In this talk Gen Devi shows how our self-centered view is at the heart of our experiences of stress. She encourages us to go beyond surface-level stress triggers and explore the deeper mental habits related to grasping at the self, to see how we create the inner tension and unhappiness we experience as stress. Based on the book How to Transform Your Life by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso

What if the happiness you’ve been chasing isn’t out there—but within? Join us for an exploration of the Buddhist view on happiness, which challenges the direction of everyday life. This talk explores why the joy we seek can’t be found in material things or fleeting experiences—and how inner peace is not just a spiritual idea, but a practical path to lasting contentment. Discover how understanding your own mind can transform your relationship with the world and open the door to stable happiness—no matter what life throws your way. This is an extract of a talk by Gen Kelsang Tubchen, Resident Teacher at Vajrasattva KMC, Dumfires, Scotland.

Kadam Bridget strongly encourages us to monitor our minds throughout the day as a way to prevent negativity and unhappiness. Our inner voice can often be harsh and discouraging. In this talk, we explore the Buddhist understanding of negative self-talk, learning that such thoughts are temporary—but we increase their harmful impact by holding onto them and identifying with them. Kadam Bridget offers practical techniques to notice and release negativity at an early stage, thereby protecting our peace of mind. Book reference: How to Solve our Human Problems by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso

In this talk, Gen Khedrub guides us in understanding the power of acceptance in creating harmony in our relationships, and in cultivating happiness and peace of mind within ourselves. Together, we explore the vital difference between genuine love and clinging attachment, discovering how wisdom in our relationships allows us to accept others as they are—without the need to control them. This podcast is an extract of a talk given at KMC Boston based on the book How to Solve our Human Problems by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso

In this inspiring talk, Gen Gomlam explores the difference between love and attachment, revealing how attachment—often mistaken for love—can quietly sabotage our relationships. With warmth and clarity, she shows us that attachment isn’t our ally; it’s actually the hidden poison eroding connection and harmony. But there’s good news: Gen Gomlam introduces a simple shift in mindset that allows us to let go of attachment while deepening genuine love. This transformation feels almost magical, changing the way we see ourselves and others—and opening the door to more joyful, authentic relationships. This is an extract of a talk given at KMC Florida based on the book How to Understand the Mind by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso

In this talk Gen Demo helps us understand the difference between deluded pride and true self-confidence. This episode explores how exaggerating our qualities leads to insecurity and critical mind towards others. On the other hand true confidence gives us freedom to learn, grow, improve and feel comfortable about who we are. Learn to spot the difference and start building something real! Based on the book How to Understand the Mind by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso.

In this enjoyable podcast, Gen Chodor, Resident Teacher of KMC Canada, explains how to improve our meditative concentration. Discover the four essential steps of meditation: seeking, finding, holding, and remaining. Understand that distraction isn’t the harmless interruption we often assume but rather the primary obstacle to deeper spiritual practice. Learn how mindfulness maintains focus while alertness stands guard against wandering thoughts. Based on the book How to Understand the Mind by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso.

Discover why stress isn’t caused by external events but primarily by your internal reaction. Learn the Buddhist perspective on identifying the true source of problems – your own mind – and understand why controlling your inner world, not the outer one, is the key to lasting peace. This podcast is an extract from a talk by Gen Devi given at KMC Switzerland. It is based on the book How to Transform Your Life by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso