• Gamer Girl Cracks the Code on Relationships
    Oct 4 2025

    In this episode, we sit down with Jenny, who’s been in a loving relationship for three years and is building a future with her person. We dive into everything from sugar babies to self-love, and how knowing yourself is the real key to finding the right partner. Jenny gets real about not settling, the importance of growing with your partner, and the exciting next steps she and her girl are planning together. It’s a mix of laughs, love talk, and lessons you won’t want to miss.

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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • Chef Tavos & His Secret Sauce On Love
    Sep 17 2025

    This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You we’re joined by the incredibly talented Chef Tavos; food truck king, flavor wizard, and culinary dreamer who’s out here making magic happen with the love of his life by his side. 🌮 ❤️ He’s serving up more than just mouthwatering dishes… he’s also dishing out his secret sauce on love.

    Their food? It doesn’t just taste good, it transports you. One bite and you’re not dying… you’re being reborn again. ✨

    Tavos opens up about how he found “the one” while chasing his dream, what it’s like building a life (and a business) together, and how love fuels his hustle. We laugh, get real about relationships, and hear the honest truth behind building both a brand and a marriage from the ground up.

    Come for the shenanigans, stay for the heart. 🫶

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    1 hr and 35 mins
  • Little Brother & Lover Boy: A Born Romantics Guide On Relationships
    Aug 31 2025

    In this episode, we sit down with Ethan Moreno (Matt’s little brother) to talk about something that’s rare but beautiful... finding real love young and keeping it strong. Ethan opens up about how he met his high school sweetheart, how he knew it was love, and the little things that keep their relationship alive.

    We dive into:
    💌 What makes a relationship feel healthy and loving🌍 Navigating long distance & staying emotionally connected😂 Random debates like “hoodies” (yup, circumcision talk)🎮 Why having mutual hobbies makes love more fun

    It’s a mix of laughter, honesty, and lessons on building love that lasts.

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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Authenticity Is Sexy: Dating, The Roster & Self-Alignment
    Aug 27 2025

    This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You Podcast, we’re breaking down "the roster", what it is, why people have one and how it ties into dating. We dive into authenticity in dating, the importance of synergy, and how knowing yourself sets the tone for the kind of love you attract. Whether you’re single, cuffed, or somewhere in-between, this episode is full of real talk, laughs, and insights you don’t want to miss.

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Hardboiled & Hopeful: Single in 2025
    Aug 3 2025

    It’s giving chaos, delusion, clarity… and confidence. In this episode, your favorite sibling duo is back in the studio talking all things modern love. From dating just to smash vs actually building something real, red flag hobbies, and everything in between.

    Matt introduces us to the term hardboiled (aka confident with a side of gusto), while they both try to make sense of dating in 2025. Is the honeymoon phase real? Are grand gestures still a thing? Are people still looking for marriage, or just vibes?

    We shot from the hip and kept it all the way real, because that’s what we do. 🎯💘
    Pull up, stay delusional but hopeful, and don’t forget to follow the pod.

    New episodes every week. 🎙️💌

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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • No More Lateral Moves: Your Dominatrix Guide to Housewifing
    Jul 21 2025

    She’s not your average housewife, she’s running the house, the schedule, and the bedroom. In this episode, we sit down with a real-life freaky housewife and talk about the power dynamics of love, control, and cooking in thigh-highs. No more settling. No more playing small. It’s time to upgrade your role, from passive partner to power player. Let’s talk dominance, devotion, and domesticity… all at once.

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    1 hr and 39 mins
  • Getting Ghosted, Accountability, & Simple Communication
    Jul 13 2025

    Ghosted again? Same. In this episode, your favorite chaotic sibling duo dives into the messiness of modern communication (or lack thereof). We’re talking about ghosting, breadcrumbing, avoiding hard convos, and why “just say how you feel” seems impossible for some. We also get into accountability in dating (yes, even yours 😬), the fine line between honesty and cruelty, and the underrated power of clear, simple communication. It’s raw, it’s funny, it’s painfully relatable. Tune in and let’s unpack the BS together.

    🎧 New episodes every week! Subscribe so you don’t miss the next one.

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    39 mins
  • She Moved for Love. Now She’s Moving Different.
    Jul 7 2025

    She left Boston for love.

    The love didn’t last.

    What came after… she’s still figuring out.


    This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You, we sit down with Lena the Stitcha... a guest who says less but makes you lean in more. She moved cities, changed chapters, and while she may not have all the answers, her presence says there’s more beneath the surface.


    We talk about starting over, the quiet in-between, and what it means to date when you’re still piecing together who you’ve become.


    Not everything was said, and maybe that’s the point.

    Listen in, lean closer, and see what you pick up.


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    1 hr and 16 mins