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  • Ask Uncut - My Husband Cheated With My Sister. They're Still Together 4 Years On

    Ask Uncut - My Husband Cheated With My Sister. They're Still Together 4 Years On
    Apr 19 2026
    Welcome back to ask uncut where we unpack your deep and burning questions. Vibes for the week:Laura - Habitual Beauty Hydrating Sleep Mask Britt - Tell Me Lives on Disney Keeshia - Trust Me: The False Prophet on Netflix Then we jump into your questions! SEXY STALEMATEMy partner and I have been together for nearly 4 years. We’ve always had a healthy and positive sexlife. Recently he expressed that he’d love me to wear sexy lingerie for him. We picked something out together (and shared the expense of it) and it started that I’d wear it for more ‘special’ occasions. But recently he’s been more insistent that I wear it every time we’re intimate or that I surprise him with it on when he gets home (which I have done a couple of times). He often asks me to change into a particular lingerie set even when we’re just kissing etc. and he is disappointed when I don’t want to wear it. It feels performative to me and I want to be enough as I am for him without wearing something ‘sexy’ every time. I’ve told him how I feel and he said ‘it’s what turns him on’. He says he understands why I’m upset but it’s caused a stalemate in our sex life as his insistence for the lingerie has given me the ick. Am I being unreasonable? I’d like to add, I enjoy dressing up occasionally and the lingerie makes me feel sexy but I don’t want it to be the condition as to whether we have sex or not. HUSBAND CHEATED WITH MY SISTER, THEY’RE STILL TOGETHER 4 YEARS LATER I CAN’T MOVE ON5 years ago I eloped with my boyfriend, 5 months after getting married we separated due to many issues. A couple of months later, I found out he was cheating on me with my sister. My sister is younger, and has been my best friend since she was born. Our relationship fell apart, but continued to talk on a family basis to keep the peace and half of our family doesn’t know, as she keeps him and family life very separate, they are still together now, 4 years later. It has been an exhausting and difficult time for me, having a massive impact on my mental health. I was hoping eventually their little game of sneaking around would become boring and they would move on, however, that is not the case and they have now brought a house together. This has completely broken me and I don’t know what to do. I guess my question is, should I continue keeping the peace with my family and talking to her as she still keeps things separate? I don’t want to lose my family over this. Do I call a family meeting and try again on telling her how I feel even though I have tried many times, and she doesn’t care. Do I completely cut ties with her and distance myself? Which might be difficult at family events. I’m just so angry, and hurt, and don’t want to have to keep dealing with this anymore, I need to move on somehow! IS “TAKING TIME APART AND FINDING OUR WAY BACK’ EVERY REALISTIC?I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years — he’s truly my person and has made me incredibly happy. We’ve lived together for 3 of those years, but recently moved apart so he can save money while studying and living with his grandma. I’m planning on moving away from the city also for a while (and he will also be going overseas next year). We have talked about possibly separating in a few months and maybe coming back together in the future after growing individually. As we truly see a future together. For context we are both in our late twenties. But recently, over the weekend he told me he was studying, but actually went out with our mutual friends and didn’t invite me. I felt a bit hurt, especially as my birthday had just passed, but I didn’t think too deeply into it at the time. A couple of days later, he told me he kissed one of the girls that night — a mutual new friend. He said it was just a small kiss and that he regretted it straight away, but also mentioned that he thinks sleeping with other people could be “fun.” Now I just feel really confused and hurt as we have always been truthful with each other. I’m trying to figure out if this is something we can work through, or if it’s a sign that we’re no longer on the same page. And is “taking time apart and maybe finding our way back” actually realistic — or just delaying the inevitable? SHOULD THE WAITRESS HAVE TAKEN OUR FOOD?Ok this is a bit of a lighthearted one but interested to see what you think is the right way to handle this. Went out for dinner just with my 2 kids and so I was solo parenting the night (6 and 4yo) kids ate free so wasn’t passing that up, plus $6 wine One kid had to go to the toilet so that meant taking both. I left all our stuff on the table to indicate we were still there. I covered my drink with a coaster, and I covered the kids with their kids pack hoping that all this would give the impression we weren’t done. Came back and they had taken the kids food The lady was there so I just mentioned “oh we weren’t done with those” she ...
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    52 mins
  • Offcuts - Can You Publicly Say That Someone Was The Worst Sex Of Your Life?

