Episodes

  • Ask Uncut - 6 Minute Voice Notes, Horny Separations & When Is The Relationship Over?
    Jun 29 2025
    Welcome back to ask uncut where we answer your deep and burning questions! Laura is in pregnancy hell and she’s in the pregnancy insomnia stage. She’s also so sleep deprived that she’s forgetting the stories she’s told us. Vibes for the week: Britt - The Better Sister Laura -Artists Jesse Cleay and Ella Marin Keeshia - Monte Mader Flipping Tables Podcast - The Downfall Of Dogma Then we jump into your questions! SEPARATED BUT I NEED SEX - DO I GO THE APPS?! - DON’T WANT EX TO KNOWMy husband and I separated in march, we had been together 12 years and married for 7 with 2 kids under 5. It hasn’t been amicable and to be honest I think I mourned the relationship a long time before we actually separated. My question is.. I’m horny! I in no way shape or form am ready to date a man but a girl has needs. My girlfriends keep saying I should get on the apps which seems good in theory except that I live in a small city where everyone knows everyone and I know I will come across his mates on the apps who will tell him that I’m on there and then he will be even nastier than he is now. I just don’t know if I should say ‘fuck it’ and do it or is it too soon? Help IS A 6 MIN VOICE NOTE FROM A POTENTIAL DATE A RED FLAGMy friend was chatting to a guy on hinge for 2 days. They eventually exchanged numbers and after 4 days they planned to meet, but she got cold feet because he was appearing too ‘keen’. Keen as in messaging multiple times throughout the day without her responding and would do things such as react to messages to get her attention in hopes she would respond. She attempted the slow fade away, replying after 24-48 hours later. However he wasn’t getting the message and she decided to tell him she wasn’t interested in pursuing anything. As a response he sent her a 6 MINUTE voice message, attempting to convince her to give him a chance. My friend is CONSIDERING giving him a go, because she appreciates the effort he has made. (Keep in mind they haven’t met yet). I think this is an awful idea and a 6 minute voice message is a big red flag. What would you do? HOW TO KNOW IF RELATIONSHIP IS OVERHow to know when your relationship is done? My husband and I have been together for almost 11 years. We’ve been through ALOT in that time including a separation and couples counselling. We have an almost 3 year old and suffered a miscarriage 3 months ago after trying for 16 months. Long story short, everything he does lately pisses me off. He teases our son which I hate because I copped that as a kid and it made me incredibly uncomfortable and gave me low self esteem. I’ve spoken to him about it and “he’s doing it for fun and to make him less soft” but I just find it mean. There’s that and a few other things and I can’t tell whether we’re just going through a rough patch with everything that’s happened or whether I’m just done. Interested to hear your opinions. CAN I TELL MY INLAWS I DON’T WANT THEM STAYING OVER NIGHT?My in-laws currently live 1.5hrs away from us. Often when they come to visit us, they want to stay the night. We have two young children and a small unit. I find it all gets a bit overwhelming when they stay over because they have big personalities and quite different views to mine. My partner also clashes with his parents at times and it can all get quite heated. They also have a small dog who like to piss in our house on arrival They want to move even further away from us. I think they think they will just stay over at our place when they want to see their grandchildren. I’m all for day visits and catch ups but is it rude to tell them they can’t stay at our place overnight? How do you word that nicely? Should I just suck it up and let them stay over from time to time? You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! XxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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    47 mins
  • The Best Of The Pick Up - The Most Unhinged Ways You Got Broken Up With
    Jun 27 2025

    It's our weekly round up! The best of the week from our National radio show THE PICKUP.

    What's on the show:

    • Sabrina Carpenter has said she would consider 'phone-free' concerts in the future
    • What inappropriate thing did your kid say? (note for Michael: this is 2 breaks)
    • The most UNHINGED ways you've all been dumped (note for Michael: this is 2 breaks)
    • Laura Henshaw chats about how she found out she was pregnant
    • A woman has divided the internet over her 'tight-arse' kids birthday present
    • ASK UNCUT: Gabrielle has discovered that her husband is cheating on her, but is still torn on whether she should stay or go
    • The key to a long-lasting marriage has been revealed (and it's not passion)

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    51 mins
  • Why Does Desire Change & When Was The Last Time You Felt Pleasure? Uncut with Dr Jenn Gunsaullus
    Jun 26 2025

    One of the most common questions we get from our listeners is ‘where has my desire gone and how do I get it back?’ It seems to be something every one of us experiences at different stages of our lives and we still don’t seem to be talking about it all that much. Speaking of things we don’t talk about, when was the last time you self pleasured? How about your partner? Do you ask them when they masturbate? Don’t worry, we don’t either. But maybe we should!

