• Deep Listening - Impact beyond words - Oscar Trimboli

  • By: Oscar Trimboli
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Deep Listening - Impact beyond words - Oscar Trimboli

By: Oscar Trimboli
  • Summary

  • The world is a noisy place where you fight to be heard every day. Despite the fact that we have been taught at home and at school how to speak, none of us has had any training in how to listen. Multiple academic studies have shown that between 50% and 55% of your working day is spent listening, yet only 2% of people have been trained in how to listen. We feel frustrated, isolated and confused because we aren't heard. As a speaker, it takes absolutely no training to notice when someone isn't listening - they're distracted, they interrupt or drift away as you talk. Yet the opposite is also true, without any training in how to listen we struggle to stay connected with the speaker and the discussion. This results in unproductive workplaces where people fight to be heard and need to repeat themselves constantly, send emails to confirm what they said and then have follow-up meetings to ensure what was said was actually heard by those in the meeting. It's a downward spiral that drains energy from every conversation and reduces the productivity of organisations. This podcast is about creating practical tips and techniques to improve your daily listening. Listen for free
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Episodes
  • how to effectively listen when you debate at work
    Aug 13 2024

    This episode delves into the critical role of listening, particularly in the context of debates and the competitive advantage provided to participants.

    Sasan Kisravi explains the significance of preparation in debate, especially when preparing both sides of the argument.

    When preparing both sides of an argument, you can discover and anticipate the counterpoints that will help you discover multiple approaches to the same issue.

    The concept of "competitive listening" is emphasized, and it is important to understand an opponent's argument and analyze its impact on the judge and audience.

    Note-taking is a crucial tool for effective listening, but there is a difference between traditional note-taking and a more strategic approach. The latter involves creating a visual map of arguments, identifying key points, and tracking the flow of the discussion.

    This method allows listeners to maintain focus, identify unaddressed points, and ultimately gain a clearer understanding of the debate.

    The conversation also touches on the psychological aspects of listening, highlighting the importance of motivation and purpose.

    By understanding the nuances of effective listening, individuals can improve their communication skills, build stronger relationships, and achieve greater success at work.

    • Listening is a competitive advantage: Effective Listening is crucial for success in debates and workplace communication.
    • Preparation is key: Understanding both sides of an argument and anticipating counterpoints is essential for effective listening and responding.
    • Note-taking is a strategic tool: Creating visual maps of arguments helps maintain focus, identify key points, and analyze the flow of the discussion.

    www.listening.com

    Where to start? Start here

    How to listen like a High Court Judge with Justice Michael Kirby

    Listen like World Memory Champion Dr Boris Konrad

    Brooklyn Debate League

    01:38:00 - The complete Munk Debate - Mainstream Media featuring Douglas Murray, Matt Taibbi, Malcolm Gladwell, Michelle Goldberg November 30, 2022

    00:47:36 The original Phuskin Industries Revisionist History Podcast Episode - Malcolm goes to debate school – complete audio episode April 13, 2023

    00:10:10 Douglas Murray on Malcolm Gladwell: "I Still Don't Feel Pity"

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    40 mins
  • the significant consequences when you can decode non-verbal cues
    Jul 11 2024

    The importance of listening at Level II, which is three-dimensional

    • hear,
    • see,
    • and sense

    Noticing nonverbal cues and their congruence with their words is a vital skill toward becoming a deeper listener.

    While these cues can be informative, it's crucial to interpret them accurately and consider the context.

    During this episode we explore noticing

    • the face,
    • posture
    • and breathing

    As we delve into the world of nonverbal cues, we are guided by Susan Constantine, Robin Dreeke, Michael Grinder and Andre Agassi. These four perspectives will create a deeper understanding by noticing, baseline and interpreting a range of non-verbals

    Finally, Agassi shares a secret about decoding Boris Becker's non-verbal signals which led to an eight-match winning streak in the 1990s.

    066: Listening to body language with Susan Constantine

    077: The secrets of listening like a spy with Robin Dreeke

    085: Hidden Secrets of how to Listen for non-verbals with Michael Grinder

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    22 mins
  • What can you learn from over 33,519 workplace listeners?
    Jun 17 2024

    Insights from 33,519 people about what gets in their way of listening and practical tips about what will imrpove your listening.

    An update on the fourth generation www.listeningquiz.com including;

      1. aggregate listening profiles for more than 10 people
      2. cross-industry benchmarking
      3. administration features to track progress of completion
      4. volume discounts for organizations
      5. volume discounts for accredited consultants

    Where to start? Start here

    Podcast Episodes Categorized by the Five Levels of Listening

    Podcast Episodes Categorized By Korn Ferry Leadership Architect™ Competencies

    Podcast Episode 046: Listen to your audience like SXSW

    How to speak so my audience will listen Danish Dhamani

    How to effectively listen to someone who is suicidal Kevin Briggs

    Zoom fatigue and exhaustion - how it negatively impacts women more with Dr Anna Carolina Muller Queiroz

    One move ahead, how to listen like a chess grandmaster - Scott Sandland

    the hidden value in your contact center and how to listen at scale with Authenticx’s Amy Brown

    Learn how to listen with the patience of a neuroscientist Dr Alison J. Barker

    Supercommunicators How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection

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    32 mins

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