    Offcuts - Can You Publicly Say That Someone Was The Worst Sex Of Your Life?
    Apr 17 2026

    Welcome to Offcuts, your weekly delivery of everything that caught our eye, wrapped in a light, fun package to kickstart your weekend.

    This episode is bittersweet- it’s our final one with Britt for a while before she heads overseas!

    In true Britt fashion, she’s leaving us in a whirlwind of chaos, including the minor detail of forgetting to book her own farewell dinner at one of Bondi’s busiest spots.

    We chat:

    • Britt forgets to confirm her own going away dinner!
    • Apart from the drama of MAFS, Britt has another bone to pick with the MAFS Australia Cast
    • Jo Malone ‘surprised and sad’ after being sued for $370,000 for using her name on fragrances.
    • Scientists have located a SECOND male g-spot?!
    • Gleb Savchenko slams ex Brooks Nader as ‘worst sex of my life’

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    Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne

    Produced by Keeshia Pettit

    Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley

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    38 mins
  • A Chuckle F*cker, Career Cockblocks and Mid Life Audits. Uncut with Joanne McNally

    A Chuckle F*cker, Career Cockblocks and Mid Life Audits. Uncut with Joanne McNally
    Apr 16 2026

    Today’s episode is going to have you in a belly laugh. We have had Joanne McNally on the pod before and if you listened to that episode you already know that she is one of the funniest, most chaotically brilliant people we have ever had on this show.
    In that episode, “The art of riding a lover to sleep” we spoke about what led her to comedy, being adopted, her non-existent pelvic floor and wild dating past.

    Since we last spoke, Joanne's life has changed a lot. On the career front, she's absolutely on fire. Her current tour Pinotphile has already sold across the world and she is about to make history as the first Irish female comedian to headline the 3Arena solo. She has come to the conclusion that she is, possibly, in the middle of a midlife crisis. Or as she now prefers to call it, a midlife audit.

    We chat:

    • Dating younger men and how it’s different
    • How she got the name ‘Pinotphile’
    • The fake Instagram account she shares with a friend
    • Whether men are genuinely intimidated by funny women, and the power shift that happens when someone makes you laugh
    • Deciding she wants to have a baby with her gay best friend and why she doesn't want to do it completely alone
    • Finding her biological dad on Facebook, her half brothers in Melbourne, and what their relationship looks like now
    • What it actually looks like to run a friendship and a business with Vogue William and why being professionally obligated to each other makes the friendship deeper

    You can follow Joanne on Instagram at @joannemcnally
    You can listen to My Therapist Ghosted Me
    Get tickets to Joanne's Pinotphile tour here

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    Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne

    Produced by Keeshia Pettit

    Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley

    Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx

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    58 mins
  • MAFS Danny's BTS Bombshell & Are We Using AI As Our Therapist?

    MAFS Danny's BTS Bombshell & Are We Using AI As Our Therapist?
    Apr 14 2026

    Hey Lifers!

    Britt is officially leaving on Friday and flying back to Ben after nearly four months apart. We also have an update on the plan (or lack thereof) for the rest of 2026.

    We also get into white lies in relationships; the ones partners tell each other and know the other is telling. Laura lied to Matt about the fence quote. Keeshia is apparently unaware of what a missing testie looks or feels like.

    Then we're deep in MAFS territory and this one is big. Spoilers ahead from the ‘After the Reunion’ episode! We unpack:

    • The hot mic moment. Danny's leaked audio and what it reveals about who he really is
    • The vox pop footage where Danny demands producers "bring him better women"
    • Why Bec's behaviour made more sense when you understand what Danny was saying to her off-camera
    • Whether it's possible to wear a mask for three months and what finally makes it slip
    • Why Danny never came back on After the Dinner Party once things started going south

    Are we outsourcing our relationships to AI? We polled you and 40% of lifers said yes, they've used ChatGPT for relationship advice. We get into:

    • The guy who asked a chatbot if he should be in love after 3 months before his girlfriend saw it
    • Why men turn to AI more than women for this kind of thing
    • Using AI to vent instead of fighting with your partner. Is it a healthy coping mechanism or avoidance?
    • Whether AI can be a useful tool or whether convenience is actually the trap

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    Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne

    Produced by Keeshia Pettit

    Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley

    Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx

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    56 mins
  • Ask Uncut - Flowers, Foreplay and Fertility Bills

    Ask Uncut - Flowers, Foreplay and Fertility Bills
    Apr 12 2026
    Welcome back to ask uncut where we unpack your deep and burning questions. A question came up in our Facebook Discussion Group about a partner who plays soccer 4 nights per week with a baby and a pregnant partner at home. We unpack whether the prioritisation of exercise is a common ‘issue’ in relationships and whether it’s ‘fair’. Vibes for the week: Britt - Amanda Knox Hosts | DOUBT: The Case of Lucy Letby Keeshia - Pivot podcast Laura - Love on the Spectrum Season 4 on Netflix HE LOVE BOMBED ME AND NOW I MISS THE FAKE VERSION OF HIM I’ve been in a relationship for 7 months now. It started like a movie. He texted constantly, planned elaborate dates, told me I was the one within weeks and even introduced me to his family after a month. I felt more seen than I ever had in my life. Six months in and he's a completely different person now. He’s often distant, distracted and puts in almost zero effort. I know what love bombing is and I know logically that the first version of him wasn't real. But I genuinely miss that version so much that I'm staying in the relationship hoping that one day it might get back to that phase. Do you think it’s worth sticking around and waiting for him to put more effort in and prioritise me like he used to or is this just a normal part of a relationship that turns into a long term relationship? I’ve never dated anyone for more than a few months. CAN RELATIONSHIP SURVIVE WITHOUT ROMANCE?I’ve been with my partner now for just over two years. From the start we’ve always talked about marriage and aiming for a long term relationship. We’ve recently moved in together & most aspects are going so well. We’re best friends, have great sex & share the same opinions about big life things. My question is, can a relationship survive without romance? Something I’ve always found difficult & confusing to understand is our lack of romance outside of the bedroom. We’ve had many conversations about it & still nothing has changed. My partner doesn’t buy me flowers, organise dates, plan trips away, write me letters, etc. These have always been initiated by me. It's something I recognised early on in the relationship but I ignored it and brushed it off at first, thinking it would automatically improve. But I’m now beginning to feel lonely, neglected and resentful of our relationship. My frustration is growing given I have communicated my desires many times and nothing has changed. Do you think my expectations are too high to desire these things? Given it’s my first relationship I’m struggling to understand whether I’m expecting too much IS PORN RUINING HIS DESIRE FOR ME?Married for 4 years. My husband & l have an 8 year age gap, l’m in my early 30s & he is in his late 30s. We have no kids yet, currently 5 months pregnant. My husband is a good guy in some areas however l feel we have mismatched libidos which is causing a problem in our relationship. I tend to want sex more than he does. I sometimes try to initiate sex when l feel like it, however most of the time he turns me down which leaves me feeling like shit and rejected. This tends to make things awkward as l really get into my head about it. We seem to only have sex when he feels like it. I don’t want to use a toy on my own as l get intense guilt from using a toy (I’m from a Christian background). l don’t mind when using it with him. I have tried to talk to him in the past however he says he will fix it but nothing has changed. Recently while l was helping him with something on his phone l found a private browser that was locked and in the browser he had porn websites open. I deleted the browser and didn’t ask him as l didn’t want him to feel like l was snooping around in his phone. This has been bothering me ever since, l have multiple questions in my head and l just don't have the answers to. A few days after l checked again and saw he had the porn browser open again which makes me think that he probably watches porn often. I’m going mad with all these questions in my head. Does he prefer to watch porn than having sex with me? Is he a porn addict? How do l handle this? He doesn’t take feedback well at all; he gets defensive and feels like it’s an attack. We usually have sex once every week to a fortnight. Or maybe l’m just wanting too much. I FEEL GUILTY ABOUT SPLITTING IVF COSTSAfter a few unsuccessful rounds of ovulation induction, I am going to be progressing to IVF. The fertility treatment is needed because of my PCOS. My partner and I have been together for 6 years and own a unit together. My partner earns about $15k more than me atm and is currently paying off our car but I have more in savings. I feel like it is fair for me to pay the IVF costs given it is my issue that requires it and I am in the fortunate position that I can afford to pay the whole amount. However, my mum is adamant that this should be a shared cost. My partner is extremely generous and I’m sure ...
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    1 hr and 1 min
  • Offcuts - Rage Bait and The Price Of Privacy

    Offcuts - Rage Bait and The Price Of Privacy
    Apr 10 2026

    Welcome to Offcuts where we chat about whatever piqued our interest this week in a light, fun little package to send you off on your weekend!