    Joining us is the incredible Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus, aka ‘Dr. Jenn,’ a sociologist, sexologist, TEDx speaker, and ‘Vagina Warrior’. With over 20 years of experience in the field of sexual health, Dr Jenn is here to break down how we all feel about desire and pleasure for ourselves and within our relationships!

    We spoke about:

    • How our attitudes have changed when it comes to talking about sex
    • How girls and boys are socialised differently when it comes to our bodies
    • When to talk to kids about their ‘urges’
    • How our desire levels change over our lifetime and so does ‘what feels good’
    • Is porn a common problem in relationships?
    • Are you the higher desire person or lower desire person in your relationship?
    • How important is it to masturbate?
    • Practical ways that you can bring your desire back

    You can find Dr Jenn’s new book From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women

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    46 mins
  • Are female journalists to blame? Britt's an exhibitionist and Jameela Jamil won't be interviewed by women anymore.
    Jun 24 2025

    Hey Lifers!

    Britt has learnt a very good lesson about double glazed glass and not so private beaches.
    She’s gearing up to get *legally married this week and has asked Laura and Keeshia to be a part of it.
    What did you do with your wedding certificate? Are you framing and hanging it up? How about your degree?

    A survey has revealed that most people are thinking about their ex when they’re getting off. We did our own *research into this and it turns out more of you are than we expected! Have you ever said an ex’s name during sex?

    Do you think female entertainment journalists have a greater responsibility to report fairly on women in the media? Are gossipy, bitchy pieces written by women a betrayal to their own gender?

    British actress and activist Jameela Jamil announced via her Substack that she will no longer be interviewed by women. This came after a particularly critical profile in The Times, and she’s said that of the “hundreds of women” who have interviewed her over her 17-year career, only three have written about her fairly.

    We unpack whether we think female journalists are to blame, what the trade off of a profile piece is and the grey areas of standing on your morals.
    We also discuss the specific tactics that some media use to manipulate your opinion about someone. Some of them are more obvious than others.

    If you’d like to read the pieces we discuss,

    Jameela’s substack I think I'm done with being interviewed by women.

    The Times Jameela Jamil: 'I stood up for Meghan long before I met her'

    The cut - Feminism? Jameela Jamil Is Too Feminist to Be Interviewed by Women Journalists

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    51 mins
  • Ask Uncut - Second Hand Gifts, Spending Money On Games & Wedding Cold Feet
    Jun 22 2025
    Hey Lifers! Welcome back to ask uncut where we answer your deep and burning questions! We’re all sad that the post office has said that they will stop selling knick-knacks! We’re already mourning the novelty and surprise of what might be available today! Vibes:Britt - Punter’s Politics Laura -Feel Better, Live More Podcast - How To Future-Proof Your Brain: with Dr Daniel Amen Keeshia - Nonnas on Netflix Then we jump into your questions!TO WHAT EXTENT ARE WEDDING JITTERS NORMAL?Since getting engaged 7 months ago I have dreamt multiple times a week about an ex “situationship” from about 10 years ago! My fiancé and I have been together for over 6 years and lived together for 5 so getting married shouldn’t really feel that different. I love my fiancé and it hurts my heart to think of not being with him, but I also feel a little bit of a pit in my stomach when I think of the wedding which is in August. Is this just wedding nerves? I feel like I may have some commitment issues as I’ve never had a long relationship before this one. I also don’t love being the centre of attention so could this be contributing? Is this just a normal reaction before such a big commitment? I guess that’s why they joke about people getting cold feet before a wedding but I never thought that was real. Would love your opinions please x BF DOESN’T WANT TO GO DOWN ON ME BECAUSE OF OCDHi guys! I have a dilemma. I love when my partner goes down on me butttt because I am so comfortable with him I fart, poop, and pull out tampons in front of him. He has pretty much seen it all. We have been together for 4 years. He has diagnosed OCD, especially around cleanliness and because he has seen what he has seen, he doesn’t like to go down on me, even when I’ve suggested doing it as soon as we have had a shower. Is this something you think we can work on or do I have to find alternatives (toys)? Please give me your best advice. PARTNER SPENT 6K ON ROBLOX - HELPMy partner and I’ve been together 3 years and I love him more than anyone. When we first started dating he had a slight pokies issue and was completely transparent with it. Together we worked that habit out and he stopped gambling on pokies; he played poker once a week and has been fine. However, last night I went into his phone when he was asleep to see where he’s been spending money after he made a comment about being tight for money. I looked and there were 3 Roblox transactions for over $100 each from the weekend. So, today I logged into his account and went through all the transactions. I’ve worked out that since January he has spent over $6k on this stupid game, and he’s been lying about it. He said he didn’t get paid enough this week to get his savings out etc but in reality, he has been spending it on Roblox. I need advice because this is so fucking childish. I do realise it’s a deeper problem than playing games, it’s an addiction and I want to help him but how do I confront him about it? I just want what’s best for him. For context: we don’t share a bank account for these reasons. I am money savvy and a good saver and he is the absolute opposite. OPINION ON MARKETPLACE GIFTS?Can you buy someone something from Marketplace secondhand because that way you can actually afford it and you know that they’ll love it? Or can you give someone something that you have owned? For context, it’s my niece's 1st birthday coming up where we would normally spend $100–$150 on the gift. We were about to sell something that is hardly used by our 2 year old. The RRP is $260 but they sell for $200 on Marketplace. Can you do that? Or is that super tight? Then if you can do it, do you tell them it’s secondhand or just palm it off as bought? You can watch us on Youtube Find us on Instagram Join us on tiktok Or join the Facebook Discussion Group Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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    50 mins
  • The Best of the Pick Up - Laura Has Lost (Pelvic) Control
    Jun 20 2025

