Episodes

  • From the USA to Portugal - A Mom Abroad, Justine Haemmerli, Shares Her Perspective on Relocation, Marriage, Timeliness, and Kids : Episode 17
    Dec 5 2023

    Ever wondered what prompts an individual to leave the familiar behind, to uproot and start anew in a foreign land? That's exactly what we explore in our latest emotional and inspiring episode featuring our special guest and Mom Abroad, Justine Haemmerli. We journey with her from the United States to her newfound home of Lisbon, Portugal, navigating the complexities of relationships, personal loss, cultural differences, and the anxieties brought about by the shifting political landscape.

    Justine's tale is more than just an account of moving countries; it’s a personal exploration of seeking safety, acceptance, and peace in an unfamiliar environment. We discuss how the Trump presidency heightened fears and anxieties around racial inequality and drove a wedge into the fabric of society, influencing their decision to leave the US. This episode also explores how relationships shape us, the significance of empathy in our interactions, and the novel dynamics of giving and receiving advice. Justine's story is a testament to resilience, love, and the human capacity for change.

    However, the journey doesn’t end there. We delve into the joys and challenges of being outsiders trying to fit into a new cultural context. We discuss the impact of systemic racism, the beauty of learning in a new environment, and the realization of privilege. We also get to talk about the future and our shared vision as a global community. So, join us in this thought-provoking episode that is sure to provide a fresh perspective on culture, relationships, and the fundamental human experience.


    Sponsored by:
    Padel2Rent - the PADEL rackets company
    We are the "Padel rackets rental specialists".

    Special Thanks to:
    Dub FX
    Few artists embody a legendary independent status like Dub FX. Starting on the streets of Europe busking, he revolutionized the concept of a ‘one-man band’ and traditional live production. As a pioneer of viral live music videos on YouTube, DUB FX has over 100 million views collectively, has sold over a hundred thousand records, rocked major festivals all over the world, racked up 150+ million YouTube views and organically acquired 600,000 Facebook fans. All completely independently.
    Dub FX YouTube
    Dub FX Music Library

    Trigger Warning: The episodes on the Dads Abroad YouTube channel and Podcast may, at times, cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics.

    Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed in the YouTube channel and Podcast are solely the views of the individuals involved and by no means represent absolute facts. Opinions expressed by the host and guests can change at any time. Where guests appear on the YouTube channel and Podcast, the views of those guests are solely their views, and the Dads Abroad does not accept responsibility for them. Such views are the views of guests, and not Dads Abroad.

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    1 hr and 23 mins
  • A Thoughtful Interview with World-Renowned DJ Mick Batyske : Episode 16
    Nov 14 2023

    Strap yourself in as we mix it up with DJ Mick Batyske! The Dads discuss the difficulties he faced during the pandemic as a world-traveling DJ who was grounded at home with a son he dearly loves and a divorce he did not anticipate. Join us as he talks about finding new love with Carolyne (Axemanś sister-in-law) and how their connection was only strengthened while they were at home fully exposed with warts and all.

    As a Dad who truly loves his son, wonder with Mick as his new partner, Carolyne, engages fully in parenting Miles and navigating the ups and down of co-parenting with his ex-wife, whose home and lifestyle is vastly different from the home Mick and Carolyn are trying to make for Miles.

    Finally, we converse with Mick about DJing events and parties for celebrities like LeBron, Michelle Obama, DJ Jazzy Jeff, and many others and how he's able to put himself in the moment and be a great DJ.


    Sponsored by:
    Padel2Rent - the PADEL rackets company
    We are the "Padel rackets rental specialists".

    Special Thanks to:
    Dub FX
    Few artists embody a legendary independent status like Dub FX. Starting on the streets of Europe busking, he revolutionized the concept of a ‘one-man band’ and traditional live production. As a pioneer of viral live music videos on YouTube, DUB FX has over 100 million views collectively, has sold over a hundred thousand records, rocked major festivals all over the world, racked up 150+ million YouTube views and organically acquired 600,000 Facebook fans. All completely independently.
    Dub FX YouTube
    Dub FX Music Library

    Trigger Warning: The episodes on the Dads Abroad YouTube channel and Podcast may, at times, cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics.

    Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed in the YouTube channel and Podcast are solely the views of the individuals involved and by no means represent absolute facts. Opinions expressed by the host and guests can change at any time. Where guests appear on the YouTube channel and Podcast, the views of those guests are solely their views, and the Dads Abroad does not accept responsibility for them. Such views are the views of guests, and not Dads Abroad.

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    1 hr and 29 mins
  • A Deep Dive into America: Keith Knight's Experiences with Art, Fearlessness, and Systemic Racism : Episode 15
    Nov 7 2023

    The adventure we're on today with our guest, Keith Knight - artist, explorer, and thoughtful observer of the human condition, is one sizzling with deep experiences of life in the Northeast and the South. We begin with a cruise through his early life, where the influence of his Uncle Owen and his teachers set the course for his fearless approach to life, art, and business.

    Keith's narrative is like the winding road less traveled, leading us to unexpected vistas and insightful landmarks. He recounts his bold decision to immerse himself in the San Francisco art scene of the 90's and his eye-opening experience working at a youth hostel. Journey with us as we cross the ocean to explore Keith's memorable travel experiences, including a heartwarming love story that began in a German youth hostel. The trip doesn't end there. We'll traverse the landscapes of Keith's transition into fatherhood, his family's choice to homeschool his children, and his frank discussions with them about systemic racism and white privilege.

    As we speed down this narrative freeway, we'll take a few detours into the terrain of Keith's venture into real estate, his experiences with law enforcement, and the challenges of pitching a TV show. We'll make a pit stop in the midst of the pandemic, reflecting on the impact of COVID-19 on his lifestyle. And before we reach our destination, we'll explore his life in North Carolina, his views on the persistent systemic racism in America, and his steps to navigate away from gun violence. Come join us on this journey with Keith, as we explore the highways and byways of his life, and take a drive down your own path of reflection and understanding.


    Sponsored by:
    Padel2Rent - the PADEL rackets company
    We are the "Padel rackets rental specialists".

    Special Thanks to:
    Dub FX
    Few artists embody a legendary independent status like Dub FX. Starting on the streets of Europe busking, he revolutionized the concept of a ‘one-man band’ and traditional live production. As a pioneer of viral live music videos on YouTube, DUB FX has over 100 million views collectively, has sold over a hundred thousand records, rocked major festivals all over the world, racked up 150+ million YouTube views and organically acquired 600,000 Facebook fans. All completely independently.
    Dub FX YouTube
    Dub FX Music Library

    Trigger Warning: The episodes on the Dads Abroad YouTube channel and Podcast may, at times, cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics.

    Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed in the YouTube channel and Podcast are solely the views of the individuals involved and by no means represent absolute facts. Opinions expressed by the host and guests can change at any time. Where guests appear on the YouTube channel and Podcast, the views of those guests are solely their views, and the Dads Abroad does not accept responsibility for them. Such views are the views of guests, and not Dads Abroad.

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    1 hr and 57 mins
  • Does Portugal Make You Feel Welcome? Bill T. Goldstein-Brown Gives Perspective : Episode 14
    Oct 31 2023

    A candid conversation packed with nostalgia, wisdom, and a dash of adventure.

    Our guest, Bill T. Goldstein-Brown, joins Coach, Teach, and Axe, as we reminisce about childhood, discuss reconnecting with old friends, and then get deep into some of the unique challenges faced as a Black family in predominantly white environments. And navigating that on top of coming out to family and the world as a gay man in 1990s America.

    Bill has a unique outlook on the world. We talk about leaving America, the experiences he and his husband have had in this latest endevour, and the adjustments they had to make while immigrating to Portugal.

    We discuss the complexities of racism, homophobia, privilege, and the experience of Black Americans in Portugal. Whether it's dealing with the residency process amidst a pandemic or our encounters with the unique dynamics of a new culture, Bill examines how the grass isn't always greener, and the struggles and successes in integrating into the Portuguese community. We discuss his future plans, and the lessons learned from overcoming doubts and taking risks. So join us, as we journey through the life, of a fantastic human, with a unique perspective on Portugal.

    Trigger Warning: The episodes on the Dads Abroad YouTube channel and Podcast may, at times, cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics.

    Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed in the YouTube channel and Podcast are solely the views of the individuals involved and by no means represent absolute facts. Opinions expressed by the host and guests can change at any time. Where guests appear on the YouTube channel and Podcast, the views of those guests are solely their views, and the Dads Abroad does not accept responsibility for them. Such views are the views of guests, and not Dads Abroad.

