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It's Not Me, It's You

It's Not Me, It's You

By: Vanessa Castillo and Matthew Castillo
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Love is messy. Dating is chaotic. And sometimes, it’s not you... it’s definitely them. Or is it? Join sibling duo Vanessa and Matthew Castillo (11 years apart but equally chaotic) as they dive into the wild world of relationships, fireside chat style. From ghosting and cringe-worthy situationships to long-term love and red flags we all ignore. Expect real talk, unfiltered laughs, and hard truths. Whether you’re single, cuffed, or somewhere in between, you’ll leave every episode feeling a little less alone, and a lot more entertained. Come for the laughs, stay for the relatable chaos. ♥️ 💔Vanessa Castillo and Matthew Castillo Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Gamer Girl Cracks the Code on Relationships
    Oct 4 2025

    In this episode, we sit down with Jenny, who’s been in a loving relationship for three years and is building a future with her person. We dive into everything from sugar babies to self-love, and how knowing yourself is the real key to finding the right partner. Jenny gets real about not settling, the importance of growing with your partner, and the exciting next steps she and her girl are planning together. It’s a mix of laughs, love talk, and lessons you won’t want to miss.

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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • Chef Tavos & His Secret Sauce On Love
    Sep 17 2025

    This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You we’re joined by the incredibly talented Chef Tavos; food truck king, flavor wizard, and culinary dreamer who’s out here making magic happen with the love of his life by his side. 🌮 ❤️ He’s serving up more than just mouthwatering dishes… he’s also dishing out his secret sauce on love.

    Their food? It doesn’t just taste good, it transports you. One bite and you’re not dying… you’re being reborn again. ✨

    Tavos opens up about how he found “the one” while chasing his dream, what it’s like building a life (and a business) together, and how love fuels his hustle. We laugh, get real about relationships, and hear the honest truth behind building both a brand and a marriage from the ground up.

    Come for the shenanigans, stay for the heart. 🫶

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    1 hr and 35 mins
  • Little Brother & Lover Boy: A Born Romantics Guide On Relationships
    Aug 31 2025

    In this episode, we sit down with Ethan Moreno (Matt’s little brother) to talk about something that’s rare but beautiful... finding real love young and keeping it strong. Ethan opens up about how he met his high school sweetheart, how he knew it was love, and the little things that keep their relationship alive.

    We dive into:
    💌 What makes a relationship feel healthy and loving🌍 Navigating long distance & staying emotionally connected😂 Random debates like “hoodies” (yup, circumcision talk)🎮 Why having mutual hobbies makes love more fun

    It’s a mix of laughter, honesty, and lessons on building love that lasts.

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    1 hr and 9 mins
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