    It's our weekly round up! The best of the week from our National radio show THE PICKUP.

    What's on the show:

    • Using the 'Occasion Theory' to test if you're dating a Narcissist
    • Producer Grace's Cactus DIY Fail
    • Britt & Laura unpack the new Height Filter on Tinder
    • Laura has reached a new pregnancy milestone (peeing herself)
    • Britt & Ben were attacked by goats in New Zealand
    • Julia Morris chats about campaigning for a Gold Logie win this year
    • Do you do the voices when you read in your head? Britt does.

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      41 mins
    • Do It Scared! Starting and Growing a Business. Uncut with Brittney Saunders
      Jun 19 2025

      Today we’re welcoming back a guest who is one of the most impressive young female entrepreneurs in Australian business—Brittney Saunders. You might know her from YouTube, from her massive social media following, from her brand Fayt the Label, her cafés or her podcasts. She’s now also the author of a brand-new book Just Getting Started—an unfiltered look at the wild ride of building businesses from the ground up, making big mistakes and staying true to your vision.

      We’ve had the pleasure of having Britt on the podcast before (May 2023) for an episode titled Building the biz from the basement up. In that episode we spoke about:
      -being one of the OG influencers who leveraged her platform to create multiple extremely successful businesses
      -fat phobia in the fashion industry and size inclusivity being a smart business decision and
      -the businesses that Britt started before the ones that were successful!

      Today we wanted to focus on the mindset you need to have a successful business and some of the lessons she has learnt more recently as her businesses continue to grow!

      We spoke about:

      • Why Britt wrote a book and the process of becoming an author
      • The many hats that business creators wear and how to hand those jobs away
      • How Britt structures the management of her business
      • Why Brittney didn’t put her name into her business
      • The costly mistakes Britt made early on in business
      • Pushing against expectations and judgement
      • Working so closely with her partner AJ
      • Hiring decisions
      • Why money shouldn’t be the main motivator for starting a business
      • Staffing being the hardest part of running a business

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      52 mins
    • Anonymous Online Trolls, Let The Unmasking Begin!
      Jun 17 2025

      Hey Lifers!

      Laura’s baby is taking a stand/protesting to Matt disclosing her name on his podcast. If you’ve had a baby, did you and your partner agree on whether to share the name/s publicly before the baby was born?

      Britt has entered a new career - being a professional dancer! Dancing with the stars has aired and our twinkle toes tore up the dance floor! We share some BTS of Dancing with the Stars and Britt finally gets the answer to whether Osher knew that she was going to be dumped on Bach 8 years ago!

      Two stories came out over the weekend that both surrounded the unveiling of the identities of online trolls/cyber bullies. Indy Clinton has received a 64 page document from a private investigator that includes the names and details about some of her relentless trolls. A couple in Ireland have successfully sued the formally anonymous owner of ‘tattle life,’ an online gossip cesspit and had his identity released.

      So with the advancements in technology that make online anonymity harder, do you think trolls would stop and think twice if they thought there was the risk that their identity would be exposed?

      Should influencers release the identities of their online trolls if they have concrete proof that they’re the ones responsible for years worth of bullying?

      Do you think tech companies like meta or tiktok have more of a responsibility to not allow people to be anonymous?

      We discuss whether these trolls being exposed would do potentially more harm than good or whether it’s a consequence for their own behaviour. We chat about precedents, how trolling affects both Britt and Laura and whether we think these stories will shift the dial at all.

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      55 mins