your friends, your mindset, and your stress tolerance.


    • You don’t need a gym or fancy gear to start — just get up, make your bed, drink water, and go for a walk.


    • Failing doesn’t mean it’s over. Falling off the horse (or the running track) is just part of the deal. Get back on.


    • Running isn’t just physical — it’s primal. Humans are designed to endure.


    • Passionate people overflow with value — let it pour.


    • Coaches aren't just for elite athletes. They're for any man ready to level up.


    LINKS:


    Mario's

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Facebook

    Website


    Mark's

    Instagram

    Facebook

    LinkedIn

    YouTube

    Brainz Magazine articles


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    59 mins
  • #015 Taylor Bradley: Connection Hub and The Power of Healing
    Jun 15 2025

    In this episode, Taylor Bradley, co-founder of Connection Hub, shares his journey of personal growth and mental health. He discusses the importance of community support for men, the healing process through vulnerability, and the significance of inner child work. The conversation also explores the role of spirituality in healing and the various modalities available for personal development. Taylor emphasizes breaking stigmas around mental health and encourages listeners to embrace their healing journeys.


    Links on instagram


    Taylor:

    https://www.instagram.com/namastay_yoga_?igsh=MW92ZGh2dnpyaGV5ag==


    Connection Hub: https://www.instagram.com/theconnectionhub?igsh=aXN4bDFycDFvOG10


    Mark Tully:

    https://www.instagram.com/personal_development_for_men?igsh=MXh6aXo1cWoxOW9jNg==





    Takeaways


    • Connection Hub was born from personal struggles with mental health.
    • Building a supportive community is essential for men's mental health.
    • Vulnerability can lead to powerful connections among men.
    • Facing fears is a crucial part of personal growth.
    • Inner child work can help release past traumas.
    • Spirituality can play a significant role in healing.
    • Healing is a journey that requires patience and understanding.
    • Everyone's healing journey is unique and personal.
    • It's important to break the stigma around mental health discussions.
    • Engaging in community activities can foster connection and support.



    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Personal Development and Connection Hub

    01:43 The Journey of Mental Health and Connection Hub

    04:53 Building Community and Support for Men

    07:37 The Importance of Vulnerability and Sharing

    10:55 Healing Through Connection and Inner Child Work

    13:48 Navigating Life's Challenges and Emotional Resilience

    16:32 The Role of Mentorship and Guidance in Healing

    19:46 Letting Go of Past Burdens and Finding Freedom

    22:26 The Power of Shared Experiences and Growth

    25:18 Conclusion and Future Aspirations

    30:10 The Healing Journey Begins

    32:29 Exploring Emotions and Energy

    35:46 Confronting Grief and Responsibility

    38:56 The Role of Energy Healing

    41:30 Finding Connection and Community

    44:40 Building Self-Esteem and Confidence

    47:23 Accessibility of Spiritual Practices

    50:10 Yoga: A Path to Healing

    54:13 Challenging Stigmas Around Spirituality

    59:02 Community Events and Connection Hub


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    1 hr
  • #14 SMART Goals: Make any challenge easy
    May 31 2025

    Summary

    In this episode, the concept of SMART goals is explained. Emphasising the importance of clarity and emotional engagement in goal setting.

    I introduce his own method for utilising both positive and negative emotions to gain motivation, drive and inspire yourself to go nail whatever you want.



    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to SMART Goals

    05:31 Understanding SMART Criteria

    10:53 Overcoming Obstacles and Embracing Emotions

    13:35 Mindset Matters: Fixed vs. Growth Mindset


    Link for free workbook:

    https://drive.google.com/file/d/1DKF7fAWcj5AbSQd8k6pZ2z0-LdEIeZnJ/view?usp=drive_link


    Print on both side + flip on long edge.






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    14 mins
  • #13 David Taggart - Finding Purpose After Service.
    Apr 21 2025

    Links

    Enroll now at:

    Commando Excellence Program

    https://www.commandoxp.com/


    Instagram

    David:

    https://www.instagram.com/davidtaggart_?igsh=MmIxNjlybWZqN2dh


    Mark:

    https://www.instagram.com/personal_development_for_men?igsh=MXh6aXo1cWoxOW9jNg==⁠


    Summary


    In this episode, David shares his journey from military service to civilian life, highlighting the challenges veterans face in finding purpose and employment.

    He discusses the importance of community support, emotional expression, and the impact of mental health issues, particularly among men. David emphasizes the need for veterans to find fulfilling careers and the role of resilience in overcoming adversity.

    He also shares his mission to help veterans succeed through training and support, aiming to create a positive impact in their lives with his new company doing exactly that.



    Takeaways


    -David's journey began at 16 when he joined the military.

    -Transitioning from military to civilian life can be challenging for veterans.

    -Finding purpose in employment is crucial for mental health.

    -Camaraderie in the military creates lifelong bonds.

    -Training in the military builds mental toughness and resilience.

    -Mental health issues, including high suicide rates, affect many veterans.

    -Community support is essential for veterans' reintegration.

    -Vulnerability and emotional expression are important for healing.

    -Modern society's changes impact men's mental health and purpose.

    -David's mission is to empower veterans to find fulfilling careers.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to David's Journey

    01:26 Transitioning from Military to Civilian Life

    03:45 The Importance of Purpose and Employment for Veterans

    07:27 Camaraderie and Bonds in the Military

    10:50 The Challenges of Identity After Service

    14:12 Mental Health and the Veteran Community

    19:23 Taking Action Against Veteran Suicide

    22:13 Building Support Networks for Veterans

    26:04 The Changing Role of Men in Society

    30:24 Finding Purpose and Living in the Present

    34:44 Navigating Post-Military Career Challenges

    39:21 Empowering Veterans Through Sales Training

    44:29 The Importance of Aligning Values in Employment

    48:24 Understanding Personal Struggles and Mental Health

    54:50 The Connection Between Mind and Body

    01:00:08 Journaling and Emotional Regulation Techniques


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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • #12 George Visger vs San Francisco 49ers - The Power of Resilience
    Mar 30 2025

    Facing Giants.

    George Visger's journey is a testament to resilience and never giving up on what's right.


    In this episode he shares his incredible journey from winning the Super Bowl with the San Francisco 49ers to facing multiple brain surgeries and 38 year long legal battle with the NFL.


    He discusses the importance of resilience, perspective, and empowerment in overcoming adversity.


    George emphasizes the lessons learned from his experiences and his mission to help others navigate their own struggles, ultimately finding purpose and fulfillment in life


    Buy his book, contact or book George here:

    https://georgevisger.com/


    Instagram:

    George:

    https://www.instagram.com/gvisger/


    Mark:

    https://www.instagram.com/personal_development_for_men/


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to George Visger's Journey

    01:05 Early Life and Aspirations

    04:46 High School Football and College Dreams

    06:32 Entering the NFL and Initial Challenges

    10:24 Health Struggles and Misdiagnosis

    14:40 Emergency Brain Surgery and Aftermath

    18:17 Life After the Super Bowl and Legal Battles

    34:11 The Fight for Workers' Compensation

    39:14 Education and Personal Growth

    44:35 Legal Battles and NFL Lawsuit

    51:33 Finding Purpose and Empowerment

    01:00:20 Short Choppy Steps to Recovery



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    1 hr and 6 mins