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    1 hr and 37 mins
  • Bruce Willems - from Mennonite Roots to Super Dad Exploring Portugal : Episode 13
    Oct 24 2023

    Picture this: You're sitting down with local superhero Bruce Willems, and the conversation starts off on punctuality. Before you know it, you're deep into discussions about city vs. rural living, personal growth, and the complexities of navigating faith. This episode provides an insightful journey into Bruce's life and how it ultimately led him and his family to Portugal.

    We shake things up by exploring the move to a new country, rethinking societal foundations, and confronting difficult topics as they come. Bruce candidly shares his journey from his Mennonite upbringing to redefining his religious beliefs, parenting, and the challenges that come with it. As we move along, Bruce's personal anecdotes add humor and depth to our conversation, all the while using more esoteric words like "cirquecious".

    We cap off our episode with a reflection on the impacts of technology on human connections, and the role it plays in shaping our beliefs. We share our experiences with racism, tribalism and emphasize the importance of challenging our beliefs. With Bruce taking the reins, we ventured through an array of life's complex questions and found ourselves laughing, pondering and growing together. It's more than just a chat, it's a journey through life's winding paths with our local superhero and confidante, Bruce Willems.

    Trigger Warning: The episodes on the Dads Abroad YouTube channel and Podcast may, at times, cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics.

    Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed in the YouTube channel and Podcast are solely the views of the individuals involved and by no means represent absolute facts. Opinions expressed by the host and guests can change at any time. Where guests appear on the YouTube channel and Podcast, the views of those guests are solely their views, and the Dads Abroad does not accept responsibility for them. Such views are the views of guests, and not Dads Abroad.

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    2 hrs and 44 mins
  • Journey to a New Home: Navigating Family Dynamics and International Living Challenges : Episode 12
    Oct 17 2023

    Join us on a heartfelt journey as we lay bare the trials and triumphs of uprooting life from Denver, Philadelphia, and Southern California to set up home in a new country. It’s a candid, no-holds-barred exploration of the dynamics of family relationships as they’re stretched across miles, and the sacrifices made by us and our loved ones in the process. We also discuss our strategies to keep the bond alive despite the distance, with a particular focus on the restorative power of mini-breaks.

    As we share our insights into the perks and pitfalls of international living, we take an honest look at the hurdles we encountered along the way. We discuss the cultural barriers we faced, the financial constraints we grappled with, and the concerns we had about safety and family size. But it's not all serious; we chat about the heartening memories we've created with our children and the unexpected stories that now shape our lives.

    Closing the gap between our families and us while preserving our own space is a fascinating balancing act. We share our experiences of hosting loved ones in a foreign land and the importance of setting boundaries, both for ourselves and them. There's also a nod to stepping out of comfort zones and embracing new experiences, which we'll illustrate by planning a hang-gliding trip! While the challenges of living abroad are many, we've found the rewards are even greater - and we're excited to share them with you.


    Sponsored by:
    Padel2Rent - the PADEL rackets company
    We are the "Padel rackets rental specialists".

    Special Thanks to:
    Dub FX
    Few artists embody a legendary independent status like Dub FX. Starting on the streets of Europe busking, he revolutionized the concept of a ‘one-man band’ and traditional live production. As a pioneer of viral live music videos on YouTube, DUB FX has over 100 million views collectively, has sold over a hundred thousand records, rocked major festivals all over the world, racked up 150+ million YouTube views and organically acquired 600,000 Facebook fans. All completely independently.
    Dub FX YouTube
    Dub FX Music Library

    Trigger Warning: The episodes on the Dads Abroad YouTube channel and Podcast may, at times, cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics.

    Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed in the YouTube channel and Podcast are solely the views of the individuals involved and by no means represent absolute facts. Opinions expressed by the host and guests can change at any time. Where guests appear on the YouTube channel and Podcast, the views of those guests are solely their views, and the Dads Abroad does not accept responsibility for them. Such views are the views of guests, and not Dads Abroad.

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    46 mins
  • From Strangers to Friends: Building Relationships in Portugal : Episode 11
    Oct 10 2023

    Ever felt like you're in the middle of a complex social puzzle while trying to fit into a novel culture? Imagine being an American in Portugal and facing the giant wall that is a language barrier, or the cultural shift that occurs when you realize the Portuguese have no vegetables :-). This episode is an inside look at our adventures and misadventures, a raw narration of our experiences, as we navigate through the cultural labyrinth that is Portugal as we first experienced it.