    We chat:

    • Laura's made headlines for her 'wild' birthday party
    • Bonnie Blue has rage baited us again
    • The price of privacy and the interior design scandal
    • Mount Everest guides allegedly ‘poisoned’ climbers as part of a $30 million scam
    • Fart blocking underwear

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    Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne

    Produced by Keeshia Pettit

    Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley

    Tell your mum, tell your dad, tell your dog, tell your friend and share the love because WE LOVE LOVE! Xx

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    43 mins
  • Guest Ask Uncut with Mitch Churi

    Guest Ask Uncut with Mitch Churi
    Apr 9 2026

    Hey lifers!

    Our guest Ask Uncut is BACK! Once a month (ish 😂) we bring in a special guest to help unpack your deep and burning questions, and this month's guest is friend of the show Mitch Churi! You know his voice, you love his chaos, and he may or may not have broken Brittany's chair during an important TV meeting, but that's a whole other story. Mitch is a comedian, actor, host, podcaster and apparently now a videographer (don't ask).

    Then we jump into your questions!

    I CAME OUT AT 31. AM I BEHIND?
    I came out at 31 and while I have zero regrets about who I am, I sometimes feel quite jealous of people who knew earlier in their life. I feel like I've missed a whole chapter and that my teens and 20s felt a bit fake, like I wasn't even myself. I also wonder if I'm taken as seriously in the queer community because I'm so new to it. My straight friends have a decade of relationship experience on me and I feel like I'm starting from scratch in my 30s. Is this a weird feeling and should I just get over it, or is it a common experience?

    CAN I FAKE A DIETARY REQUIREMENT TO AVOID MY IN-LAWS' COOKING?
    Is it okay to fake a dietary requirement to get out of a dinner situation? My partner's family does a big group dinner every few months and I genuinely dread it. The food is always aggressively bad. Everything tastes like it has ten times the amount of herbs and spices it should. I've started considering telling them I've developed a gluten intolerance so I have a built-in excuse to either bring my own food or bow out entirely. I am, in fact, not gluten intolerant. Is this really wrong, or would you do the same thing?

    MY BEST FRIEND IS TRYING TO BE AN INFLUENCER AND I WANT TO MUTE HER
    My best friend has recently started posting so much on Instagram and I think she's trying to become an influencer. It's a mix of fitness and mummy blogging content. She posts stories all day, every day, and usually at least two posts a day. She will sometimes send me posts and ask me to share or comment on them. Am I allowed to just mute her? I love her to death but I cannot take it anymore and find myself eye-rolling every time something comes up. She has around 2000 followers so surely she's not checking who's engaging... right?

    MY PARTNER LOST HIS JOB AND I DON'T RECOGNISE HIM ANYMORE
    My partner was let go from his job six months ago. He worked in tech sales and it came as quite a shock. He was always motivated, but fast forward to now and he's become a shell of the person he was before. He's tried to find a job in a similar field but has had no luck, and I feel like he's stopped looking as hard. He's sleeping in a lot and when I try to talk to him about it, he gets really defensive and shuts down. Financially we are okay because he was a good saver, but that pot is declining and I'm being expected to cover more and more. Our sex life has completely dried up and we haven't been on a date night in months. I don't recognise him anymore. What can I do to get him, and us, back on track?

    You can find Mitch on Instagram

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    48 mins
  • Laura’s Hot Take: Easter Sucks! & MAFS Final Vows Unpacked

    Laura’s Hot Take: Easter Sucks! & MAFS Final Vows Unpacked
    Apr 7 2026

    Hey Lifers!

    Easter has come and gone and Laura has a very controversial take. She thinks Easter is actually kind of a bad holiday. Britt meanwhile spent four days completely alone; not in a zen way, in a "I didn't speak to a single human for four days" way. She's shining a light on the single people we forget about at family holidays. Britt also accidentally superglued herself to her luxury sheets with press-on nail glue. More on that.

    We're deep in the final stretch of Married at First Sight and this part of the episode contains spoilers from the episode that aired last night!
    We chat:

    • Gia finally coming on After the Dinner Party after seven weeks of cancellations
    • The monkey branching, the lying, and what's really behind Gia's behaviour
    • Why this season's female-on-female bullying is especially badly timed given the manosphere moment we're in
    • The Final Vows - Is walking away before letting the other speak taking power back or just plain disrespectful?
    • Whether you can actually ‘fake’ a relationship for 3 months
    • What's coming: the reunion episode and a juicy "where are they now" bonus episode

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    Hosted by Britt Hockley & Laura Byrne

    Produced by Keeshia Pettit

    Video Produced by Vanessa Beckford & Lachy Pugsley

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    1 hr and 1 min