    The Portuguese family, with its close-knit culture, can be quite a challenge to penetrate. However, our struggle to form relationships with our neighbors has led us to beautiful stories of kindness that will melt your heart. Sharing our experiences, we discuss how an exchange student from Canada staying with our neighbor became a turning point in our relationship with them, and how it has improved since.

    Making friends in a new country is always a thrilling roller coaster ride, especially when you factor in differing views on physical contact with children, language barriers, and established social circles. As we share our experiences with Portuguese and other cultures, the episode navigates through the nuances of creating new relationships and the challenges we faced in building a community in a new place. Wrapping up the episode, we discuss the hurdles and strategies of learning Portuguese, reflecting on the importance of the correct accent and the difficulties encountered when locals switch to English while interacting with non-native speakers. So buckle up and join us on this enlightening journey as we navigate the intricacies of Portuguese society, culture, and language.


    Sponsored by:
    Padel2Rent - the PADEL rackets company
    We are the "Padel rackets rental specialists".

    Special Thanks to:
    Dub FX
    Few artists embody a legendary independent status like Dub FX. Starting on the streets of Europe busking, he revolutionized the concept of a ‘one-man band’ and traditional live production. As a pioneer of viral live music videos on YouTube, DUB FX has over 100 million views collectively, has sold over a hundred thousand records, rocked major festivals all over the world, racked up 150+ million YouTube views and organically acquired 600,000 Facebook fans. All completely independently.
    Dub FX YouTube
    Dub FX Music Library

    Trigger Warning: The episodes on the Dads Abroad YouTube channel and Podcast may, at times, cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics.

    Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed in the YouTube channel and Podcast are solely the views of the individuals involved and by no means represent absolute facts. Opinions expressed by the host and guests can change at any time. Where guests appear on the YouTube channel and Podcast, the views of those guests are solely their views, and the Dads Abroad does not accept responsibility for them. Such views are the views of guests, and not Dads Abroad.

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    46 mins
  • Bernardo Nascimento Discusses Navigating Identity, Cultural Integration, and Marriage & Divorce, Part 2 : Episode 10
    Oct 3 2023

    In part 2 of the Dads' interview with Bernardo Nascimento, an award-winning Portuguese Director and Writer, listen as they navigate the winding roads of cultural integration and prejudice. Bernardo sketches the captivating narrative of his and Sadia's move from the buzzing metropolis of London to the more low-key and less diverse culture within Portugal. Unveiling the unique trials they faced, their story serves as a mirror reflecting the profound impact of language barriers, cultural differences, and racial prejudices on the experience of settling in a foreign land.

    Brace yourself for an enlightening exploration into the complex tapestry of our identities and the cultural edicts we sail through daily. Experience firsthand the significance of education in unmasking and combating racism, and ponder upon the monumental battles waged for the sake of others. Bernardo guides us through Sadia's struggles as a black, Muslim woman integrating into a less postmodern society, a poignant portrayal of the harsh realities of ignorance and prejudice.


    Special Thanks to:
    Director/Writer Bernardo Nascimento who directed the award-wining film, North Atlantic. The film can be found at the link below:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aScwR4tmFmI

    Sponsored by:
    Padel2Rent - the PADEL rackets company
    We are the "Padel rackets rental specialists".

    Special Thanks to:
    Dub FX
    Few artists embody a legendary independent status like Dub FX. Starting on the streets of Europe busking, he revolutionized the concept of a ‘one-man band’ and traditional live production. As a pioneer of viral live music videos on YouTube, DUB FX has over 100 million views collectively, has sold over a hundred thousand records, rocked major festivals all over the world, racked up 150+ million YouTube views and organically acquired 600,000 Facebook fans. All completely independently.
    Dub FX YouTube
    Dub FX Music Library

    Trigger Warning: The episodes on the Dads Abroad YouTube channel and Podcast may, at times, cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics.

    Disclaimer: The views, information, or opinions expressed in the YouTube channel and Podcast are solely the views of the individuals involved and by no means represent absolute facts. Opinions expressed by the host and guests can change at any time. Where guests appear on the YouTube channel and Podcast, the views of those guests are solely their views, and the Dads Abroad does not accept responsibility for them. Such views are the views of guests, and not Dads Abroad.

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    47 mins